Why does getting a girlfriend get harder in early 20s than before?

[Anonymous]

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe women like men with a strong sense of direction and a lot of men have not figured out who they are or what they want to do or how they will do it at age 20. As you get older and more secure in the market, your prospects grow cause a woman does not want to build you up the way your family does, a woman wants a finished product that is already built up by others that she can celebrate and start a family with and live with.

[LazerBean]

I don't know, but maybe Bc you aren't in highschool, daily surrounded by girls your age anymore

[Bricealan]

Don't think it does... not for me any way... dating - attraction slows after that usually when a guy gets older

[SolitarySolace]

Because by that point girls already have a boyfriend and are already on their way towards getting married.

[In_Trance]

It doesn't