How do I ask this girl out and not creep her out?

[Anonymous]

We've been texting for a few days and we already knew each other before

[thatshydork]

I need more info in order to give you the best advice I can. For example, how are her responses when you text? Does she continue the conversation or are her responses more like “sure”, “I’m good, thanks for asking”, “no”, “yes”, “ok” (I do this when I’m not interested in carrying on a conversation at that moment but I don’t want to be rude)? When you talk to her, does she show signs of being uncomfortable? Also, don’t do what this one guy did to me where he said hi to me only after finding me on social media without ever messaging me and tried to hug me and ignored the fact that I was trying to read and then did the same thing until I just started outright ignoring him (it was way more creepy then I’m making it out to be).

[Viola_456]

If you feel like She trusts you a bit already just normally and politly ask her. And invite her to some public space She won't feel safe coming to your house... Dont even ask like "Can we see each other? or Can we go out? " Tell her specifically you want to go to restaurant, cinema or anything public. I would find it hard to answer if i dont know where we are going.

[SolitarySolace]

You’re going to creep get it regardless. I had to deal with an ex parte PPO the last time I attempted to ask a girl out. Haven’t had a relationship in 9 years by choice because of that shit. But hey if you really wanna live under a woman’s boot forever go for it

[BadApple69]

That's easy. “Hey, I'm going xxxxx (put place here) and thought you might enjoy it. Would you like to go? “


To start off with don't make her think this is a date... It's just a friendly outing that you were doing anyway.

[WhitneySnow]

Just come straight out and ask her. If you already know each other and you’ve been texting for a few days that’s fine.

[RebelinSteel]

Just ask her in a fun casual way, don’t make it a big drama moment

[Anonymous]

U wanna pick her up and pay for a movie? What u have in mind?

[Asker]

No. I wanna know her better during conversation. No movie

[Opinion Owner]

U can do that as friends too

[spartan55]

Friends... that's not the goal here...

[Opinion Owner]

@spartan55 then don’t behave like one

[spartan55]

@OpinionOwner
How is he doing the friendship tip? He is asking how to not come off that way.

[Opinion Owner]

@spartan55 take her out pay for her , show her u are willing to provide

[spartan55]

Like provide a free meal?

[Opinion Owner]

@spartan55 movie restaurant gift can be anything wuss

[spartan55]

@OpinionOwner
Who tf are you talking to pink anon? What a surprise... go crawl back under your rock and find your free ride there.

[Opinion Owner]

@spartan55 wuss , sensed

[zagor]

Unless she's 13 and you're 45, it shouldn't creep her out if you ask her out in a respectful way.

[bobby_bush_eater]

Follow her around, corner her in slow emotionless movements, maintain eye contact and say nothing... then ask her out

[gorydetails]

Hey (her name) I think you're very cool and want to take you on a date. Are you free on Friday or Saturday?

[BruceJender]

Ask her when she's free next week and go from there. If she doesn't give or find a day to meet up, move on.

[DreamLife7]

Just say," hey there's this movie I've been wanting to see called "blah" and I'm starving do you want to go?"

[DreamLife7]

That way you're asking her but it's just not aggressive

[AngryCarl]

If you've been texting back and forth she doesn't consider you creepy. Just give her a time and place.

[Anonymous]

You have already got it all wrong. Texting is creepy.

[JayBones]

You don't. Mail-order brides from Indonesia is the way to go 1000%

[spartan55]

Don't do it by text. You're welcome.

[captain_voidwalker]

Have lots and lots of money.

[laly520]

ask nicely

[noohair]

Coffee or Tea?