How do I get to him make the first move?

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

I have a huge crush on my friend, and we are so close. He calls me sweet names all the time like (love, babe...) and he keeps teasing me sexually. His closest friend said to my friend that he talks about me all the time, but he still won't make the first move. I want to turn him on and get him to confess his feeling. How should I do this?

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i am not trying to turn him on to get him confess his feelings. i think i worded that sentence wrong

[SnowedIn]

You don't. You make the first move. Be bold and be confident. Guys like that. Based on what you've said, he'll respond the way you want. If he doesn't, he wasn't (isn't) going to make the move in the first place.

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

you're right, thank you

[SnowedIn]

Best wishes!

[boggboss]

U think turning him on will make him confess his feelings

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

yes, because if he confesses his feelings something sexual will happen too

[boggboss]

Lol that type of behaviour is what makes guys claim they have feelings ti get sex lol good luck

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

ok hahahahah

[boggboss]

But u said if he confesses his feelings u will do somthing sexual what else could that mean

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

i think i worded that sentence incorrectly. what i meant was, i want him to confess his feelings so that we can do sexual stuff. because i am extremely attracted to him

[boggboss]

Thats the same meaning if all he has to do is say he likes u and now u can do sexual stuff you are baiting yourself out

[CanadianLearner]

Maybe you could go indirectly at it.

If you can trust the closest friend, then ask him to to encourage the guy to make a move, without telling him directly what you want.

[alexzclark]

If he is teasing you sexually he has already made a move to some extent you should make a move

[JPresidente]

Wrestle him to the ground, get on top of him, put your face close to his and say “Is there something you wanna share with me?”

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

but we usually see each other out in public

[JPresidente]

Then try and wait for a private moment or create a private moment. It would be easier for him in a private moment.

[JPresidente]

Hope it worked it out for you.

[tzdc21]

Why don't YOU make the first move then? Why wait for him? You like him, you want him, so go get him.

[DailyAsk]

Hug him by accident or something.

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

we do all the time

[DailyAsk]

For how long!
I mean hug him for long, when he tires going back keep hugging him.

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

ok i definitely will! thank you

[Zolly99999]

What's wrong with you making the first move?

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

i am just afraid of getting rejected (even tho i probably won't be) and i have never made the first move before, so i don't really know how to do it

[Zolly99999]

And thats how guys feel too. . it's very difficult for us too.. the chances of a girl being rejected are much lower.

[Anonymous]

My guess is your stubborn and adamant like the majority of women still are and probably always will be when it comes to this gender dynamic

[CruelSun7]

Why not you go and make the first move?

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

i think we both can't get past our egos

[CruelSun7]

If you really want him, then you should give up on your ego and ask him out. Is it just worth it?

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

yes it definitely is. thank you

[CruelSun7]

Then go for it. What could happen the worst? He would reject you and at least then you would know that he is not into you and you can move on.

[BarryLiverstone]

What’s the first move?

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

tbh i don't know either

[BarryLiverstone]

Lol then why ask about getting him to do it?

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

because I don't know, that's why i asked. what i mean by first move is him confessing his feelings, or making out

[BarryLiverstone]

He has no motivation to confess any feelings. Will kiss you when you suggest it

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

well what i am saying is, he has the intention of confessing but i rejected him a lot by joke in the past so we are struggling with getting past our egos

[In_Trance]

You don't get him to do anything

[omgwhocaresaboutmee]

hahhah ok

[Anonymous]

Wear something sexy and sit on his lap.