*the next day back at work I kept greeting him in the mornings and tried to become friends with him but he's very shy and awkward and just stares at me now
You think he’s a f&ckboi because he complimented your physique?
@CuriousGuyP1 no not exactly you what I mean when a random guy hits you up says bs like "hey beautiful" and stuff. I just roll my eyes and think how many other girls you tried that one on with today and It didn't work
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How is that creepy? expressing feelings is creepy? wth?
Its creepy because.... If I just met this person, they don't know me good enough to be calling be that. Its moving too fast. I would be thinkin, he's only saying that because he wants sex or something. Guys do that all the time, they lie to u, to get you to believe wht their sayin is true. I'm smart I'm not fallin for that.
You shouldn’t find it creepy, guys aren’t going to be like wow, you seem like a girl who studies biology and discusses the anatomy of the human body. I think most often looks are what we go by first and then the personality. When guys say “you pretty” or “you look beautiful” it’s part of the ice breaker for us guys to get a convo going. Going up to random girls/women that catch our attention is not easy but the mind set is, we won’t know until we try.
And girl, I have called girls beautiful and pretty in the past and not have sex with them only to realize their personality was awful so I didn’t bother. Yes, guys are geared to want sex but you can’t label all guys/men that way, that’s like me saying all girls are probably gold diggers.
Hey... I don’t lie 😠I’m truthful and sex isn’t my #1 priority why do you over generalize
Yep it’s both “cute” and “creepy”. In other words we are damned if we do damned if we don’t. You know I used to be self conscious about the being called a “creep”. But you women have so over used and abused that phrase that say to all my brothers out there BE AS CREEPY AS YOU WANT. Just be fucking proud of it.
I'm willing to bet if it's a guy that you, really, REALLY like,... I'm sure you won't find him creepy, right?
@McKellar Exactly mate. It's only creepy when they want it to be creepy. And it's not creepy when the guy is the most handsome guy ever to them. Then it's "cute".
Why would that be creepy? You can be strangers and find each other beautiful. You see what you see and feel what you feel. What does time have to do anything?
@russiecantsing exactly. The thing I found the most on the girls I've come across here yeah they'd say the same. "You don't know me well!" Excuse me ladies because I wanna get to know you so I just say that to come closer to you hopefully I can get to talk to you. When they say that ya know it's kinda putting my mood down already. I'd feel upset right away.
First of all you have a warped sense of reality and should probably stay away from him unless you can change. Complimenting people doesn’t in anyway make you creepy. That’s like me saying that girl is really smart and she is like woah! That guys creepy. Secondly yes some guys lie yes that’s why you try to get to know him instead of assuming like a kid or not intelligent person would do. If he’s going to lie and he’s smarter then you then there is literally nothing you can do about it. But if he isn’t and you push him away you lost a shot. Ultimately change the way you think
I've never been called creepy despite complimenting girls within 3 seconds of meeting them. A well placed compliment is an excellent way to communicate intent to a girl you want to meet and potentially engage with romantically/sexually.
I've been told to be more be careful when approaching a girl. So yeah thanks for helping me losing more of my trust on girls because you just think that way over men, putting us in a stereotype THAT DEFINITELY I don't belong to.
@Mikey_Ramone girls only think we want sex 🤷♂️Idk why
The majority of young boys DO mostly only want sex- doesn’t mean they don’t care for the girls. I can safely say any girl whose dated has encountered a guy who only wants sex. However, girls like @biannnnnnn are the reason men don’t want to express feelings and genuine kindness, and why women complain when they don’t, only to call it creepy when they do.
@VaIiant you nailed it right on the head I’m a sweet and kind guy but I don’t show it because I don’t trust nobody 🤷♂️ And sex isn’t everything to me of course I love sex it’s a given but sex can’t replace love 🤷♂️
@Confidenceoverload nice to see that in a guy. In my experience, guys want sex more then anything else but if they value the relationship it’s not a must. However, I’ve had friends who guys have stayed with them for almost a year, and when they had sex with him he ended the relationship because, quote, “he got what he wanted”
@VaIiant that would fucking suck but you know there are dickhead and there are nice guys 🤷♂️You can’t always have what you want but either way one day maybe every one can have the perfect one 😊 and I don’t really care for sex it’s just a time waster for me because I just wanna be loved🤷♂️In all honesty
@VaIiant thank you for the opinion and to @Confidenceoverload too. You guys are the reason I still believe there's hope for good guys.
@Mikey_Ramone whoever said good guys come last was right but I rather come in last and have a good thing last a lifetime rather than be in first and have a good thing last a few minutes or days
@Confidenceoverload that's damn correct. You just talked to my heart there bro. Rather having a long lasting relationship than just for a while.
@Mikey_Ramone 🤷♂️Facts it’s good there are bad boys because they make the good girls want us more 🤷♂️😂
We must protect this girl at all costs!
Oops! I meant compliment, not commitment. Ever since I updated my phone autocorrect has been overactive.
You would hate me lol, when i see a down girl or alone girl, i try making them feel better and not lonely, so i sometimes just walk up to the girl, ask her if she's okey, find something nice about her and tell her. I also ask if they want company, and if they say no, i just say "have a good day, and dont let anyone tell you you ain't beautifull" :)
Doesn’t liking lead to wanting to be in a relationship?
This is all the magic of few words!!! You impress me