Good news is that women learn these things rub guys the wrong way as they get older (usually) the same way that men learn about the various things that rub women the wrong way as they get older (usually)
I had a similar experience when I was 16 and it ended the same way.
People are dumb (men and women) when they are young.
If you had a talk with her about being in a serious relationship/loyal to each other before she did it then it's 100% on her. If you never had that talk then it's 50% on her and 50% on you for taking her any more seriously than you would a hooker walking down the street.
Dancing is not a problem. Not asking your permission and twerking IS. That is whorish and you need to dump her asap and NEVER take her BACK! Period. That's a hoe move! And thank God you DID break up with her! Good for you! We need more men like you!
depends if that was her first time doing that then maybe tell her also... she may have been drunk however, tbh I wouldn't do that drunk so it depends on the person, but you shouldn't have dumped her in a club
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It is up to you two to have standards as to whether it is ok.
Of course twerking is sexual so that is pretty blatantly a relationship offense and only those with the loosest values and standards would fine with twerking on another and letting their mate do it to the other sex.
If you do not want you mate dances with others then tell them early on and if they do not agree and push back and announce they want to dance with others and plan to then don't date them. Date who you are compatible with.
Talk out boundaries.
A formal dance with a friend at a wedding is ok... but clubbing and drinking and dancing with guys there... no.
Talk out boundaries.
Dance with a guy in general? Yes okay. As long as it's platonic.
It's possible that this wasn't meant to be taken as a sexual thing. Coming from a girl just randomly twirking whenever (on your friends too) is normal.
You should have a talk with her to figure out what happened. TALK ABOUT YOUR BOUNDARIES!! If you're not comfortable with your partner doing that they should know!! You can't expect them to have the same opinions/boundaries as you. S
what I'm trying to say is there's a possibility that she didn't mean to hurt your feelings.
No
Do what u want
It’s a free world, be free
Within reason
Twerking on other guys is hardly murder
I don’t even understand why it’s the general rule of thumb to only be allowed one boyfriend at a time anyway, who invented that rule?
Why not a max limit of 16?
Depends on the type of dance. If she was a dancer or there was an event and there was choreography I wouldn't mind even if it was sexy and dirty dancing involved. If it were random like I found out she did some spicy dancing on a girls night out then I'm not going to be happy.
if she knows you and her are together and exclusive , then it is wrong for her to dance or do anything that you may not go along with or may hurt your feelings ! she is just not your type of girl ! thanks
I definitely think its wrong, her making you feel embarrassed and hurting your feelings. Although her dancing isn't a huge problem her crossing boundaries is.
Dancing is fine. Twerking or grinding up on another guy is not cool though. I have a feeling she would be jealous if another girl was rubbing up against you. There should not be a double standard.
this is nice. a couple years ago every female reply on here would say "she can do whatever she wants and you're just being a jealous jerk. It's just dancing and just because she's grinding her ass on some guys rock hard cock on the dance floor while simulating sex moves doesn't mean it's sexual. " Nice to see females finally getting it. Sad it took so many years.
It’d be wrong of me to dance with another girl if I was in a relationship. So why would it be ok for my girl to dance with another guy?
It wouldn’t be.
It is very wrong that she did that. First off she's in a relationship and just shouldn't have. and secondly, that's a pretty sexual act to do. I am sorry that happened to you, But I think you did handle it in the correct way.
I said No it's ok but it really depends on the type of dancing and seriousness of the relationship for me.
Yeah, she didn't love you, sadly. She probably only loves herself.
no its OK... CAUSE THATS THE NIGHT IM FUCKING HER FRIEND AND ONE OF HER CLOSE RELATIVES AND ONE OF HER PETS IF SHE DOSENT HAVE A PET WE ARE GOING THE NEXT DAY TO A SHELTER AND ADOPTING ONE SO I CAN FUCK IT THE SECOUND SHE CROSSES THIS LINE IT THE SECOND YOU CHEAT. EVEN IF SHE IS FAITHFUL SHE WILL TAKE THIS AS CONSENT LATER WHEN SHE IS NOT IN YOUR PRESENTS THEN SHE WILL CHEAT
it absolutely is. and girls that do that, will notice that this behavior lets her not find a quality parter.
Depends on their relationship.
And depends on dance style.
I don't blame you.
She could have done even more than what meets the eye.
No cuckoldry!
Yeah, can't say I blame you for dumping her. What else might she have done that night?
Well would you like another girl rubbing up on you while in a relationship
It depends on what kind of dance, like if your name is Caroline, and they are playing Sweet Caroline, even if you have a guy or a girl (no judging), everyone will want to dance with you.
very
and she's likely just doing it to make you jealous
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