He’s not asking much questions about my life and I’m asking him it’s really annoying what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

Don’t go any further with him, keep your distance. with him , don’t Kiss him, don’t have sex with him , don’t let him hug you or hold you , if he can’t open up to you , the same way you opened up to him , than you have every right to take a step back and reconsider if you want to continue seeing this guy or not. I do the same exact thing with Girls’ that have a hard time opening up to me , I don’t care how beautiful she looks on the outside , if I feel she is having a hard time opening up to me after I opened up to her , I take a step back and don’t allow it to go any further , I won’t be rude to her , I just don’t trust her and I will not go any further with her , until she opens up to me , if she doesn’t eventually open up to me i move on and I don’t waste anymore of my time with her. Chemistry and connection is important to me and most of all HONESTY , If a girl can not be honest with me , it’s a huge turn off to me. I understand not everyone thinks alike and not everyone expresses themselves the same way , so I tend to give everyone the benefit of the doubt only for a reasonable amount of time

[handsomelad70]

He isn't asking MANY questions. The grammar here is often deplorable.

[Finchie40]

Thank you teacher for
Pointing that out , I didn’t know I was being graded lol I just answer questions on here , like I am talking face to face with someone, I have a tendency of typing fast.

[handsomelad70]

Sorry, Finchie40. I also make errors

[Finchie40]

It’s cool man , we all make mistakes , none of us , are perfect. We just live and learn the best way we can. If everyone on this planet all thought alike? The World would probably be a much better place , but sadly, it isn’t that way.

[PreferNot2Say]

Men aren't like women. Mostly men aren't nosey or have an incessive need for constant validation, like women do.

You can listen to one of these "Captain save-a-hoe" type guys that are telling you to dump him or you can accept the fact that men don't open up to a woman right away and possibly lose out on a great relationship if you dump him.

Just cuz you have an insatiable need too quickly tell him everything about you, doesn't mean he's the same way. Just let him know that you're always open too him sharing whenever he's ready.

[rienna888]

Make sure he puts more effort in the relationship than you. I'm in the same situation, recently I hung out with this guy from dating app. I was attracted to him, he complimented me a lot on my looks but I noticed that there was something off. Like he mentioned on our first hang out, "I know you're looking for something casual". However, on my profile, I put that I wanted something serious. Also, he made a comment about how he will be more compatible with my sister as they both have water signs in astrology. Further, when I stated I said I don't want hook ups, he said it's good to know. He also said he broke up with his girlfriend due to religious reasons, but i'm not sure when. Whenever we message he seems really into me but he stopped initiating convos the third day. Which I gave up after I initiated convo the third day. I just told myself this guy is not interested or he will be consistent and also I will never ever chase a guy.

[PreferNot2Say]

Did you really say, "make sure he puts more effort into the relationship than she does"? Wow! Narcissist much?

You won't ever chase a guy, huh? So I guess that "equality" thing only applies to things that benefit you.

Thanks for proving what I've said for years about women crying about being equals. Smfh

[rienna888]

@PreferNot2Say you’re welcome

[Account]

I wouldn't bother. Last time I had that issue I stopped talking to them. It is a deal breaker to me. Such things should be reciprocal. He won't change. Stop making him better than he is in your mind

[OlderAndWiser]

How established is this relationship? How far along are you with this guy?

[McKellar]

I came across that once with a woman I matched and connected with on a dating app. I was asking her questions about her, she questioned me very little to none. She even mentioned to me I was asking her a lot of questions about her. The way I look at it is... of course I'm going to ask her questions about her. We have communication for a reason. My thoughts are even if she complained about me asking her questions about her,... my question would be, "How else are you suppose to get to know someone?".

[itsclearlynicholas]

Lol if I wanted to know about a chick, whether to be naturally nosey/nosy or friendly, i love asking questions as much as I love giving answers so it's not all 20 questions and no sharing of enjoying a chat

[desidoll]

He made it clear that he isn’t into you as much. Leave this man.

[slatyb]

Date someone who is interested in someone besides themselves -- someone like you.

[magiusX26]

1st, you should learn to make your own decisions. next, either accept it or do not accept it and move on from him if the latter

[handsomelad70]

Men CERTAINLY need validation about their stud qualities. Why do you think so many are always jumping into the sack with even squalid broads?

[KrazyJCD2002]

start acting different
get him all confused and curious
make him wonder
what's up
with you

[JayBones]

You should take Cocain and shoot guns into traffic about it.

[Rouba99]

He’s not into you , if he really interested in you he would be asking because he care.. leave him

[boggboss]

Stop pursuing guys that don't seem intrested

[Anonymous]

Move on. He’s not interested.

[ethansf]

Possibly a sign he's selfish.

[jimmy2]

He needs to let you do that too or tell him no

[Anonymous]

He's not interested in you.

[laly520]

he isn't interested

[MrDaveAPSI]

why?