We've been dating one month, and I said I don't want to have sex before three months. Recently, he has been touching me a lot, and either folding up my sleeves to expose my arm, lifting my shirt to expose my back and belly, and if I'm wearing a dress, raising the hemline to expose my thighs. He rubs my arms, kisses and touches my back and belly and rubs my thighs. Should I be concerned that he only has one thing on his mind or is he just being a guy?
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Girls, Should I be concerned if my boyfriend wants to see my body a lot?
What Girls Said
In only one month? I feel it's more. But in your age group it's very rare to have any serious relationship also mostly are out there just only for sex. I don't know I can't generalize it. But if you don't like it you should strictly stop it.
You should not allow anything telling it as "guy thing". It's not. Everyone can control themselves. If they don't listen if they don't behave as civil being they are just animal. You make your own rules and boundaries and no need to give anyone the advantage of any such tag. Three months are ok. It's not like forever. It's not like you are denying but at least you want to know him and at least have some feelings and connection to grow between you both it's totally right. Stop him directly. Don't hesitate.