When a guy doesn’t want to start a video call or even send a voice note and talk by voice, does it mean that he is fake account?

[Pretty888]

One week ago I’ve chatted with a famous guy TikToker and after few days he said he love me and I’m a girl of his dream.. but I just wanted him to video call or even talk by voice to be sure that he is not fake account but he refused and told me about his management whom watch everything he is doing on WhatsApp but I kept ask him for a video call or even a voice note but he refused , then I told him “ if you really interested just think of how to assure the girl you’re talking with that you’re …(his name) , then he replied and said “ do you know what forget about it”. .
what does he mean exactly?

[ohshee]

You know I think you are completely right I think it's probably a catfish Orange are probably somebody else because I chat with a lot of people to and I'd like to do voice messaging because I want to hear the voice a girl refuses to do that then it makes me wonder or they refuse to send a picture makes you wonder I do understand the picture but why not the voice that makes no sense to me so just because they can't prove who they are then I quit talking with them

[Anonymous]

I don't agree with the answers suggesting he might be a catfish.
Maybe he's just self-conscious about the way he looks on camera?
I hate videochat apps myself and it seems they've become a prerequisite for job interviews and all social interactions.. Everyone these days is like "let's Skype or take a selfie".
They can a fisheye effect like selfie cameras and distort your face and make it look bigger, in comparison to normal videos.
I avoid doing it that, unless it's an emergency

[Opinion Owner]

I mean it's a possibility he might be fake if he doesn't want to talk to you on the phone, but might not be the case always

[Pretty888]

I only wanted a voice note of him when he refused a video call , was hoping his accepting to make sure that the guy am talking him is not fake!
Thanks for your comment.. Appreciated

[PrettyPriya]

Maybe he just isn't comfortable doing that with strangers on the internet. I don't know 🤷‍♀️

[Pretty888]

I hope so

[PrettyPriya]

@Pretty888 I wouldn't overthink it too much. It could be a number of reasons. I wouldn't press the issue and let him open up on his own time. Good luck to you!

[Pretty888]

But I only needed to hear your voice for few seconds just to make sure he is the same guy not fake one

[PrettyPriya]

@Pretty888 I get what you are saying. You want validation that it isn't someone pretending. Give it some time. If he just refuses then you may have an imposter. That is the issue with the internet, sadly.

[Pretty888]

Heartfelt thanks for your help and your comments. Good luck to you too
Be safe and happy❤️

[PrettyPriya]

@Pretty888 Thank you for the kind words. You do the same and good luck to you. 😊

[wankiam]

watch the show catfish and this is the first basic thing they tell you.

[Pretty888]

Sorry, I didn’t get what you mean

[wankiam]

they tell you that if the other person is making up excuses to avoid voice calls or video chat then they are most likely fake

[Shellog]

@wankiam or maybe they are just self-conscious about the way they look on camera. I hate videochat apps myself and it seems they've become a prerequisite for job interviews and all social interactions.. They can a fisheye effect like selfie cameras and distort your face and make it look bigger. If a photographer is taking a photo or video of me, I don't mind

[wankiam]

@Shellog its a possibility but of all the times they showed this on the show, it was only the case once that the guy was just genuinely shy so what i would say to you is remain sceptacle or you might well be the next victim of a catfish yourself

[Pretty888]

I see , many thanks 🙏

[Pretty888]

@Shellog same here I also don’t like video calls at all , I just want him to appear on cam for seconds to be sure he real tiktoker guy who sharing edits with his fans , as I asked him for even sending voice note to hear his voice because I know well the tiktoker guy voice

[wankiam]

im the same, i have a teams call in an hour for work and im dreading it but a simple voicecall shouldn't be an issue for anyone really

[Shellog]

@Pretty888 oh I didn't notice your post that he's a TikToker. If he already does videos and it's his job, it's pretty strange 🤔 not even a voicemail? I don't know how famous he is, if he's like Charlie D'Amelio level famous, you're probably being catfished

[Pretty888]

So true , But his reply was “( do you know what forget about it )” Does he mean that’s won’t happen (for both video call or voice note “
OR “ forget about “. means to forget about us? Specially I started my message with “ if you really interested “

[Pretty888]

@Shellog yeah he is saying he couldn’t send voice note before a meet in reality because his management is watching his mobile ! That’s really pretty strange ! I don’t know , U guys got extra business experience , in models career does it require to hide their voices and their faces in a private chat on WhatsApp? All I wanted a short voice note or video call for seconds

[Crepe_tart]

Yep, it's probably fake and will catfish you. Careful there

[Pretty888]

I feel so that he is a fake!
Thanks for your help 🙏

[Crepe_tart]

Anytime :)

[Iron_Man]

He’s already making videos that’s strange and he won’t Talk to you

[Pretty888]

If so, he wants talk to me , plus he is so romantic even when I being nervous, even when I asked him for a voice note , he was replying in a nice way and saying that he loves me.. etc but he couldn’t opens his camera or send a voice note because his management is watching his phone and what he is doing !! But the last message he sent to me and he asking what I am doing , I ignored his question and asked him again for voice note sending and think of how to assure me to be sure that he is not faked the famous tiktoker’s account

[Iron_Man]

Probably MoveOn not always at work

[Pretty888]

Beside of, he wants to meet me although we are living in a different countries , but he told me thing that was odd for me ( he told me I must to email or talk with his management to arrange our meeting , so I told him “ why? I’m not a one of your time, plus we all have our space to do what we want to do like when we meet someone or meet new people , it’s your private life then he replied and said that if I didn’t talk with his management I would pay the coast of the trip

[Iron_Man]

Big scam guy stay away from him

[Pretty888]

P. s he was saying that I would pay the coast of the trip in case if I didn’t talk with his management or email them , but if I did and accepted to talk his management for our meeting in this case they will pay the cost of his trip not me!
But you know, he cam tells them about this trip , the matter doesn’t need me , right?

[Iron_Man]

He’s a con artist he wants you to pay for it and probably want you to deposit a check into
his online banking account please don’t do that. Has he seen your pic

[Pretty888]

Sorry for typo. ( he can*) he can tell them himself

[Iron_Man]

It’s ok and right

[Pretty888]

My profile picture is already shown on WhatsApp , plus I sometimes share videos and photos (whatsapp-status)

[Sambelfast22]

Either it's a fake account or he's a married man. Most single genuine guys would want a video call.

[Pretty888]

Exactly most of guys whom asking girl for video calls
But am wondering what’s the difference between typing and voice notes or video calls for men? plus my request for even a voice note he sends or to open his cam for seconds no more and for only once

[Pretty888]

For married* men

[Sambelfast22]

If I was you I would stop texting him as he's definitely got a girl or he's a fake account. If a girl asked me for a video call I'd call right away😂😂

[Pretty888]

We ‘ve started our chatting 6 days ago.. what girl he got it bro 😊 as I must to tell something that my talk with him was in very polite way which means he doesn’t felt boring in case if he is looking for a dirty stuff
But the odd thing is the efuses to open his cam or even send a voice note

[Sambelfast22]

He maybe wants kinky cam fun and you talking normal doesn't turn him

[GlassTop]

Why are you going after a “famous” person on tiktok? Zoomer app for weirdos and children. Yea no crap it’s probably some old guy pretending to be him. Or the person is a weirdo. Don’t date on tiktok that’s just so weird.

[nawtee_me]

Nope but he might be married or maybe he just doesn't give out his number like that...

[Pretty888]

We are talking on WhatsApp , I got this number

[Pretty888]

The TikTok’s guy is sharing everything about his status ithrough his videos and when he start broadcast and he said that he is single

[Anonymous]

He's catfishing you. He's a scam artist that's not the real person you think you're talking to. It's some black bastard from Nigeria trying to scam you for gift cards

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Could also just be shy

[Pretty888]

If him that famous tiktoker who posted everyday edits and goes to live broadcast is that suits a shy guy?

[Fromdusktilldawn]

I know some guys who can go party and be loud as hell but go very quiet and shy when their crush is near

[Anonymous]

Likely.