I keep dreaming about a guy I don't even have a crush on?

[DermalPunch]

This post is for those who are intuitives, etc. So miss me on the there's no such thing and blah blah blah.

So there's this guy who, I suspect is very attracted to me, since he acts just weird and erratic. We'll call him "Chef".

I'm not into him but I see him basically everyday.

Anyway, I broke up with this other guy and I been having dreams about him. Mostly before he will come outside of my house trying to get me to come talk to him. He deserves the cold shoulder. Trust me.

Anyway, had a dream with the recent ex talking to Chef. Then another long dream last night with my ex walking away with his back turned and just myself and Chef.

It's all so odd. I don't get why Chef and my ex keep popping up in my sleep.

[RealMarek]

If you dream about one person consistently, even if it’s an erotic dream, it can be something as simple as being concerned about the person subconsciously. I seriously doubt you’re attracted to him without knowing it.

[DermalPunch]

It isn't an erotic dream.

[Anonymous]

You aren't into chef but he's taken the role of your ex who has walked away.

[DermalPunch]

Hmm. Anymore?

[DermalPunch]

Chef would like something but not enough to do anything about it. Ialso feel my ex was talkkng about me to the guys in the neighborhood. I have never mentioned him ever.

[Opinion Owner]

You want what you cannot have and what you have you don't want.

[DermalPunch]

Oh I could have my ex back. He was just a real jerk and I refuse to reconcile.

[Opinion Owner]

You can have him back but you know he's not good for you, you can never have him just the asshole version of him.

[DermalPunch]

Correct. I don't know him but what he did show was deplorable. We were going out for two weeks and he just did a 180 and so I accepted it and moved on because he really hurt my feelings. He was blocked and that was it. I ignored him if I saw him around since I was dumped for someone else, allegedly. The attraction is still there but I'm just turned off.

He spent about 1.5 months messaging, calling, texting (different number) and showing up outside my house. I just am not going to take the risk on any version. Anyone who could be so heartless and mean clearly doesn't truly like me.

[Anonymous]

You like him. You just dont know it. It took me a long time to understand why I kept seeing the same guy in my dreams but you like him

[DermalPunch]

I like him as hi and bye but not attracted. There is a huge delay reader with him. I just like saying hi and bye.

[DermalPunch]

Deal breaker

[Opinion Owner]

You do trust me. Not all love start with attraction

[DermalPunch]

You have a point.

[Opinion Owner]

:)...

[DermalPunch]

LOL, he is a cook at a sandwich stall across the street from my house. When came to see the apartment I now live in over a year ago, he looked stunned when he saw me.

We are basically neighbours now so we say hi. I don’t go there much because they don't practice proper food handling but I have nothing personally against him.

Some weeks he will say hello no issue. Other days he will hide from me or not talk to me.

I will catch him staring. His coworker who helps him on the weekends is ALWAYYYSSS Watching me. Sometimes they are just there talking and looking at me no shame. 🙄

Recently, i got him to make me a plate of loaded fries which isn't on the menu. I had to show him a photo. While I was searching on my phone, I could see he was just staring taking me in and was soooo happy I was there.

Then hours later he looked pissed to see me and avoided me all week.

Now he's being nice again.

Pffft.

He's a young guy (much younger than me and I'm done with young guys even though they won't seem to be done with me 😒) and I will laugh because I will see young girls pass by and they are totally trying to get his attention.

I'm really not interested in truly. I just feel he's an alright guy.

[Opinion Owner]

You sure notice a lot about him:)

[DermalPunch]

I notice everything about everybody.

[Opinion Owner]

:))...

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO:)

[SnowedIn]

My first guess is that you see Chef every dad and that's why he ends up in your dreams. And your ex because they're your ex.

[SnowedIn]

*day not "dad"

[MementoMori777]

our minds can use faces we see in real life to create dreams, they can be in unusual patterns and if im not mistaken its said it has no meaning

[EaterPeter]

May be tume to let go ex and say hello to chef. As ex. Is approving chef?

[DermalPunch]

I stopped communicating with my ex the moment he dumped me. Chef andnI are not interested in one another.

[EaterPeter]

So you believe in dream interpretations?

[EaterPeter]

You are not interested in chef but how do you know about him not being interested in you for sure?

[DermalPunch]

Because if a man won't approach and state clearly his interest is the same as no interest. I've learned my lesson.

[Andres77]

I’ve been dreaming about clouds lately.

[monghjay2]

power of the penis