I have a crush on a guy from college. How to make the first move?

[Anonymous]

I had this whole semester to smile at him or do almost anything to express my interest in him but we only maintained eye contact and nothing happened. This week is the last of the semester which means I won’t see him for months. Can you give me some advice whether to forget him or do something?

[Anonymous]

Go for it, I think otherwise you’ll think about it and regret it your entire holiday. If you confess and he rejects you then at least you’ve got a good chunk of time to shake it off. I think I’m either case though you’d be proud of your confidence.

[Asker]

Thank you for your advice. What do you think what should I do?

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever makes you most comfortable! Don’t overthink it either otherwise you’ll keep talking yourself out of it.

[DryGermanGuy]

Just walk up to the guy and ask him to have a coffee or lunch with you.

[Asker]

Okay guys, I think it’s over, I won’t have any chance for a couple of months to see him again. We won’t have uni this week, I am so sad.

[Anonymous]

Do something about. You never know if you will get another chance.

[Asker]

Okay guys, I think it’s over, I won’t have any chance for a couple of months to see him again. We won’t have uni this week, I am so sad.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Ask him out, like if he wants to grab a bite or coffee

[Asker]

Okay guys, I think it’s over, I won’t have any chance for a couple of months to see him again. We won’t have uni this week, I am so sad.

[ThrillSeeker01]

I'm sorry

[John_Cobretti]

I bet you have his number right?

[John_Cobretti]

Like through a group or something?

[Asker]

Okay guys, I think it’s over, I won’t have any chance for a couple of months to see him again. We won’t have uni this week, I am so sad.

[John_Cobretti]

I hope this was not the last sem

[Asker]

Nope. We will have another one. But I wanna see him.😔

[John_Cobretti]

Well if you have his number... ask for a date !

[Asker]

I don’t have his number.

[John_Cobretti]

Get it from a mutual friend if possible!

[Asker]

We don’t have any mutual friends.

[John_Cobretti]

OH that's sad.. not same class?

[Asker]

Nope.:( I know him by sight. And also know his name but he doesn’t know mine so it would be strange to just add him on social media. I really dunno what to do. Maybe nothing?

[John_Cobretti]

Oh then I guess you need to get close to him in real life so that at least he knows your name..
SO.. uh..,. maybe you'll have to wait for next sem.. but I am sure it'll be worth it...
Well there's an idea which I am not sure.. if you ever find yourself daring you can add him on social media and just make things direct !

[Asker]

I am such a huge mess. I had this whole semester to make a move, smile at him or just do an act of kindness to him but no, no, no. It was easier to just look at him and doing nothing except wondering what if… Omg, if you would know how much I hate myself for this right now!
Oh, and thank you for your advice but I don’t think I will ever have enough courage and confidence to approach him.

[John_Cobretti]

Haha but don't hate yourself it's completely normal... you have time to prepare yourself to rock it in the next sem... Good luck!

[Anonymous]

Interesting question

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because girls normally will never approach a guy or just will never make a move on a guy they like