Is it okay with your boyfriend/girlfriend to go out with other people at the opposite sex alone?

[gayesblog]

Is it wrong to restrict your boyfriend/girlfriend from going out with a guy/girl friend alone? Do you get jelaous or is it normal to you?

[dynamicyandere]

Everything should be contextual, but generally speaking, I believe it’s best practice not to.


Like, I’m taken and I never meet 1-on-1 with girls unless they’re family.


But when I was single, I would meet 1-on-1 with female friends no problem.


When I hang out with female friends, I want to bring my girlfriend along, doing group hangouts and whatnot.


I feel likes it’s a good way to show your girl that you’re loyal to her and that she’s special to you and that you have nothing to hide.


There’s not reason to have to meet 1-on-1 with a female friend unless you want a more intimate moment.


But why would you need an intimate moment with someone other than your girlfriend?


That’s playing with fire.

[hammeronfire]

depends who it is, when it is, and what they’re doing.

[Adaeva]

I don't know what is right or wrong. However, if they are past their teenage years, they are having sex. Most likely the girls is trying to snare him and he enjoys f**king her.

[Friendlybro79]

Platonic friendships, especially ones that predate you and your SO, should be ok if it's not monopolizing your time away. If you can't trust a SO to have non sexual relationships with friends then you have bigger problems.

[lildkman1090]

I think it’s normal I mean they aren’t dating their friends you are ultimately going to be there for each other

[Anemone978]

No not alone.. if you are dating why wouldn't he bring you along.. or even someone else.. I wouldn't trust that dynamic..

[Agape93]

You can hang out with your friends. The partner has no right to restrict that

[Drewtate]

If they are doing that your relationship is doomed

[Pacquet]

Someone mentioned this should be contextual which I agree with but honestly I personally don’t care so long as there’s clear boundaries.

[RedInnocent68]

‘Yes’ he says, as he leaves the bar from drinks with a group of female friends, without his partner… 🙄

[jahaims]

It's definitely OK. If you don't trust them then don't date them

[Nifrayu]

Of course it's okay. People should be allowed to go out with their friends.

[msc545]

Better if they don't but it's hard to control this without being seen as controlling.

[Solo3k]

No. For what.

What purpose do they serve?

If she does. Instant dump. On to the next

[Nifrayu]

You don't understand the purpose of going out with a friend?

[Solo3k]

@Nifrayu friend = fiend
Fiend: a person who is excessively fond of or addicted to something

Wicked cruel person.

Evil spirit demon.

[Solo3k]

@Nifrayu my Girl doesn't need any guy friends.

[Solo3k]

And I watch her female circle bc birds of a feather.

Your woman/man is your best friend in life. Tf you need others for. It's y'all against the world

[Nifrayu]

You sound way to controlling.

[Solo3k]

@Nifrayu I'm not controlling. those are the rules. If she don't like it she can leave. I couldn't care less.

there's always better hoes if she don't wanna respect my wishes.

You just aren't an masculine man. You can't relate

[Nifrayu]

Neither are you. There is nothing masculine about your trust issues.

[Solo3k]

@Nifrayu lol okay buddy. Whatever helps you sleep at night.

[Dinklex3]

?

Yes, lol.

[exitseven]

No, tjs sounds pretty fishy to me.

[dudeinohio]

I don't like that. I think it's inappropriate.

[Charliefretz329]

Yes, either I fully trust you or I don’t.

[riverrat3]

Their choice