I am spending the weekend with this girl and I need advice?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve met a great gal off tinder we’ve had a good first date but we’re talking about spending the weekend together, she has already told me she loved me and wants to have sex but I’m a little worried about my safety in regards to this now she has told me she has insecurity issues and also she got out of a not so great relationship not long ago, she seems amazing but I don't know what should I do?

[Selene1600000]

That’s a situation where you should slow things down, not speed them up, especially since she’s talking about love and sex very early and also has recent relationship baggage. You are not wrong to feel cautious, because intense early attachment plus insecurity can sometimes lead to emotional pressure, confusion, or unstable expectations on both sides. If you still want to see her, keep the weekend plans in public or partially structured settings, set clear boundaries about sex, and only move forward if you feel calm, respected, and not pressured in any way.

[888theGreat]

Don't be shocked when she presents a bill for services rendered