Why do I think and fantasize over a guy I barely know when I have a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I see this guy basically everyday and we always happen to make eye contact a few times a day. For some reason I can’t get him off my mind. Starting to feel really guilty but there’s something about this guy that I can’t help myself.

[Anonymous]

Had that happen to me years ago. Had to basically avoid the guy lol Eventually I started to look for his “faults” so that I can force myself to stop fantasizing about him

[Booklover_90]

Is there a way for you not to see him everyday?

[Asker]

We both work at the same building but different departments.

[Booklover_90]

Okay. Do you purposefully put yourself in a situation where you know you’ll see him?

[Asker]

No lol, unfortunately I work at the front desk and see him as he walks past numerous times a day

[Billlewis]

Because you know, deep down, that you want to have sex with him.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Billlewis. Absolutely correct.

[jahaims]

You are emotionally mature enough for a relationship

[Lara_Croft]

Your eyes Proverbs 31 vs 1

[KrakenAttackin]

Because you are hypergamous by nature.

[Asker]

What does this mean? lol

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... women are always looking to trade up.

[Asker]

I’m not looking to trade up as they are both not better than the other.

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker... but you want mystery man to bang you silly.

[Asker]

Sometimes I wonder if there’s something more than just to bang

[HateyouxD]

I doubt it

[Luckycharms12]

You are naughty girl