There's a girl who works as a receptionist at my psychiatrists office, she's always very nice and professional. I think it's about time that I told her that she's beautiful, which she is. I have a girlfriend already, but whoever is dating her is a lucky man, who ought to treat her like a lady.
How would you react if a man came up to you and said "I have to tell you something, you are beautiful"?🤔
I'd be flattered
I'd be creeped out
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How would you react if a man said you were beautiful?
I get the whole telling a woman how beautiful you think she is, (Even though these days they'd probably hate it) but what I can't grasp is:-
You think someone deserves to treat her nice because she is gorgeous to look at. Well what If she was a moose? Would she deserve to be treated badly then?
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Men need to treat ladies with respect, I think that value is even more important when the lady is nice and respectful towards even people she doesn't know (me, of course)
most girls get told that often. when someone tells me that sort of stuff if it's polite and not interested i'll thank them and it can be a little confidence boost. now if it's flirty i'm usually annoyed unless i think they're cute and i'm in the mood for that. if it's a bit too much, i'll get creeped out. though in all cases i'll act nice about and like i'm happy they complimented me cause i dont want them to get upset or cause problems
Let me just point out - She is a receptionist & its her JOB to be nice! So I think who ever hired her DID A GOOD JOB! Now get back to your work! We are all different outside work!
And for you to have a girlfriend currently and wondering eyes, says a lot about you!
Well she certainly should be flattered by the compliment , tell her , I'm sure she would be delighted , I snagged a dental assistant this way ( years ago ) , and another lovely girl who worked in a clothing store..
Doesn't work as well in USA I found , but in Australia a ripper..
That’s weird…. cuz you’re taken. Why do you wanna give her that when you’re taken? I always find it awk and ick if someone is taken but wanna do this, makes a move, or checks me out…
She has fhe same hair as my girlfriend, and she's always been nice to me, letting me get away with not completing the 15 pages of paperwork done annually when I tell her none of my insurance, or anything have changed.
I've had girls in the past tell me that I made their day by saying that, it sure would be nice to make someone's day
Did they know you’re taken though? Maybe some may like it even if someone is taken, but I’m being honest that most such as me finds it awk and weird receiving compliments from a taken men that I’m beautiful and such. If you were single, it would be different for me. If you’re so strong about wanting to make other women day and give that extra attention despite you have a girlfriend suit yourself lol. That’s your choice.
No, no, no, no. Don't do that, man. Consider the context. This is a medical context; NOT a romantic context. This is not the time nor the place. Keep your spheres separated.
I pay a lot of comments to both men and women. When I'm complimenting a woman I try to make it clear that I'm not expecting anything in return. Never compliment a strange woman's figure. That is creepy. Generally my compliments are well-received.
It happens all the time from the when we're 12 or 13 from guys of all ages, and if I was being hit on in a psychiatrist's office? I wouldn't be hooking up with any of the patients.
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I'm not looking for any reciprocation, except maybe a smile and a "thank you!"
That would make my day, to know that I've made someone else's day
Then it wouldn't have to be a beautiful woman if all you want to do is "make someone's day," imagine how much an unattractive woman would appreciate hearing that, or some random guy who's just having a hard day. But you're specifically after a beautiful woman.
@Jamie05rhs Thank you for your concerns, but you needn't worry. Yes I'm married, Happily too, and I think I know what would would or wouldn't upset my wife a lot better than you do. Besides there is nothing I type to anyone I wouldn't want her seeing!
