Is it wrong to let your boyfriend dance with other girls in a party?

[Anonymous]

dancing I mean like booty-dancing, my friends and his friend tell me that there ain't nothin wrong wit it cause its juss a party and they are just having fun, but I do get jealous and mad when I see him dancing with another girl like that.but he tells me that he would let me dance with other boys but I don't really want to.i just wanna have a good time

Help!

[Doyle]

We are in the same boat regarding those feelings. I can't stand it if my girl would dance with other guys in funny manners. A normal dance would be ok but when there is strange touching or contact I would step in and just start dancing with her. Afterwords I would tell her I don't like what she is doing and that she please shouldn't do it again. I think you should just talk to him, tell him you don't like it. And if he says that he would allow you to do the same just tell him that you don't want to and just make sure he knows that you are unhappy with it. If he respects you and cares for you he would respect your request.

[lefthand]

Depends on your relationship, are you sexually exclusive? Does this strike you as sexual? If it does, it is a violation of your agreement and is a serious breach. What matters is what you agree to, not how other people see it.

[blevo]

ok I definitely understand where your coming from! no one appreciates it trust me. Dirty dancing with someone leads to flirting or more I wouldnt trust a boy doing that. You should really sit down and say its not ok from your point of view and tell him you can all have fun normally dancin together and you are mi boyfriend y would you need 2 dirty dance with others unless you have a prying eye or not focusing on you I would really sit down with him if doesnt agree I would consider ditchin him he's not worthy of ur commitment 2 him

hope this helps much love xx

[sanam]

I'm a dancer, and dancing is a very sexual thing especially the booty dancing!

I'd be jealous, hell yeah!

definitely talk to him seriously about it!

he should respect your feelings and love you more for them!

best of luck!

[gixxer69x]

It he really liked you . .then he would not dance with other girls. Not that its wrong, but out f respect for you. Its the intention that matters .

Besides . if your at a party . he should be dancing with YOU !