I met this guy off of Bumble back in December of 2023. We went on a date on the 22nd of December. From then on out we've been talking everyday and hanging out every weekend.
About two or three weekends ago I confessed to having feelings for him and he confessed to having feelings for me back. He's just the kind of person that wants to take things slow before getting into a relationship. So we're just friends that have feelings for each other for now.
Yesterday (Wednesday, March 13th, 2024) we went to see the Bob Marley movie. There were plenty of moments where I just wanted to grab his hand or lay my head on his shoulder, but I was too afraid to because I didn't wanna ruin what we have between us. Plus, the both of us are shy so making the first move is a little difficult right now.
My question is how do I go about making the first move without ruining anything him and I have, especially as a girl? Because we all know that it's usually the guys that make the first move and not the girls. But since him and I are both shy (him being more shy than me though), how do I go about making the first move; and what would be the best move to make?
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