My girlfriend went to a house party 2 months ago. One of her friends just posted that party on IG. I saw my girlfriend twerking on a guy, similar to what Miley did with Robin Thicke. I was really hurt and embarrassed. I broke up her immediately!!!
Good news is that women learn these things rub guys the wrong way as they get older (usually) the same way that men learn about the various things that rub women the wrong way as they get older (usually)
I had a similar experience when I was 16 and it ended the same way.
People are dumb (men and women) when they are young.
If you had a talk with her about being in a serious relationship/loyal to each other before she did it then it's 100% on her. If you never had that talk then it's 50% on her and 50% on you for taking her any more seriously than you would a hooker walking down the street.
Dancing is not a problem. Not asking your permission and twerking IS. That is whorish and you need to dump her asap and NEVER take her BACK! Period. That's a hoe move! And thank God you DID break up with her! Good for you! We need more men like you!
nerdybutlazy | 156 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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depends if that was her first time doing that then maybe tell her also... she may have been drunk however, tbh I wouldn't do that drunk so it depends on the person, but you shouldn't have dumped her in a club
Miristheiss | 1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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It is up to you two to have standards as to whether it is ok. Of course twerking is sexual so that is pretty blatantly a relationship offense and only those with the loosest values and standards would fine with twerking on another and letting their mate do it to the other sex.
If you do not want you mate dances with others then tell them early on and if they do not agree and push back and announce they want to dance with others and plan to then don't date them. Date who you are compatible with.
Talk out boundaries. A formal dance with a friend at a wedding is ok... but clubbing and drinking and dancing with guys there... no.
Talk out boundaries.
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Dance with a guy in general? Yes okay. As long as it's platonic. It's possible that this wasn't meant to be taken as a sexual thing. Coming from a girl just randomly twirking whenever (on your friends too) is normal. You should have a talk with her to figure out what happened. TALK ABOUT YOUR BOUNDARIES!! If you're not comfortable with your partner doing that they should know!! You can't expect them to have the same opinions/boundaries as you. S what I'm trying to say is there's a possibility that she didn't mean to hurt your feelings.
Depends on the type of dance. If she was a dancer or there was an event and there was choreography I wouldn't mind even if it was sexy and dirty dancing involved. If it were random like I found out she did some spicy dancing on a girls night out then I'm not going to be happy.
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MissDawn7961 | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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if she knows you and her are together and exclusive , then it is wrong for her to dance or do anything that you may not go along with or may hurt your feelings ! she is just not your type of girl ! thanks
I definitely think its wrong, her making you feel embarrassed and hurting your feelings. Although her dancing isn't a huge problem her crossing boundaries is.
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WalterBlack | 442 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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Dancing is fine. Twerking or grinding up on another guy is not cool though. I have a feeling she would be jealous if another girl was rubbing up against you. There should not be a double standard.
People with common sense because you will never be able to find an actual healthy relationship with many guys swarming over you when they can just cheat on you it will never be healthy and you will never feel actually 100% loved and devoted to with setting up boundaries. You may be free but that doesn't mean that's the right decision. Unless you are only in it for the fun and not for the commitment or actual love rather than attraction which is physical and leaves you both in a matter of 2 months. It's true because there will always be someone in the relationship who will be loved less if it's open. So that's only good for a relationship that isn't meant to be a relationship that's actually long term or serious. Also you can affect the guy you are with by hurting him only being attracted to him and going off with so many other different guys to do just that. So you are not only showing that you aren't ready for commitment but you are also showing that you don't care about their feelings if you gave them the idea that in your relationship that you actually loved them.
@SuzuBrooke when ur a person like me who has no feelings and doesn’t give a fuck if your “cheated on” It’s perfectly fine for a guy to screw other girls, we don’t care
It’s only the sensitive weeping hearts that get hurt by it that it bothers
Guys who feel unnatractive for being treated on and jealous... jus need to toughen up and get over it, I too used to be hurt when a guy cheated on me, I thought I was not attractive enough for him... eventually I grew some balls n stopped caring and realised it’s in a guy nature to wanna bang loads of girls and has nothing to Do with being unnatractive
And so this proves that you are a seeing both sides of what you say as you say other people don't care you obviously do because you had to get in such a tough situation before yet you do it as well knowing that pain. That's basically following that horrible person's example that did that to you girl. Got to show you are different from an jerk like him. I'm sorry that happened to you honey that seems to be a bad event but not all people are like that never judge books by their covers everyone's different. You just met an asshole apparently. And I wasn't judging you but basing logical conclusions on how open relationships work out. It's nearly impossible for there to be commitment in open relationships so therefore it'll be hard for you if that's what you are looking for also I was sort of worked up so sorry about that. That's the thing people stop caring. In a world where people don't care about anybody hardly it needs some compassion. And I'm here if you need to talk. You shouldn't have to deal with that type of trauma alone... And although there hardly isn't any trust anymore we aren't robots so we are bound to have some emotions. It's how we chose to prove them wrong that we won't fall into their traps or gimmicks or follow their stupid examples that help us. Guys and girls get cheated on every day. But with that said it's also because of jerks who decided to do that to a person that it causes other people to do what they do. You want to show him how much better you are than him right? That you won't follow his lead. Don't let him get to making your decisions. He may hurt your feelings but you are strong. I know you wouldn't have before that.
Because of how you said it. I know you are a good person you just met a bad apple which is a lot of the bunch but of course there has to be someone out there who truly cares for you. You may not have met him yet but there's so many people out there surely there are a few that would actually take care of you and treat you well. If I can call you this from a sister to another sister that is my advice. Someone always cares for you whether you met them or not.
It’d be wrong of me to dance with another girl if I was in a relationship. So why would it be ok for my girl to dance with another guy?
It wouldn’t be.
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It is very wrong that she did that. First off she's in a relationship and just shouldn't have. and secondly, that's a pretty sexual act to do. I am sorry that happened to you, But I think you did handle it in the correct way.
I said No it's ok but it really depends on the type of dancing and seriousness of the relationship for me.
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no its OK... CAUSE THATS THE NIGHT IM FUCKING HER FRIEND AND ONE OF HER CLOSE RELATIVES AND ONE OF HER PETS IF SHE DOSENT HAVE A PET WE ARE GOING THE NEXT DAY TO A SHELTER AND ADOPTING ONE SO I CAN FUCK IT THE SECOUND SHE CROSSES THIS LINE IT THE SECOND YOU CHEAT. EVEN IF SHE IS FAITHFUL SHE WILL TAKE THIS AS CONSENT LATER WHEN SHE IS NOT IN YOUR PRESENTS THEN SHE WILL CHEAT
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genericname85 | 7.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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it absolutely is. and girls that do that, will notice that this behavior lets her not find a quality parter.
It depends on what kind of dance, like if your name is Caroline, and they are playing Sweet Caroline, even if you have a guy or a girl (no judging), everyone will want to dance with you.
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Anonymous
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this is nice. a couple years ago every female reply on here would say "she can do whatever she wants and you're just being a jealous jerk. It's just dancing and just because she's grinding her ass on some guys rock hard cock on the dance floor while simulating sex moves doesn't mean it's sexual. " Nice to see females finally getting it. Sad it took so many years.
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