How to get him to make the first move?

[Anonymous]

There is this guy who i think likes me, he is always staring at me, walking next to me and accidentally touching me. He also sometimes smiles at me or raise his eyebrows, but we dont really talk. I can't talk to him because i get too nervous, maybe he doesn't like me or maybe he is nervous too. How to get him to make the first move?

[QuickToAsk]

Well, to answer your question, you have to use choosing signals. You have to smile, be pleasant, look super approachable/super friendly. You may be too nervous, but this is how it works. Now, let's get down to what I really want to talk about: You making the first move instead. He's already giving you choosing signals of his own. In a way, he's already making the first move. He's seeing if you'll do something back to see if you like him. Don't worry, he won't run for the hills if you say "Hi. How are you?" The way you say he's acting, he'll totally be receptive. He's literally giving you the go-ahead to talk to him. You say "maybe he doesn't like me". Well, after everything you've said he does, why would he not like you? These aren't things that someone does if they don't like you, right? Also, you gotta approach it as making a friend, not a boyfriend. Nothing cringe will happen if you just say hi & start a conversation. If this is happening in school, say "Hi. How's it going?" He'll answer, then you say "What classes do you have? Oh, really? Do you have Mr. Henderson's class? Yeah, his tests are kinda hard. I have Mr Jackson's class next,. He's really funny." Then, next time you see him, move onto "Hey, do you like Olivia Rodrigo? What bands are you into? Yeah, I like them, too. They're cool." or "Huh? I never heard of them. What songs do they sing?" or "Hey, do you play Fortnite?"Do this stuff & you're all set. Good luck!

[Summeroflove]

You can’t… You can flirt back with him but you can’t make him do anything really. He’s probably as nervous as you are (if not more). If you wait too long it’s possible he could loose interest. You know crushes can come and go… If you want to see him with another girl that’s gonna be a sad day for you.

You know there is a good chance that he likes you. Even in the chance he rejects you. Now you have closure. You know now that you can move on and either he is playing games or there is something else going on. You aren’t wasting time on him.

I would just make a move if you’re into him.

[Booklover_90]

If he likes you, he’ll approach you. You can’t force someone to approach you.

[laly520]

u dont get him

either he will do it willingly or u do it urself

[godfatherfan]

And he is thinking the exact same thing. I love how woman want the guy to do everything first, but they refuse to make the first move also. You either have to take things into your own hands, or you need to make it clear to him that you will be receptive to him asking you out.

[genericname85]

"i can't talk to him cause i'm too nervous". if everyone thought like that, we'd all stay forever single :D just saying that so you might wanna rethink your choice to "magically get him to do it" and just go and get it yourself. why put in a line and sinker to hope that from all the fish the one that you wanted will bite instead of just going and spear fishing the exact one that you wanted? :D

[Bobby88t]

You are too nervous both! I mssed a nice girl because of this i couldnt talk. Just say something to him and have fun

[Anonymous]

He won't, it's the MeToo era where approaching a women is a capital offence

[slatyb]

"hey, why haven't you asked me out?"

[Anonymous]

Do it yourself.

[OddBeMe]

By you making the first move.

[Anonymous]

Another reminder oh well

[riverrat3]

Why dont you do it