Why do men reject attractive women?

[KezHarris]

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Also why would he turn down an attractive woman just for sex?

[Finchie40]

Because it takes more than just looks for most guys’ to be interested in a girl, it takes her inner beauty as well her heart Just because someone looks good on the outside , it doesn’t mean they are good on the inside. I see attractive girls’ all the time , but if they lack moral values and come off as their shit don’t stink and they have a reputation of getting around? that’s a girl I wouldn't want to be with in a serious relationship and not waste anymore of my time with her. She has to have a good heart as well for me to want to be with her. Most guys’ don’t want to have sex with a girl that’s been around the block a bunch of times , he automatically assumes she possibly has STD’s and assumes she can’t be trusted , He will assume she is a whore or a slut. If he does end up fucking her , he is more than likely just using her to get off on her , but he will not commit to her , because he can’t trust her. Unless he is a man whore himself , and just likes sticking his dick into random girls’ using girls for sex.
For love to grow between 2 people , they both have to be on the same page with pretty much everything, making each other their top priority , making each other feel valued and wanted , being loyal and faithful to each other. Resisting temptations for each other. And most of all removing selfishness for each other. If you can’t remove selfishness for your partner , don’t expect them to remove it for you , it has to go both ways or it will more than likely not work period. I will only give my heart to a girl that makes me her top priority , that removes selfishness for me the same way I do for her. That stays loyal and faithful to me the same way I do for her , if not? Her and I have nothing , basically thanks for a good time but not a long time.

[handsomelad70]

RIGHT ON, Finchie 40 !!!

[Finchie40]

Oh yea , one more thing , I forgot to add , as to why he won’t be interested? Cuz she is mentally fucking insane in the head lol

[Anonymous]

Chances are she’s got a shitty attitude. But please define attractive. Because most men’s idea of what attractive is no where near what women think is attractive rice in other women. They tend to think their friend who is a 4 is very attractive, she’s cute, etc, etc. I see a lot of attractive women but their attention seeking, so I wouldn’t want something serious w them other than to bust a nut or two.

[7Phoenix7]

Multiple reasons... she's not his type, he's not interested in a relationship at the moment, he's taken... etc

[IslaTheWitch]

because there are no chemistry, feelings or they are taken...

[Avicenna]

They don't, unless the woman is crazy (and often then they don't either!).

[Phoenix98]

Because a woman can be a physically attractive but rotten to the core with a terrible personality and bad attitude and who wants to be around that all the time and have to deal with that BS?

Or she could just simply not be my type, different interests, different views, want different things for the future thus it probably wouldn't work out.

There are lots of reasons why, looks aren't the end all be all factor of dating someone, some people think they are.

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

Could be many reasons. Just a few off the top:

- they didn't find her attractive

- she has a massive character flaw that makes her undateable

- they missed interpreted the interaction / did not realize she was flirting and or asking them out

- they are not looking for someone who is high maintenance

- bad timing (married / engaged / serious girlfriend)

- conflict of interest (their friend is into the girl)

[JacobJordan]

Most guys don't want a woman who is so shallow she only sees herself physically or sexually. Big time whore vibes. The less personality a woman has the more skin she shows and the bigger her earrings. The more and better personality a woman has the less skin she shows and her earrings are more refined and classy

[Billlewis]

I think sometimes they do, just because they don't believe she's genuinely interested in them, and they don't want to get hurt later on.

[Nikki1989]

Their confidence levels are in the gutter.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Most guys are attracted to fun, fit and friendly. You can be gorgeous but if you aren't the 3 f's, most guys won't be interested

[Sameone]

For him I don't know
For me because i know she is not loyal. And she is going to change me at first chance

A lot of man's will chase her
( attractive woman so easy to open her legs)

[NathanDavis]

it's not rejection... it's just letting them know kindly, that I love my girlfriend...

[NathanDavis]

edit/update* first, because I do not cheat... second, because I'd already be having sex with the girlfriend I love

[TommyMountainFigure]

The reason I reject 'attractive women' is because I'm already with one!

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He could have a low self-esteem, extreme shyness, maybe he is just looking for sex, it could be anything.

[Staximus]

That depends on the situation. If I met an attractive woman at the bar and she wanted to have sex, I would wonder if she had sex with some other guy the night before. I'm not sticking my face in that pussy.

[exitseven]

They have a character defect that cannot be overlooked.

[ProbablyClueless]

Many times it's because the body looks good but the personality isn't so great.

[Anonymous]

Why do women who think they are attractive believe all guys must be attracted to and want to have sex with them?

[Hellraiser1984]

Fell for that trap before and never will again. I don't believe them them.

[Pohjolan]

Are we talking about actual rejection or just guys not responding to her "signs" ?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Typically he thinks or knows she's a whore or her personality stinks.

[Rangers]

Too high maintenance, or too easy cause if she's asking him out, she must be super easy

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women reject attractive men.

[slatyb]

Some women are only attractive on the outside.

[Agent_Elflord]

He may not personally find her attractive

[jahaims]

A man of character needs more than looks

[Nice222]

Because she might not easily go away.

[OtterMan68]

non compatible?