What would you wear on a first date?

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GuyAnswersGirls123 · Accepted Answer

I just dressed very comfortably, not to impress, typically t-shirts and jeans and sneakers. I would shave and double-check to make sure there was no shaving cream on my ear.

There's a bit of an "I don't give a shit," mentality but it's not because I don't care about my date. I do deeply wish she will stick around or else I wouldn't have asked her out in the first place.

But if I try too hard to impress her and that's the only way she sticks around, then I'd have to try so hard to impress her for the rest of our entire relationship and I can't sustain that. What I can sustain is shaving my face and wearing t-shirts and jeans and sneakers. So that's how I always approached the first date. If she ditches me based on that, I figure it would have never worked in the long run.

On nice dates like at a 7-course French restaurant, I could really dress sharp even in a tailored suit. But I never started first dates or anything close with such fancy settings.

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

I think it depends a lot on where you have decided to go..

Here , I think its easier because no matter where you are going its hot , really hot , so even if it were a " major " here , say Hilton , Flavours , or 50th floor place a light summer dress would work , most things are pretty casual.

electromagnetic · Accepted Answer

I haven’t gone on a first date in years. But for sure would have been a pair of leggings and a nice shirt.

laly520 · Accepted Answer

depends where we will have the date but generally an outfit like this

AviatorTom · Answer

Depends where the date is. Wear what others would wear at the same place. A woman at a picnic would probably involve shorts and cute top, while a fancy restaurant would probably involve a cute dress.

Mr_twoface · Answer

Depending on whether the place your goings to is fancy or not. Otherwise, I would say be casual and wear something you feel comfortable in. I used to dress to impress but felt at times I was too overly dressed. When I changed to just being comfortable, focus swifted towards her than me overthinking about my outfit.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

something clean and comfortable lol he would have seen me in different clothes by now, so no need to impress :D

nessiee01 · Answer

well depending on my mood, ill personally either choose to wear a cute comfortable outfit with a cute jacket accompanied by a pair of comfy shoes or an elegant classy outfit with a coat, accompanied by a pair of black heel boots

Still-alive · Answer

Going to dinner: where something nice, not casual, more formal  going to lunch or coffee date: go a little more on the casual side but not too casual. Something in between would be good

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Jeans and tshirt, depending on the weather a pullover and jacket as well

Huntingnfishin · Answer

Something that made you feel confident but still fits the mood or setting. Could be a hoodie and jeans or a black dress and a necklace. For me I like a jacket with nice jeans and a tshirt.

iFarted · Answer

It really depends on what we're going to do. If it's a simple lunch date then probably black and grey flannel, white tshirt underneath, black jeans, brown leather boots (Red Wings Iron Rangers).

exitseven · Answer

A nice shirt and my favorite pair of jeans. i have been known to iron a crease in my jeans on special occasions.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I'd be thinking something pretty if the weather allows it. Like a nice dress.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Whatever I feel like at the time. I don't think it is that important, really.

MissBoogus · Answer

Something comfy and cozy because I’m sure my nerves would be fried. Something nice and feminine but not revealing. Probably a dress and cozy sweater or something

sheikalana · Answer

Something modest, stylish, elegant and comfortable.

soe11 · Answer

Nothing will change, add quality perfume and hand chains.

Yannae · Answer

Everything is the same. But maybe I'll add a necklace.

Iron_Man · Answer

Probably slacks and a Tommy Bahama dress shirt or maybe a GUAYABERAS They are popular in Miami

Coden7 · Answer

I just wear what I normally wear. Typically a casual Button Up shirt with Jeans

Knightwatch27 · Answer

I'd probably go laid-back stylish. Maybe a shirt, suit and dress pants, but no tie or anything.

Linda7451 · Answer

It would depend on where the date would be. Somewhere outside - jeans and a hoodie, or in the bar - probably something more elegant.

justabuddy · Answer

First date I try and dress up nice. Not too much to look desperate, but enough that she thinks I don't care. I do take things slow though.

msc545 · Answer

Clothes are a good idea for a first date

DJB72 · Answer

Depends where we're going

loveslongnails · Answer

Where are we going?

gorydetails · Answer

It depend on where we are going

handsomelad70 · Answer

I'd try to get a cowboy outfit.

jahaims · Answer

Athletic shorts and a plain t

DagonbroughtMehere · Answer

What I always wear.

NathanDavis · Answer

wetsuits

spartan55 · Answer

Tuxedo

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