So I went on a first date with a guy about a week ago. The date went well and he wanted to see me again so I planned something for us. Yesterday was the date and he picked me up at my house. The first thing I picked up was he kinda was acting a bit overconfident kinda arrogant? I’m not sure how to explain it but he definitely felt comfortable around me almost like he wasn’t nervous or trying to impress me. We do the activity and then go out to dinner afterwards. He drives me home and we are sitting in my driveway in his car. He keeps talking about how he feels like I’m not comfortable around him. He told me girls he has dated in the past are often comfortable more early on and I was different. I simply told him it takes a bit longer to open up to someone and feel comfortable. We were talking and he starts putting his seat back and joking about how he wants to kiss me. I tell him that’s sweet but I don’t want to do that. He’s like okay cool. He then talks about going into my house and sitting on my couch. I tell him no because it’s too soon for me. Again, he’s like “okay”. Again he talks about wanting to kiss me and I jokingly say no thanks. Again, he says “well it’s getting late I can either go or you can let me in”. I tell him I like spending time with him but I’m not sure. He tells me it’s not a big deal if we go inside. I finally tell him “fine you can come in”. I let him and tell him “please just sit on couch don’t do anything else” I turn around and he’s lighting my candle on my coffee table and laying on my couch im a bit irritated at him because it’s his first time in my home and he’s acting way to comfortable for my standards. He asks me to cuddle and I tell him no I just want to sit and talk. Next thing you know, I’m laying with him and cuddling…
He tells me he likes me and wants to see me again..
He tells me he likes me and wants to see me again..
Updates
2 mo
I also want to add that we were talking a bit in the car. Like relationships in the past and other things
