What do you think about dating single mom?

[Sameone]

Today in my favorite coffee shop i see a new waiters she was really attractive and beautiful so when i ask the owner about her he tell me she 25 y. o and new in city and she is single mom. ( Girl 20 months ).
So i didn't aske her for any thing or talk to her.
So what do you think guys?

Updates

2 mo

I ask her today. To go on date And see said i really want toWe are going the next weekend. For dinner

[Anonymous]

I think dating a single mom is in majority of cases is a very bad idea. Women like to play up thier victim status. They chose the wrong guy blah, blah, blah. The REALITY is she has a brain, and she chose not to use it. Do you really want to date a woman like that? Self respect! You can't be a quality guy if you don't respect yourself. Equally, you cannot respect her if you do not respect yourself. And choosing a single mom in most cases show a man's lack of respect for himself.

Now thier are rare cases where it's OK such as she's a widower. In that case it truly wasn't her fault (unless of course she was crazy and killed him😆).

[ManOnFire]

It can be tricky. I dated one when I was a young guy, and pursued another later on. Both did not end well. That's not to say all single moms are red flags - and I have single-mom friends, but I do know there is a good number of other cases like mine. I would just say be careful and really get to know her as well as you can. Some of them are just looking for someone on the side to help her and her kids while she sleeps with other men, or some have deep emotional issues that can be projected onto you. Neither situation is what you want. As I said, just be careful.

[Sameone]

Thank you
I will take your advice 🤍

[ManOnFire]

Thanks

[laly520]

if I was a guy n she was a good woman n by good I mean a woman who would have same morals n values as me then I would date her but if she is on playing side of sleeping around or having hookups then big no from me

[Sameone]

So do you think i have to try whit her?

[laly520]

if she is a good person then why not

[LaurenM1997]

If you want to go for it go for it don’t hold back

[Mark987]

I have and as long as she is emotionally and ready to date? I would say go for it. We had an amazing 2 year relationship, and her daughter was adorable.

[Sameone]

So what happened between you?

[Mark987]

We met through mutual friends... and we hit it off amazing. One of the best relationships I ever had. She was very mature. We were at different parts in our life that's why we broke up

[JacobJordan]

She should be with the man that knocked her up. But reality is she probably wanted to fuck him but then realized he would make a awful father so fled and is now looking for a beta man who will save her from her stupid choices

[OtterMan68]

do you have things in common? Does she have what you're looking for in a girlfriend? Then why not?

[Sameone]

I didn't even talk to her yet

All i know about her she is single mom

[OtterMan68]

Would her having a kid be a deal breaker?

[NathanDavis]

I've went out with one, before

[Sameone]

How was your experience

[NathanDavis]

as great as the other women I've met as well

[riverrat3]

Could be my soul mate

[Sameone]

Really
So how was your experience

[riverrat3]

I married a single mom

[Sameone]

Wow impressive
So did you find any problem whit her children or whit her

[riverrat3]

No more than any other girl

[dean53AU]

I've dated a couple

[Sameone]

What do you mean exactly 🤔

[dean53AU]

A couple of different single mums

[Sameone]

Ohh okay
How was your experience with them?

[dean53AU]

It was good

[Sameone]

And you didn't find problem whit her children or something

[dean53AU]

Occasionally but nothing bad