Is it rude for a guy to ask to cut in when my girlfriend and I are dancing?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend and I were dancing and a guy asked if he could cut in on it.

[slatyb]

Seems very weird to me. Dancing in a club is not a meeting of eligible singles. Even in dance meetups people change partners in the intervals.

[Asker]

He seemed like he had no one to dance with.

[slatyb]

Where was this? Often there are single woman in clubs.

[Night_Descends]

Yeah, I'd find it rude. How did your girlfriend react to it?

[Asker]

She was caught off guard but didn't get mad about it.

[Night_Descends]

Did she refuse him?

[Asker]

Nope.

[Night_Descends]

That's disrespectful.

[Asker]

She asked me if I was okay with it first.

[Night_Descends]

Right. So were you okay with it?

[Asker]

Yeah, I was, she was trying to be nice because the dude seemed lonely. I went off to dance with her sister, and then we met back on the dance floor later.

[Night_Descends]

Cool. Seems like everyone involved was okay with it.

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... she put you on the fucking spot im front of this guy. I would have a direct talk with her about this.

[KrakenAttackin]

I would politely but firmly tell him no.

[Asker]

She wanted to, but checked with me first.

[butterly248]

Yes. Tell him to back off!

[Billlewis]

What was her reaction when this took place?

[Asker]

She was caught off guard by it, but didn't seem totally against it.

[Billlewis]

Is there any possibility that he'll be able to contact her going forward,? If not, then it's probably just an unnerving moment.

[Asker]

Nope.

[Billlewis]

Then you more than likely don't have anything to worry about.

[Asker]

Yeah, guess so. She did dance with him to be nice, but made sure I was okay with it. I went to go dance with her sister.

[Anonymous]

Yes it's rude. Did u let him?

[Asker]

Yes.

[jahaims]

Lol cuck

[jahaims]

You both let him