He won’t move on after I rejected him?

Question

Yes, I told this guy I wasn’t interested in dating or a relationship right now , but he won’t live me alone. I told him numerous of times that I’m not ready for a relationship, but he won’t back off. He’s not texting me he’s messaging me on my social media account which I’m about to delete because I don’t do online dating and I use my account for conversation.

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He’s not the only guy I’m rejecting - I don’t mislead guys , but I’d like if he moved on

Answer 1

Anonymous

Tell him that sometimes things don’t go their way. But if you also want to, tell him that there are methods he can look online as to how to attract girls and to even motivate them to make the first move. He has failed to attract you. Of course, you don’t have to tell him that if you don’t want him to use a method that will attract you, especially because if he is successful in that attempt, well, you may be liking him BUT it is rather the sticky magnet of the actions, like that having shifted your focus and interests. It is all perception, but you can either find a method to convince him to let you go, let him to continue using his useless methods, give him the idea to look for useful methods to attract but also use the method to convince him to leave you alone (or if not, he will still use them on you, but if you do convince him to leave you alone in the nice way, he may use them on other girls, but if you convince him in the mean way, his confidence will be shaken; yes, guys can also shake up girls’ confidence in asking guys out or pursuing guys).

Answer 2

OlderAndWiser | 8.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Influencer

Tell him that his persistence is becoming annoying and that, if it continues, you will consider getting an injunction against stalking.

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He’s an under cover cop
OlderAndWiser

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Having an injunction issued against him could sink his career. This threat should get his attention.
Asker

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He doesn’t care most of Louisiana cops fetish this stuff. He paid law enforcement to watch me his workers.
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OlderAndWiser

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Complain to your state law enforcement agency about his abuse of power.
Asker

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Yes- this fetish 😩😉 no one understands

Answer 3

Asker

He’s an under cover cop

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OlderAndWiser

Having an injunction issued against him could sink his career. This threat should get his attention.

Answer 5

Asker

He doesn’t care most of Louisiana cops fetish this stuff. He paid law enforcement to watch me his workers.

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OlderAndWiser

Complain to your state law enforcement agency about his abuse of power.

Answer 7

Asker

Yes- this fetish 😩😉 no one understands

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Interstate | 327 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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I would contact the Police and report him for harassment. I would even go as far as to report him to Facebook, as well. Under the "Report" option is an option for harassment, if I recall correctly. You can even ask the authorities if you meet the criteria for a Restraining Order.

Answer 9

loveslongnails | 2.3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

The only thing you can do if he won't stop bothering you is tell him " if you have any respect for women, or for me, you'll accept my answer like a gentleman and stop pursuing me. The more you do, the more you reinforce my decision". THEN, you block him.

Answer 10

Anonymous

Hmmmmm. I’m just gonna come right out and say what’s on everyone’s mind. It sounds like some little lady may be just a wee bit obsessed over a certain someone that won’t quit going around telling people they dated and she broke it off with him…. Breaking things off, by the way, doesn’t mean to the rest of us, breaking the poor guys ankles so he can’t hobble away from you. That’s usually what we refer to as kidnapping and assault with serious bodily injury. But hey, toe-may-toe toe-mah-toe right?

Answer 11

t-8900 | 235 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Nfl sounds like a total creeper. Please be careful and stay safe

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This is why I stopped dating nowadays why I don’t trust men
Asker

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I wish he’d leave me alone
t-8900

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Listen I understand where you are coming from because I've been on the opposite side saying that about women too. It's easy to paint with a single stroke. But we aren't all like that. You will be in my thoughts. Please get in contact with the police if he messages again. Don't reply back to him again. Do you keep pepper spray around bor anything? Sabre OC spray is good. It's what the police use.
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He’s an under cover cop he’s in his 40s.. I don’t have experiences with men and recently started trying dating men
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Yea I don’t trust men anymore sorry - despite no experiences there is fear there after being exposed to do much
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So “
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I have more experiences with women then men
t-8900

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Great a creepy cop, what could go wrong? Does he know where you live?
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Yes he does he’s my cousins classmate - I can’t get away from him entirely
t-8900

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Have you told your cousin? Have you tried lying and tell him you're with someone else? You also mentioned exp with women. Like romantically? If so lie and say you came out lol
Asker

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He’s been chasing me for years and no I’m not in love with him
Asker

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He doesn’t care about that and my cousin is married ( engaged to get married again )
Asker

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He knows I’m not just told him I’m not interested in dating or anything
t-8900

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I mean your cousin can't step in?
t-8900

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Have you pulled the super bitch card yet?
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No my cousin is out of state

Answer 12

Asker

This is why I stopped dating nowadays why I don’t trust men

Answer 13

Asker

I wish he’d leave me alone

Answer 14

t-8900

Listen I understand where you are coming from because I've been on the opposite side saying that about women too. It's easy to paint with a single stroke. But we aren't all like that. You will be in my thoughts. Please get in contact with the police if he messages again. Don't reply back to him again. Do you keep pepper spray around bor anything? Sabre OC spray is good. It's what the police use.

Answer 15

Asker

He’s an under cover cop he’s in his 40s.. I don’t have experiences with men and recently started trying dating men

Answer 16

Asker

Yea I don’t trust men anymore sorry - despite no experiences there is fear there after being exposed to do much

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Asker

So “

Answer 18

Asker

I have more experiences with women then men

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t-8900

Great a creepy cop, what could go wrong? Does he know where you live?

Answer 20

Asker

Yes he does he’s my cousins classmate - I can’t get away from him entirely

Answer 21

t-8900

Have you told your cousin? Have you tried lying and tell him you're with someone else? You also mentioned exp with women. Like romantically? If so lie and say you came out lol

Answer 22

Asker

He’s been chasing me for years and no I’m not in love with him

Answer 23

Asker

He doesn’t care about that and my cousin is married ( engaged to get married again )

Answer 24

Asker

He knows I’m not just told him I’m not interested in dating or anything

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t-8900

I mean your cousin can't step in?

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t-8900

Have you pulled the super bitch card yet?

Answer 27

Asker

No my cousin is out of state

Answer 28

ToastyOats | 206 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Try to move him off onto a lonely lady that he's more compatible with? I've done that for women I liked them as a person but were not someone I would date seriously!

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No I told him too leave me alone -he quite capable of finding someone I’m sure
ToastyOats

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Probably not.😆

Answer 29

Asker

No I told him too leave me alone -he quite capable of finding someone I’m sure

Answer 30

ToastyOats

Probably not.😆

Answer 31

noohair | 91 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

Some men can't relate to rejection because their mommy told them that they are perfect. Their ego will not process it. Tell him you are going to file a police report and get a restraining order.

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EaterPeter | 769 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

It's not easy babe. I am sure you are one of a kind.

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KrakenAttackin | 2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

Anonymous... So delete/block him, how fucking hard is it?

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I did

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Asker

I did

Answer 35

Lonely888

Xper 3

Yeah, kind of weird, we usually move on

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He’s not in avoiding him now
Lonely888

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Is it someone you personally know
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Yes I don’t see him romantically like that however
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Asker

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Really no one that I have the vibe with
Lonely888

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I don't know, you might want to straight up tell him
Asker

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I did numerous of time I’m not interested in dating anyone right now including him
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I don’t keep telling a guy no
Asker

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Constantly telling men if today no there’s another guy who wants me to have sex with him - the answer is no to him
Lonely888

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Try introducing him to another girl, he will probably lose interest but start bothering her
Asker

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I don’t know any other girls I told the both of them I’m not it- I’m an introvert, but I did encourage the friend to find someone new
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As for the virgin guy it’s a no

Answer 36

Asker

He’s not in avoiding him now

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Lonely888

Is it someone you personally know

Answer 38

Asker

Yes I don’t see him romantically like that however

Answer 39

Asker

Really no one that I have the vibe with

Answer 40

Lonely888

I don't know, you might want to straight up tell him

Answer 41

Asker

I did numerous of time I’m not interested in dating anyone right now including him

Answer 42

Asker

I don’t keep telling a guy no

Answer 43

Asker

Constantly telling men if today no there’s another guy who wants me to have sex with him - the answer is no to him

Answer 44

Lonely888

Try introducing him to another girl, he will probably lose interest but start bothering her

Answer 45

Asker

I don’t know any other girls I told the both of them I’m not it- I’m an introvert, but I did encourage the friend to find someone new

Answer 46

Asker

As for the virgin guy it’s a no

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DWornock | 949 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

So what? Is that a problem?

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