Why does he reject me harshly if he is attracted to women who look like me?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Never take rejection to your heart and let yourself heal from that monster guy. He is clearly not a good guy if he treats one girls poorly and the other girl best. As a human at least he should have some respect towards a girl and say no to her politely without hurting her instead of being harsh. He is harsh shows his true nature which is evil. Since he is evil he likes girls who are evil too hence, he gets attracted to those girls who doesn't give attention to him on Facebook. He is not a good guy for you to be in a relationship with. Even though he is attracted to a girl and he is acting shit towards you, he can also act rude to her after he got what she wants from her which is ego satisfaction. Ignore him completely and propose a more best guy right before him who actually is ready to accept you. First guy will surely feel as loser before your another guy and he will lose you permanently and if you are gonna do this, be sure not to cheat second guy after you shown first guy what he lost even if he comes back, reject him double harsh and ignore him completely and he will surely feel bad and realise his mistake but till that time you will be in the hands of more best guy than him and you'll be thankful yourself for this later

[ProbablyClueless]

Guys are attracted to more than just appearance. Maybe there's something about your personality that didn't mesh well with his.

[Asker]

We have never talked in person. I’ve seen him a few times on campus and matched with him on Bumble. We had a nice chat and then I mentioned that he was staring at me in college and asked why he didn’t approach me. He went cold and said „idk I guess I just wasn’t interested“. Mind you from what I’ve seen he is actually quite a flirty friendly person so this harsh response was very unexpected even if it was true

[ProbablyClueless]

Oh... I could see someone not really knowing how to handle a question like that. You're pointing out something that he did wrong.

I wouldn't read too much into his response.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Just because he's attracted to women that look like you doesn't mean he's attracted to you

[Asker]

Doesn’t make any sense

[TommyMountainFigure]

It sounds like it has nothing to do with your looks then. Maybe personality?

[In_Trance]

Because they're not you

[Anonymous]

I'm sure he has his reasons. Just move on