How do men know that they found the right women to fall in love with?

[thundercloud]

The reason why I'm asking this question is because I wanted to know how do men know that they found the right women to fall in love with and please no inappropriate opinions and please appropriate opinions

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

With my wife, there's a gazillion little things. It's not like one thing.

One of the things that distinguished her from my exes is that she almost never gets upset or offended. She's a practiced Buddhist and has a near Zen-like mastery of inner peace and joy. It's almost superhuman to the point where I was in disbelief for the first few months of dating that she never got upset even one time. We've been married for 14 years now and I have only seen her cry 3 times, for example, and all over major traumas that would likely make even the toughest people in the world shed some tears in private like the loss of a dear loved one.

Another is that she just goes out of her way to do kind things for me all the time.

One of the early ones is that I had a Birthday early into dating her and my friends cheered me as I drank shots and I went completely overboard; I mean to the point where I was vomiting in the toilet and could barely stand. All of my exes almost certainly would have become upset and maybe even ditched me at my party face-planted on the floor in my own vomit.

Meanwhile, my wife (just my new girlfriend at the time) slung me over her shoulder, hailed a taxi back to her apartment, slung me over her shoulder again and carried me into her apartment, and then put me in her tiny bed and tucked me in. Then while I was passed out, she went shopping for all sorts of hangover foods and medicine. This was already like 3 AM in the morning. She then slept on her couch and went to work several hours later.

I woke up in her apartment and found the bag full of hangover foods and medicines with a letter on it saying she hopes I feel better with a heart. I was so amazed.

There are just so many things like this that made me realize she is so extraordinary compared to every single girlfriend I ever had. It became a no-brainer at some point that I'd be a fool not to marry her.

[boggboss]

Definitely sounds like u got a keeper mate nice 1

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@boggboss I'm a very lucky man and cheers! 🤝

[austinbooth]

Well I say you're huge support, we're both Christian, and you never let me down.

[OlderAndWiser]

I have never found a woman, decided that she was the right one, then decided to fall in love.

I have found a few women who I dated long term because I thought they were good women and, eventually, I fell in love with them.

[Wetdreamz]

I think a lot of people, both men and women can tend to say, "I love you", loosely, and may even do the same with 'I'm in love with you" But the truth is neither of these two from what I've experienced and seen with other men, are the greatest indicators of the relationship ever getting through all the stages that lead up to the man, not just proposing, but actually saying, "I do". Rather I've felt and been told by other men that they knew they weren't ever going to marry the girl and it often is traced back to a specific moment that you may not even remember, but from that moment they crossed that possibility off but stayed for a number of different reasons.

[boggboss]

I asked myself the question would I be happy with her being my last ever partner do I trust her and do I see her making a good mother and addition to my family

[Somoneelse]

I have no idea. For me the difference between love and crush is difficult to see. I only had two women who I tought to have fallen in love with. But not long after I realised it was just a short-term crush and I lost interest.

[JacobJordan]

Simple... we don't. We think we did we propose and pray we didn't make a horrible choice. Lot of women change after the ring and even more after the wedding and it is not good

[KrakenAttackin]

@jacobjordan Yes, this.

[worldscolide]

A multitude of ways. For example, my wife was the only one that visited me in the hospital when my wisdom teeth almost killed me. And this was after date number 1. We have been married 10 years now.

[Truthatanycost]

They don't... that's why they should find one through God and seek His wisdom.

[Anonymous]

You never fully know. Guys are making thier best guess with incomplete information, same as women. The ONLY advantage men have? Men are generally better at trusting our heads over our hearts.

[SolitarySolace]

The truth is they don't. It's a huge risk. Which I why I stopped trying.

[grega239]

I guess they trust their gut and hope its not wrong

[MrDaveAPSI]

When she doesn't cause problems for him. She's making his life easier and better, not harder and worse