Should I ask him to reject me so I can move on?

[Anonymous]

[ohsheeT]

First of all it's only you you have to do what's right for you and if you're not happy you have to move on don't waste your time or your energy I'm not getting what you want or not getting what you want to feel or who you want to become you have to think of yourself first in this matter and then if you're good with everything you will be good with him if you're not then move on don't hold yourself back

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s an unusual request however if you ask him to reject you I’m sure he will do you the favor however something tells me you won’t be able to move on.

[Asker]

Why you think I won’t be able to move on?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Something tells me no.

[electromagnetic]

You can reject him to and move on. Or just tell yourself this isn’t want you want anymore and move on.

[rienna888]

No because I’m the back of your head you will always have what ifs.

[ProbablyClueless]

Sounds like he already has rejected you though? Are you hoping that physically hearing him say the words will provide a sense of closure?

[Asker]

Yeah I need it be physically

[TommyMountainFigure]

No. What you SHOULD do, is take responsibility for your own life and reject him!

[Wiredone]

If he's not the one for you tell him. Just break it off with him then move on. You don't have to wait for him

[OddBeMe]

Reject you as in…youre obsessed with this guy but never had the guts to tell him?

[Asker]

Not obsessed it’s a crush

[OddBeMe]

Then yes at this point just ask him out and get closure.

Maybe do that more often and one of these guys will say yes.

[Asker]

I don’t want to date

[Imokydoky]

Don't you have the guts to just say goodbye? You think it hurts him less if he rejects you? Since you want to go just go. There's no letting him down easy. Like cigarettes it's best to go cold turkey

[spartan55]

What kind of fucked up nonsense is this?

[Asker]

How is it fuck up?

[spartan55]

Asking someone to reject you? You think that's anywhere close to normal?

[Asker]

Nope it’s not normal

[spartan55]

Then why are you asking how it's fucked up?

[HateyouxD]

😂😂 why would you do that? What if he likes you?

[Asker]

He’s toxic. I told him on insta I liked him and he asked who was I. And I gave him a hint and he hearted the message.

[HateyouxD]

How is that toxic and why are you afraid to disclose your identity to him?

[sakuranaruto]

How is that toxic?

[Asker]

@sakuranaruto actually he toxic he tried to slam a door on me because I was wearing a mini skirt. He laughs at me and his friend was acting like she trying to record me. He snatch from he and he makes fun of me. He calls women bitches

[Asker]

I’m afraid to reveal my identity because he laughs at me too much. actually he toxic he tried to slam a door on me because I was wearing a mini skirt. He laughs at me and his friend was acting like she trying to record me. He snatch from he and he makes fun of me. He calls women bitches

[sakuranaruto]

Don't you like him because you want him to reject you?

[Asker]

@sakuranaruto I like him but I need to be rejected so I can move on

[sakuranaruto]

You like him after seeing how toxic he is?

[Asker]

@sakuranaruto normally I don’t like toxic men but I trying to move on

[sakuranaruto]

You can try to move on because he is toxic and not because you want him to reject you

[Asker]

@sakuranaruto okay

[TommyMountainFigure]

Sorry for butting in, but how can you hide your identity from him when he's already tried to slam a door on you?

[Asker]

@TommyMountainFigure I text him on
Instagram and he kept asking who was I and I told
him I didn’t want to tell him

[ChicoFromThe305]

What type of self sabotage shit is this 😂

[Asker]

😂😂😂😂

[Danny_dan92]

What the actual hell?

[Asker]

What?

[Danny_dan92]

That’s kind of ridiculous

[Asker]

How?

[Asker]

Knowing a person doesn’t like me back helps me move on

[Danny_dan92]

If he’s not actively talking to you, he’s not interested in you.

[Asker]

It was a rumor he liked me by a coworker

[Danny_dan92]

*rumor*

[Asker]

I was too shy to ask him 😔

[Danny_dan92]

Expected from a female

[Asker]

So you expected female to be shy? Also I have an anxiety problem.

[Danny_dan92]

Girls are typically shy

[Asker]

I have anxiety problems😔

[Danny_dan92]

I have anxiety problems too. Talking about your problems to a therapist and or someone you trust really helps

[laly520]

just move on girl
don't be a clown

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Do you like him?

[Asker]

Yes but I don’t a realtionship

[PrettyCrumblBb]

You don't want a relationship? Then what exactly do you have to get over?

[Asker]

I want to get over having a crush

[PrettyCrumblBb]

A crush is just a crush. You even said you don't want to date him.

[Asker]

I don’t want to date him because I know the realtionship wouldn’t work out

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Ok so what's the problem?

[Asker]

We’re difference races, have different religious belief and he made it clear we’re different

[Asker]

Also he never take stuff serious

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Ok so shouldn't that put you off?

[Asker]

Yeah it does

[PrettyCrumblBb]

So then why are u still thinking of him? Shouldn't it be settled. You don't want him.

[LiamJHayden]

No need. Just move on.

[boobliker]

if thats how you feel then yes!

[Luckycharms12]

No just move on simple

[riverrat3]

Why not leave him and move on

[Jmmmfi4]

NO----

[Asker]

Why not?