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He was like you’re single do whatever you want. He was like you can find another guy. He started getting mad and cocky with me when I told him I would go on tinder. I don't know if he was talking from his ego. Then he downloaded tinder in front of me when I told him I was on it. Then he deleted it. Then he was like don’t go to the bars and don’t move on with another guy. He is the one who broke up with me but I blocked him on everything but he started crying when he dropped me off and said he didn’t want to lose me and that he loved me. Then he started telling me he’ll reminisce about our memories and about our favorite things together.
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I don't know if he had a good reason to break up with you, whereby he would then still probably be attracted to you. If he had good reasons for breaking up with you, he probably hopes you'll feel punished and alone for whatever it was that you did, and not just easily find someone else to take your mind off of him.
Oof sis, this sounds like such an emotional rollercoaster. If there's one thing I know about guys, it's that we suck at communicating clearly how we really feel sometimes. And your ex just sounds confused af.
On the one hand, he broke things off so you have every right to move on and find someone new. But it's obvious he's still not over you either. Breakups are hard enough without all these mixed signals!
My advice would be to try having one last honest heart-to-heart. Tell him straight how much his hot-and-cold act is messing with your head. You can't wait around for him to make up his mind.
I'd also be cautious about taking him back right away if he does realize he wants you for good. Make him earn that trust back with consistent actions first before jumping back in deep.
Protect your peace sis. You don't deserve the emotional rollercoaster. Take control of your happiness and do what YOU need to do. His flip flopping shouldn't hold you back from living your life! Xoxo
It sounds like he doesn't want to let go.