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When he says 'because it's like months in advance I don't know how busy imma be..'
he might actually mean:
'because it's like months in advance and I don't know if I have met someone else by than time, maybe we're not together anymore in September..
I dont know, but it seems like when he keeps 'reassuring' you that 'i have time for you for sure, for sure' he says it, so it doesn't completely looks like he doesn't want you do come. But it seems like he says it while wanting to say something else.
This is was 'could' be happening, but it might isn't I dont know your boyfriend
Well even if he brought it up first, it doesn't necessarily have to take it too serious. Just like sometimes when I tell people "See you later" or "We will go have lunch someday for sure", that "later" or "someday" may never happened lol. It just like the way people talk, not necessarily be like a promise. Plus, you didn't mention your relationship between him and you? As I can see from the convo, it doesn't seems to me he is that interested at least, he would want to meet you, but not to the point where he is definitely looking forward to it.
You're getting too deeply involved in this way too early. honestly, I even feel a little awkward reading your questions. You're being kind of aggressive to nail him down as he says "months in advance"
If you have a place to stay, assume that's where you're staying, but when you meet up with him, go with the flow.
He's losing interest (and FAST) but doesn't want to break it to you because he knows you're emotional.
This is EXACTLY how I pulled out of a relationship with a girl who was a virgin prior to me. I felt really bad for her so I wanted to break it down softly
This guy's annoying "idk" "like" "lol" those words don't help when someone's trying to arrange airfare for crying out loud. Good luck sister. Bring a backup plan just in case.
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A typical guy answer. They can only focus on the now, the present. Things can change so planning sometimes doesn't work out. I suggest you stay with your friend somewhere and see him when he is not busy. Hopefully he makes time for you.
He's being noncommittal. It doesn't seem like you are a priority for him. It sounds like your relationship wth him is casual anyway, so it doesn't really make sense to make plans months in advance.
I saw a guy like this a few times. Just like you, I was always the one making the effort traveling out to see him. From your messages he seems to have too casual outlook on this. Carry on with your own plans with your friend, put yourself first and let him be the afterthought.
I feel like he wants you to stay, but wasn't actually expecting you to visit. Or am was expecting just you. Maybe he was hoping for it to be just then two of you. He does seem hesitant now, but doesn't want to be rude or upset you. There is something up. Just talk to him about it. See if he will tell you. There is obviously something.
could also be he doesn't like planning that far in advance, some people like to go with the flow
He's not that crazy about the idea. Either he's met someone else or he's got other irons in the fire. Either way he's just not bothered about you coming down. Doesn't sound comfortable with you staying.
I don't think he's being rude. His tone definitely changed when you mentioned your friend though.
As long as he wants to see you still I don't see the issue?
Dont stay at his place. Only see him when you are there.
His trying to pull out nicely, maybe he has found a significant other and not sure if he will still be with her when you fly down, so maybe you a plan B
He playing games. Have a plan B just in case he flakes
Judging from that I wouldn't plan on staying with him. What's your relationship?
Write him that u can't understand him and seems like he dont like that idea, tell him to write u if he change his mind and dont write to him anymore
If he wants he will write u and arrange everything
this guy is a wimpy loser
I don't think he wants you to stay with him.
He doesn't seem too thrilled about it
I see nothing contradictory...
who send that text
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