Is it OK for someone that is in a relationship to dance with someone of the opposite sex while at the club?

[Bubbles_the_Magician]

Let's say the boyfriend or girlfriend ends up going out with their friends to the club just to unwind and have some fun. Is it OK for someone that is in a relationship to grind/dance with someone of the opposite sex while at the club? Please give your opinions and thoughts thank you!

Yes, I don't see why not its harmless and just for fun

No, they are being disrespectful to me and our relationship

It depends on who it is and the circumstances

[ryanontario]

it really depends in they have any intentions of taking it further once they leave the club , obvivously a lot of girls with bf's go to nightclubs with there girlfriends . the same can be said with guys . but dancing is one thing and it clearly be cheating if anything happened outside of the bar of a sexual nature . now I go to these clubs a lot and there isn't a lot of clear rules as to what is ok or not . so it really depends on your relationship and what has been agreed is ok and not considered cheating .

[TayeDiggstwin]

I lean toward a hard NO. But it also requires some context. If you set clear boundaries and rules, and you both have a LOT of trust in each other then okay. I am personally not okay with it. Partying, grinding, alcohol... that's a recipe for disaster that would tempt almost anyone. My rule is not to do anything that you wouldn't want your partner to do. And if you don't like your partners behavior, then you have a decision to make.

[Toria80]

Its a trust thing, going to the club means fun. If your mate has a problem well then something has to give, Should have went to the club? yes. where's the ring on your finger? In my opinion grinding is not ok that's a bit much LOL. Dancing does not have to mean rubing on another person. Yet that's not cheating, still think about if you saw you mate dancing in the club on the opposite sex how would it make you?

[rdabby]

If the dancing is totally innocent and no flirting, grinding and "leading to bed" dancing then sure its fun and okay!

But I wouldn't want him to tell me about it... I will be jealous!

eitherway he better respect me and not cross the limits.. If he could still dance the same way he danced with those girls infront of me then there is no harm in that!

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I both take our relationship very seriously. Commitment is big for us. I am not the type of girl who goes to clubs and dances with different guys and my boyfriend doesn't dance with other girls. I see no need to do that because I am perectly happy with my current relationship. Why would I want to mess with that.

[IamThisGuy]

My view is that when you go out with someone you should already trust them. So it should be okay for them to dance with people of the other sex. Its just good fun. That being said I think the kind of dirty dancing (for example grinding) should only be with your significant other. Just imagine if your boyfriend/girlfriend was there and their reaction if they saw you dancing that way with someone else.

[MaddenedHatter]

I go out dancing with my friends sometimes, and my boyfriend is totally okay with it. I don't dance with other guys because I'm looking for something, it's just dancing. Just like if I were acting in a play where I had to kiss somebody else. It wouldn't mean anything--just part of the fun.

[Argos]

Depends on what kind of dancing. There are some dirty filthy dancing that should only be done if single or with your guy. Then there is also dancing that is just dancing with someone and is harmless.

[MawyBee]

This is gay... it depends on if they are grinding the other person or just dancing..and it depends if they know when to walk away..

[Bubbles_the_Magician]

Youre gay

[vertigo1201]

It's you're

and she has a good point.

[Bubbles_the_Magician]

Sorry I was so grammatically incorrect. But if you are going to use sentences make it complete, don't put a space in between it. Also capitals as in It's not it's.

Also have you two not looked at the poll? Look at the options and the reasons why someone would pick it. Plus I just wanted to know what people thought on the topic and to give certain situations. So yeah I know it depends on grinding or dancing and the relation between the people. I also put grind/dance in my question.

[Bubbles_the_Magician]

Learn to read and take in all information.

[MawyBee]

You also put grind/dance in your question but they are two different things. Grinding-is actually sexual, dancing is casual. Sure they could be doing the waltz but you're not specifying. Don't correct me on my spelling cause I honestly don't give a sh*t. I'm not going to make a bit of effort for someone whos looking for faults because they aren't getting there own way. Oh and thank you vertiqo1201 :)

[Bubbles_the_Magician]

I put grind/dance because I know they are two different things and I was seeing if people cared whether someone would GRIND or DANCE with someone of the opposite sex while being in a relationship. That is why the slash was there in the first place to indicate the difference. Sorry you are just so slow on the uptake to notice that. I don't need my own way. So don't assume. But someone who can't understand the question in the first place I shouldn't waste my time with.

[MawyBee]

If I had you as a boyfriend. I'd punch your face in, you d***! Why would you put grind/dance in together? They are two different things. Two different questions, with two different answers. I wasn't asking you to waste your time and actually I answered your question unless you haven't noticed. It DEPENDS on if they are grinding the other person or just dancing and it depends on if they know when to walk away. I also specified that grinding is sexual and dancing is casual.

[Bubbles_the_Magician]

I'm a girl you idiot. I explained why I put grinding and dancing together in my previous statement. But let me recap. I decided to put it that way, knowing that they are two different things, depending on how the person wanted to answer it. They could either have answered the question based off of just with your partner dancing with someone else or grinding with someone else. That is why the they together like that, grind/dance. SO the reader would have an option on which one they wantedtoanswer

[Gregs]

Won't have any long term relationship with a girl that goes out to clubs at all

[Jdaking]

LMAO have you noticed that More females picked "A" than males... And "C" basically means the same as "A". That's just to show females are the cheaters in relationships, they think grinding with another male who isn't your boyfriend is Acceptable

[mkahnlpn]

No, I don't that females are the cheaters in the relationships, both females and males cheat. I think that maybe girls see dancing differently when its them doing it, or its their man doing it. When girls do it, its just like yah...Im drunk....Im dancing...whooo whoo, but when they picture their man doing it, they imagine some sexy woman grinding their booty all over their boyfriends junk. Its just different viewpoints, I guess.

[Hanooun]

You probably had lots of gfs who cheated on u.

[Jdaking]

And girls obviously believe that rubbing on a man's crotch isn't inappropriate, and no A lot of females don't cheat on me, but I seen a lot of females cheat with me. LMAO

[godsgifttowoman]

Dude.... Don't discriminate participate... If that's what the girl wants to do, then left her... All you gotta do is get up on a slutty looking girl and get friendly with her... And if she doesn't like that, then She'll get the point.

[Mrs_MHz]

i picked c because ifmy husband was dancing wih a friend of mine I wouldn't mind. but of course no grinding

[Jdaking]

No way! That is very disrespectful to me. I wouldn't want to continue the Relationship if she did that to me.

[Gregs]

I wouldn't start any serious relationship with someone who is going to clubs in the first place

[Jdaking]

Exactly... I only go out to clubs to meet females, and I unwind by getting laid by those females lmao. I wouldn't allow it!

[currannaaach]

I don't see what's wrong with it at all.

It's just dancing.

Even if it's grinding, you can tell if it's just fun or if there is intent in the guy.

[Paul09]

Well in my case I dance with my friends wives. No bumping or grinding. Just dancing. So through Friends probably ok. With strangers, not so much. Especially not grinding. Tha fan cause problems.

[jjf481993]

I mean, like not with exes, but other than that as long as they aren't like making out or anything, I see no problem.

[Anonymous]

You came there with the boyfriend or girlfriend and you're suppose to be with them and no one else.

[thealpha]

i'd never be in a relationship with a girl going to pub or bar

[FunkyMonkee]

Only insecure, possessive and insanely jealous people would think it's wrong.

[emzy-89]

if your ina group of friends then maybe but not with a total stranger.

[AdithyaR]

Depend on the couple themselves, if they're okay with it or not.

[wow07happy]

Yes, Its just dancing who cares trust your relationship enough that your partner won't do anything

[katiesmuff]

Its just crazy dancing, I don't see the problem

[jshm2]

It's only a dance. FFS

[enjoytrees]

lol, B. I don't play that game. period

[ThomasDavid1989]

No, it's not