So I'm getting tired of girls wasting my time and disrespecting me, so I basically just tell them to hit the road and it's kind of amazing how they almost don't even care. I went on a date with this girl that went well, so I scheduled another one. Then she started being really clingy, texting me a bunch. Then she said she was getting kicked out by her parents and so she was like if things go well on date 2 can i stay the night. Well then she texts back later saying she was getting kicked out that day and wanted to stay that night and go on the date tomorrow. Okay, fine ill pick you up, but then she decides to stay with her friend right before I was going to pick her up. Well then later that night, her "friend" fell through now she wants me to take her over there. (She has no car)
So I text her and I'm just like you know I'm just not interested anymore, I'm not doing this back and forth shit, so this is when I find out it's really her boyfriend she's staying with and she's like our date wasn't even fun anyways, but yet she agreed to another date? She's like I was just being nice. Whatever she's just butt hurt or does she not care?
See what I deal with? I just cut them loose now when something seems fishy. I should really just go with my gut from the beginning and not go on a date to begin with.
Opinions? Did I avoid another basket case or what? I think the boyfriend thing was a lie, but I mean are you serious? She was going to have me drop her off at her boyfriends? Yet she went out with me when she had a boyfriend? You just can't trust anyone anymore I mean wtf? Gotta go with the gut when something seems off I guess. I'm never going to find anyone decent
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Yeah that’s right you can’t trust anyone and that’s why I don’t date anymore. It’s vompletely iseledd and a waste of time that sucks your soul out. You found out early on so at least it’s good you didn’t waste more time or emotion on her. A lot of the time people, at least men, don’t show their true colors until months or even years after first meeting them.
I've just learned not to get attached to them. I think she was just mad and the whole boyfriend thing was a lie. Perhaps I could have told her that I won't be by the phone for a while or something like that. Who knows.
Woohoo!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Good for you, dude! 😃
I think you absolutely did the right thing. That sounds like some crazy drama with that girl. You don’t want to get caught up in that.
I've always said if more guys would raise their standards, so would the women. I've just learned it's not worth the headache anymore. Another one will come along shortly.
I absolutely agree with you.