Why don't men want to date Onlyfans women?

[Anonymous]

What the fuck? I think those men are too insecure. Only real men can handle onlyfan womens

[Flatmanlewis]

The problem is in your state of mind already. “… I think those men are too insecure. Only real men can handle onlyfan womens.” This shifts the entirety of the issue on men and implies they have underlying issues which make them the problem, not the woman or even the situation.


First, it probably depends entirely on what a woman’s role in porn is. On the low end of the spectrum is perhaps nude modeling or erotic pictures. This is relatively tame by porn standards and probably has a larger bandwidth or men who could accept this. On the other end of the spectrum is masturbation, sex with another person (s), or outright prostitution.


What man would be comfortable knowing any one of his friends, coworkers, family, or even random strangers may have intimate knowledge of his woman? It lowers her value and worth to him. Particularly because as a general rule men don’t discuss the specifics of their woman’s sex life with other men, if they respect her. This bypasses this barrier and makes her sexuality part of the public domain. Simply put, it’s not worth it. It’s not that he’s insecure or not a ‘real man’. It’s just not worth the drama. (Also, defining a man’s manhood, or “real man status”, on who he dates is a horrible standard. A man’s overall worth is far more dependent on a dozen factors than just the woman in his life. I have found this to the the blanket excuse of women who need to offload the accountability of her own life into another. Blaming is easier than accepting.)


Men don’t generally care about a woman’s income so the profit she may make is not much of a counterbalance to these concerns.


Fair question, would any woman accept a man who was routinely engaging in sexual acts or encounters with other women? The absolute vast majority of women would say no. Even a month on GaG will validate this point.


I would absolutely accept, date, or marry a woman who had some fringe involvement in monetizing her looks - be it a model, bikini-competor, Playmate, or Vegas showgirl but that’s about it. Once the image went live such as on video, internet, or any direct consumer transaction occurred, it would be a wave off for me. Also, this would have to be a part of her past, not her current life.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Personally, I don't care much. However, you're going to have a hard time finding a guy with any sense of pride for multiple reasons.

First, it is incredibly hard to trust a woman who not only does that kind of work, but doesn't understand why it would be difficult for the average man to accept.

Building off that point, it puts the man in an extremely disadvantaged position socially. A woman has a shitty partner, yes she gets judges a little, but she'll get more pity than anything else. A guy with a shitty partner is viewed as less trustworthy in terms of judgment, emotionally immature, undisciplined, and unworthy of being held in high regard.

As unfair as it is, when everyone has seen your girl performing sex on a Webcam site, that's all they can see. They don't see (insert name here) the girl who has a degree and learned a second language when she was 22 excetra excetra, they see someone who took the easy way out because she didn't have anything else to offer because why else would she do such a degrading thing.

That's just how people think and the reality is, any man you date will have that hanging over them wherever they go and it will come out and attack anywhere at anytime. It could be the dinner table on a holiday, it could be at work when he wants to intruduce you to his boss for because he's trying to have diner with them and get a promotion, social media, imagine when you have kids.

They're insecure? Damm right there insecure, they'd have something to be incredibly insecure about dating someone who brings so much trouble into their life. It's not insecure, it's just realizing you're not that guy who knows how to handle those situations, or maybe they morally have something against it.

But there are very real reasons.

I hope you find the right guy who loves and appreciates you and has the confidence and other things in life necessary to your relationship working out. There are guys who don't care much about any of that.

[laly520]

tell me u r brainwashed without telling me u r brainwashed type of question

im sorry girl, its too harsh to open eyes to reality but u need to do that unless u want to live in a lie n delusions, facing an unavoidable bad ending

u r still young n it isn't too late to save urself if not from doing OF then from thinking its totally fine n ok

[Miristheiss]

"Isn't too late"
Well, if she's already posted stuff then it is. You can't undo that or just take it back. Tainted for life.

[laly520]

@Miristheiss what do u want me to tell her? its too late so keep doing such trashy things? she needs to see there is some hope to change n do better

[Miristheiss]

It is irrelevant at this point. I'm sure lots of cuck, simp losers will go for her.

[laly520]

@Miristheiss what a life to live smh
its up to her by end of day tho I hope she will change her messed up mindset n do better

[IslaTheWitch]

if you are an active OnlyFan person, you shouldn't be surprised. Men want their women's bodies to be restricted just for them... I would say it's natural and has nothing to do with insecurities.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I don't think you got the entirety or even gist of it but admire the effort. Our feelings are complicated; like teardrops in a blizzard.

[IslaTheWitch]

@GuyAnswersGirls123 I tried my best, but I definitely look at it from the wrong perspective :D

[MrOracle]

A big part of a woman's value to a man as a relationship partner is her chastity and her exclusively. A woman who does sex work is actively choosing to destroy her own value as a relationship partner. And while it's her life and she can do what she likes, that certainly doesn't mean that her choices won't have severe consequences.

Women absolutely hold men accountable for their own choices, so why would you ever imagine that men would not do the same with women?

I realize that a lot of men will still pursue you for casual sex even if you are doing OF, but don't confuse that as them being willing to be in a relationship - those are two very different things. There have always been and will always be men who will bang girls that they would never take seriously as a relationship partner.

Nothing in this life is free. If something is really easy with a big reward, you should immediately ask yourself what the HIDDEN costs are, because they will always be there.

[AviatorTom]

Simple answer... most of the women on OF are married or have boyfriends.

[MrOracle]

1. That's provably false.

2. Of the women for whom this is true when they start, a sizable percentage won't be able to say the same by the time they quit.

[V_Injector]

Sooo you're trolling right? That's like me saying only real women bang nothing but INCELs because they know they haven't got any pussy.

What? You too insecure to fuck 4'9" tall guys that are in desperate need of a shower, and they don't have money for a date, with micro penis, and lack of social skills?

Think about it though... why aren't the Onlyfans women going for those guys? I mean a lot of the men paying them $3/month just to see their butthole are those guys already. They have their men already. They made their choice. Those guys would love to date her.

But oooohhhh, they want me, Chad, Tyrone, Carlos, and some guy named D_Bone_Steak. I might fuck, but if she wants dates, she can come pick me up in her car and open doors for me, pay for all my shit, and then entertain me. Dance! Dance, monkey, Dance! eh hum... sorry.

I do have a question though... you want a guy that legit a good guy, or you want the next Andrew Tate that's currently getting with those girls? Who you really want out of a man?

[Asker]

Personally my standard are not that high. I don't care about how much money guy make. I make a lot
I won't date a guy shorter than me. Because I don't find short guy attractive. I only like tall mens
And i won't date someone with micro penis. Because he can't satisfy me

This is different. A guy would find me attractive but won't date me because he is too insecure. It is different from me not dating a guy I don't find attractive

[V_Injector]

I think "insecure" is just the wrong word. The most insecure are going to hop right into a full-on relationship with an e-girl. Those of us that are secure might hop straight into bed with the e-girl, but date? Relationship stuff? Yeah right. I wouldn't take her seriously. She's a sex worker.

But again I think insecure is the wrong word... replace it with self-respecting, and what you're saying makes perfect sense. A dude with no self-respect would be all about it. While even the midget dick guy that needs a shower would turn you down if he has a certain level of self-respect.

Let's take me for instance though, I have self respect, but I'd bang Belle Delphine... but anything serious like dating... I would want to remain a complete secret to the world. Plus in the back of my mind, she's a sex worker. It might not start out with me having to share actual dicks in her vagina, but we both know it will eventually go there. I mean think about it from your own shoes... you meet Mr. Perfect and he just sells pictures and videos of him jerking off seemingly all day. You really going to introduce him to your female friends and family as the guy that jerks off all day? Eventually the fans want more, so you might get to be the stunt pussy for a while... and so the story goes.

I'm just saying it's not as simply defined as "oh he's just insecure" just because he's not getting with a sex worker. I mean, not wanting to be with a girl that everyone at work, your family, and your friends has seen naked slamming her pussy with dildos all day really about insecurity? That has to do more with self-respect. I mean his girl might be fuckable, but she is still just a hooker.

[Asker]

@v_injector you said it. That you care about what your family think.
You are insecure
Real men don't give a fuck about other opinion. He is fearless

I personally am not attracted to cowards.
I won't have sex with fan. What they want don't matter

[Asker]

I would be coward. For example if I refused to date a cute guy. Because he is broke

It is basically same

[V_Injector]

Naw... you're conflating words. What is your original language?

[Asker]

Thai

[Asker]

But caring about other people opinion is cowardy

[V_Injector]

Ah, I've been to Thailand a few times, but I never learned the language there. I get what you're saying by "caring about other people opinion is cowardly" but at the same time I think that opinion being applied so firmly in a fixed position could be cultural. When I lived in Japan for instance, not caring for other people's opinions was considered selfish and in a way weak... shameful in fact. From my standpoint as an American, you're opinion could be very political and taken in two very different directions depending on who you're speaking to and their political leanings.

Like, let me put it this way... your parents sold their home after you begged them to go to school, and now your parents think you should go to school on time, but you just don't care about their opinion... is that cowardly, disrespectful, rebellious, et cetera? I could say it's cowardly in that context, but it would have a negative context... not a brave, honorable, respectful context.

Perception due to cultural differences could also play a huge part. My friends and father-in-law are going to chuckle when I say "I love to bang me some hookers" but my wife and my Mother would sneer at me. I can announce that I don't care what they think, but then they'll just call me a dirty filthy piece of shit.

Bottom line, I think it would come across a little differently if said just a bit differently.

[Asker]

@v_injector dude I used to post normal picture on Instagram. Guys used to tell me in dms that they use my picture for masturbation. Guy masturbating to my picture without my permission is okay?

But me making some bucks is not?

[Asker]

Think about it

A guy think that i am cute and i think that he is cute. I earn lot of money. So we would have good life
And he is ready to leave his dream girl and dream life because of other people?

This men is example of brave men?

I personally am only attracted to very masculine and brave men

[V_Injector]

By that logic it would follow that you want to be with the type of guy that masturbates to your Instagram pictures. I don't think masturbating to your picture is all that okay... think about it though... they have an agenda if they tell you about it. By your logic though, they are brave because they don't care what we think.

... and if you want to make the big bucks off those kinds of men, and end up attracting more of them in the process, that's your prerogative, and I'm not going to knock it... it's easy money. If I had what onlyfans wanted or would accept, I would probably do it and I tried. https://onlyfans.com/d_bone_steak
They refused to verify me. I was just going to lift weights in a bright neon green thong. Maybe show a nutsack or a wiener flash for the right tip amount. But I would keep it pretty much "watch me lift these weights" and that's about it. ... so obviously, I'm not going to mock your choice to make money that way.

But I have a wife that accepts that, and if you find a man that accepts that... good for you. But do try to understand why some men wouldn't... and why that doesn't make them insecure. It just makes them men with boundaries. You said you don't like guys shorter than you, that is your boundary and it should be respected. But should you be called a coward for not breaking your boundaries? If not, then neither should men that just don't want to date an OF girl. See what I'm saying?

[V_Injector]

I have my own gym... tons of equipment... set up a few cameras... then they just wouldn't verify me. I even went and got a new ID card... still not working. I might try chaturbate later... I don't know. Sort of lost my motivation.

[Asker]

What are your opinion about dudes who use Asian girls but don't want to to marry them because of their families?

Isn't is basically same thing?

[V_Injector]

I'm married to an Asian girl for about 20 years now, I wouldn't know simply because I'm not in their shoes. I think I'd feel sorry for them more than any disdain.

[Asker]

It have happened to me.

I don't see how it is different. They like me but don't want long term relationship because their family won't accept Asian in their family.

They care about their family opinion more than their feeling

Now I have done onlyfan now what?

Just keep getting used by dudes?

[ThrobbingMeat]

*a sex worker calls men cowards for rejecting her, rejecting easy money, preferring to earn it via hard work*

[Strong_Warrior]

Asker you are lying

[Strong_Warrior]

Asker you are a fuckin gold digger. You are a thief who steal mens money by using sexuality

[Strong_Warrior]

Andrew Tate is a good man. Why did you point out him as a bas guy?

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Saying real men do this and that doesn't make it so. Having an onlyfans thing is bullshit. If I had one, it is not in my say to say real women will accept me. I can only hope they forgive me for my bullshit in the past. Hopefully I've gotten over it. You can only hope for the same. You try to shame people for things you know deep down are a vice and you will only find your fans. If that makes you happy, good for you. But if you're looking for the guy who isn't your fan, you can't blame him for not being a fan.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

So true

[Anonymous]

She’s selling her body like a prostitute. Girls and women nowadays don’t want to be with one guy or one man to appreciate her and all her qualities and attributes be it emotional or physical. That’s why I find social media more toxic. I’m sure most guys would feel proud to say, “my girlfriend or wife got her masters and works at a bank” compared to “my girlfriend dropped out of high school and created an OnlyFans”. Another thing about OnlyFans, the owner is a Zionist, therefore he supports the murder of tens of thousands of Palestinian men, women, and children. Since the Oct 7th war. Western media have labelled Hamas as the terrorists, yet Israel has been committing genocide for over 50 years. The founder of OnlyFans uses his money to help Israel and the IDF.

Honestly to any girl or woman reading this, do you want to keep being a circus animal for male entertainment or do you want guys and men to take you seriously and not just consider you a thot who will cheat. Personally, it’s embarrassing if I was with a girl who did OnlyFans and other guys I know, know what her body looks like, it’s creepy for me to know that.

[sawno]

Because they lower their sexual value. If I am going to give myself exclusively to you, and I am not going to sleep around. And you give your exclusivity to me that is a fair deal right? Except its not a fair deal, because I have to share your body with everyone who already paid for it. And your then also DMing those men and posting pictures to those men. Its not the kind of mother i'd want for my children, its the kind of girl who is clearly not monogamous and the constant monetization of sex has me doubting that she'd ever see sex on the same level of intimacy that I do.

So no, real men ignore onlyfans models and will not compromise for that sort of stuff.

[Asker]

No one is having sex with me. They're just seeing me naked. Very different

[sawno]

Which you then don't offer to me exclusively which another girl would, meanwhile all these men are sending you their sexual energy by masturbating over your pictures. As someone who believes in deeper exchanges like that (I experienced them) I don't know what that would cause but it makes me weary of connecting with her on that deep soul level.

[Asker]

@sawno. men used to masturbate even when I used to post picture on Instagram.

You can't stop men. That's why I started doing only fans.

[Asker]

Everyone have Instagram now.

[sawno]

Sure, but consent matters to me. You consent to it.

[Asker]

So basically random men masturbating on my pics is okay? But me earning some bucks through it is wrong?

[sawno]

Men masturbating to you being clothed is fine, but when you deliberately give them the value of your naked body, that means you lose that value in exclusivity. It's no longer a specialty to see you naked, I can just pay for it. Being able to fuck you is only part of that equation.

Because why would anyone pay to see you naked? Because that has value. So lets do the comparison in a way that makes more sense to you. If you had a video that was exclusive to the highest bidder, or it was for example $200 for the first person that bought it and then off the market forever, you will get a customer who'd pay for that exclusivity if the price equals the value of the exclusivity (Depending on how good your content is of course). So trough that we can establish that the exclusivity of a video has extra value.

So let's take two creators. One creators content is publically for sale, anyone can buy it. Will men pay $100 for a single video? Of course they won't, its not worth that much. So the creator whose stuff is public will make less per video. The second creator does an occasional high quality video but her content is only sold to the highest bidder. She may not make as much money due to lower volume, but she will earn way more per video since people are willing to pay for the exclusivity of it.

So now lets apply that to relationships, there are two girls. One anyone with a wallet can look at, so her looks are not exclusive. The other girl kept it sacred and special, only for the man she is with. He is the only person who gets to see that, which makes her naked body way more valuable. Men know they can get girls like that since girls like that are the norm. So why we ever settle for less if another girl offers more?

And yes, I purposefully amplified the objectification here. Men have way more legit reasons than this and my original argument is stronger in my opinion. But I wanted to get it across from a pure economics standpoint since you may relate to it more.

[Asker]

@sawno why exclusivity matter? Are you saying that women are object
many lesbians don't care about their partner having onlyfans. Because gender roles are not rigid in LGBTQ community

[sawno]

The LGBT community is inherently sexual. Exclusivity matters because that's the deal. You get me exclusively, I get you exclusively. Aka monogamous relationship. If you get me exclusively but I don't properly get you exclusively, it's just not a fair deal.

The reason I wrote my last response completely from an objectification standpoint is because you are objectifying yourself by being on OnlyFans and I wanted to have it be relatable to your industry. I see women as much more than just objects, hence me having issues with the whole harvesting sex energy thing. I see a girlfriend as a true partner trough mind body and soul. I aim for the deepest connection humanly possible, and I just don't think I can do that when she sells herself out.

[sawno]

But ill do a counter, you get to do your OnlyFans. Your boyfriend is allowed to get blowjobs from other girls. Fair deal?

[Asker]

@sawno what if I leave onlyfan?

[sawno]

Then more men would be open to it, but the problem is that you can't undo it. The content is still out there and by that point available for free on the internet.

[Asker]

@sawno how is it same through? He is having sex with people. While I am not
In some African tribes. Women show their breasts. It is basically same

We shouldn't sexualize body

[sawno]

Both of you are performing sexual acts, men are visual creatures so the visual is important to us (Which is why people pay for it). In this case, there is an element of an open relationship on both sides. I deliberately picked one that has value to you. He gets to experience a blowjob with a condom, but it stays private visually. You get to sell your body, but the physical experience is private. I had to do it like this due to the value exchange, considering people don't consider naked male bodies valuable.

[sawno]

You can also argue the man is not having sex in this exchange, he is merely getting a blowjob. There is no intercourse being done.

[sawno]

"We shouldn't sexualize body" you can not make this argument when you are profiting of the sexualization of your body. If we should not sexualize the body your pictures would not be posting suggestively and you would do it for free on a nude beach.

[Asker]

@sawno there are literally many nudes beaches. Where people show body for free

[Asker]

Plenty of dudes would date women who show their body for free lol.

[Asker]

What if I buy expensive gift from onlyfan income?

[sawno]

I don't care about expensive gifts. Not a material guy.

[Asker]

Would you date women who go to nude beaches?

[sawno]

It's a sign of incompatibility, since I don't like going to them at all. So she'd have to be very compatible with me in other ways. Not an immediate no though, since it's not sexual and everyone on a nude beach knows that taking pictures is a big no-go.

[sawno]

Also, in hindsight on the expensive gifts thing, that's a red flag to me. It would show she is irresponsible with money if it was merely bought for the sake of it being expensive.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

No, it's not. Why would I, as a guy, want to invest my time, finances, emotions and or open myself to someone whose most intimate of gifts, her naked body, can be seen online by anyone that is will to pay what 3.99 a month on onlyfans to see it? Seriously, a venti Starbucks Frappuccino costs more. Even a McDonald's happy meal costs more.

I personally know sex workers including 2 well known actresses that run sites and have met many others in the business and they all, everyone, have one thing in common. They view sex, intimacy and relationships differently than "vanilla" people. None of them have had successful personal relationships.

Their partners have to sacrifice a good majority of their needs and are still expected to support their "career" choice. Most men fantasize about dating sex workers but soon find out it's more of a nightmare and less of a dream scenario.

It is completely your choice to post your body on onlyfans but there are always consequences to that decision and one of the main consequences will be never being seen as an actual relationship option.

[sawno]

@XXTruthfulOgrexx I assume you meant that for the asker right? Because we are in agreement.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

wrong. Personally again, I avoid all social media like the toxic plague it is. I've never signed up. for Facebook.

[sawno]

@XXTruthfulOgrexx I genuinely don't know what argument of mine you're in disagreement with then.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

yes. that was for the asker. sorry, thread getting muddied.

[JacobJordan]

You don't even have to pay for it. All you need is to know the name. People who pay for it have taken screenshots or screen recorded most likely and posted it to various websites so just search the name in Google and see what pops up. Reality is only 1 person HAS to pay they can then likely post all the content to websites that anyone can then watch for free. Got a friend request from a girl I went to high school with and I checked her profile cause I couldn't remember who it was sure enough she has an onlyfans. Also does car stuff so I checked good typed (her name cars) and images were not just her and cars. Someone copied at least some of her content and posted it to other sites.

[Asker]

It is funny that you think that a guy is not undateable. If he masturbate on Instagram picture

While me making few bucks make me undateable. While they were masturbating without my consent

Movement I give consent. I become undateable

[JacobJordan]

Dear it is because no one wants to date or marry a whore

[sawno]

Yeah, we don't fault someone for things they can't do anything about that would be cruel.

[Miristheiss]

No, it isn't. I don't want any other men seeing the woman I care about naked. You stick a camera up your crotch and masturbate for 30 minutes and any man with an internet account can see every square inch of you, every hole, every mole, every jiggle anytime he wants. "No one is having sex with me", you say that as if all is ok and that you should be serious girlfriend/wife material. YOU ARE NOT.
Your past matters. You gave girlfriend/wife access to the entire world. You have nothing intimate or special or private to ever offer any man... ever.
You can never undo this or take it back. You are tainted for life.

[Miristheiss]

I would dump my girl if she went nude at the beach.
For MY eyes only.
She gets naked for no other man.
If she does we are done.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Those that only want an OF girl are delusional and live in their parents basement.


The whole point with OF girls is to entice men into thinking they have a chance and to continue running up credit card debt and dodging creditors. It isn’t difficult for these girls to feign interest when it comes to $$$.


Those are the type of men that 90% of other men don’t want to be thought of in that way.


The only time a guy wants a hoe, is if she is only that way with him specifically and in the bedroom.

[Levin]

Well, a year or so ago I matched with a girl on bumble or whereever it was. Saw she had some profile where she had some kind of media presence or whatever. She did music and also did some hosting for caravan shows. I was quite smitten because she had bags of personality.

Then I notice something awry about her profile. Turns out she has an only fans. Just turns me off. Unfortunately, there is something corrupting about the whole thing. You view a person differently. Or maybe it changes a person, I don't know. It's where you direct your energy.

[Haraklus]

Reminds me of a song:

"Why buy the cow when milk is cheap

Milk is cheap

Milk is cheap

Why buy the cow when milk is cheap

You gotta be outta your mind"

Why in the world would a guy date a woman putting herself out there on the internet for a few bucks for men around the world to see? There's a deep, visceral reaction that most men have against that. It's built pretty deeply into us. When it comes to having a relationship with a woman, we want a woman who is ours, for the most part -- unshared in any way, even just for viewing.

[boggboss]

Lol it is funny how insecurity is dealt with between men and women and when talking about itbwith men it's used as a weapon to insult a guy even if the reason is a man being insecure then what why would I want a partner thats got her body on display for the Internet thats fucking dead

[Asker]

Why do you care about her showing her body on internet? Gender roles
For example many lesbians don't care about their partner having onlyfans. Because gender roles are not rigid in LGBTQ community.

[boggboss]

Because I'm not happy with knowing guys are beating their meat to my partners body

[Asker]

I used to post pictures on Instagram. Guys used to masturbate. They were normal picture.

You can't stop mens. I started only fans because of it

Girl is your. You shouldn't care about what other guys are doing.

[boggboss]

Their is a difference between u posting normal pics and u posting sexual pics for other mens pleasure I dont want a partner that seeks validation or attention from other men online

[boggboss]

And I don't care what men are doing I care about what my partner does to attractvsaid attention

[Asker]

It is my job. It is you going to office.

[boggboss]

And the job u have is a turn off for me plenty of men would love it or not care which is fine but I find it yuck

[boggboss]

But expecting guys to be happy whilst being a sex worker is a ridicules statement

[Asker]

It is funny that you think that a guy is not undateable. If he masturbate on Instagram picture

While me making few bucks make me undateable. While they were masturbating without my consent

Movement I give consent. I become undateable

[boggboss]

I dony care about the guy in the equation as I dont date guys u can try to twist it how u want but the issue is not consent its u becoming a willing particapant and wanting that type of attention from guys and yes it would make u undatable for me

[Miristheiss]

So, you are going to lecture men on how they are supposed to feel? The standards they are allowed to have? Men have to just accept any sleazy, BS behavior of women. Actions have consequences. You can whine and complain all you want but actions have consequences and a woman's past does matter. When it comes to long term girlfriend or wife vetting a girl's past DOES MATTER. Go on with all of your pathetic shaming and lecturing that men still have to view prostitutes and whores and wife material, a person to be the mother of their offspring.
That just makes you insane.

[Miristheiss]

Because sex and her sexuality are just for her committed partner, who she is in love with, a long term boyfriend or her husband.

If she takes off her clothes for the sexual gratification and lust of hundreds, thousands of simp, pathetic men, puts videos and images of her naked body and sex acts that will be there forever, my parents could find out about it, future kids could find out and be bullied and disgusted that mom was a whore there is ZERO chance of her ever being girlfriend or wife material.

She can never be special. Sex would never be intimate between us, she's already sold herself to the scuzzy perverts of the planet, she's shared her naked body with everyone. As a girlfriend or wife that was reserved for me alone. Her even being willing to do sex work shows her values and moral are corrupt and disgusting.

Only simps and men with now standards or class would ever choose such a woman.

[flautistnaturist]

if you put a lighting crew on the inside of a camera to do a documentary on the goings on in film exposure, no salient image may be recorded as the film becomes overexposed to the flood of onlooking light. such is also they way in matters of privacy in that they are intended to contain sheltered precious aspects of purity in us. exposing matters intended to be as such to almost all the world's view, and in so doing deviating from private fidelity to instead engage in free for all with any available, undercuts a fundamental aspect of the intended nature of intimacy.

[flautistnaturist]

culture oblivious to the value of modesty and fidelity becomes insensitive to values derived from these virtues

[Daniela1982]

Seriously? Only Fans girls are country girls.

[JacobJordan]

🤣🤣🤣 10/10 images got a Google chuckle off those.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps it's not that the guys aren't "men." Maybe they just don't want to date sluts. Maybe they are looking for a partner to be the mother of their future children and they have strong doubts about a slut becoming an unselfish mother Guys are entitled to their opinions, EVEN IF YOU DISAGREE WITH THEM.

Do you think we should pass a law REQUIRING guys to date OF girls?

[strateguy632]

why not same as we can't "turn down fat" ones.

[WindAtMyBack]

It has nothing to do with insecurity. It's because most men don't want to date a whore, which is exactly what doing OF is.

Calling it insecurity on the men's part is just pointing the finger at someone else when your own choices are at fault.

[Pohjolan]

Plenty of guys are willing to date a OF gal. However if we are talking about a committed long term relationship a OF woman comes with;

- Higher risk of cheating.

- Loss of reputation.

- A woman with a OF can't fully respect a guy committing to her as she knows that he is either of too low status to date a woman of higher quality or enough stupid to date her.

[RebelinSteel]

People can date who they want, however people also have standards (for want of a better word). If a girl does Only fans or anything similar, then she needs to be prepared her pool of available guys will be smaller. I don’t date racists, homophobic, transphobic, overly political types. People can date anyone but people need to accept how they are or what they do will influence their dating.

[sheikalana]

Most men don't like promiscuous women. Most men are not okay with having their girlfriends naked on the internet for everyone to see.

[Apple1996]

If it's the same guys that watch OF or porn then they shouldn't be able to judge OF girls since they are creating a market for it. I totally understand why men that don't watch that stuff wouldn't want a girl with a job like that

[itsclearlynicholas]

I've enjoyed OF women in the past 🤭

[strateguy632]

but the guy isn't doing the same thing "showed off body" to everyone so not same.

[Apple1996]

@strateguy632 he's lusting after other women so it's worse than showing off his body

[itsclearlynicholas]

@Apple1996 say again? 😅 What's that being said apple? 🍎

[JacobJordan]

@strateguy632 @Apple1996 is definitely right. As a guy it isn't respectful to a partner or even a prospective partner if he is consuming such content. Same with porn it very much reduces the importance and emotional impact of intimacy. To degrees where some guys who consume porn all the time go into relationships and wonder why their girlfriend doesn't moan like the whore on the porn site. Or beg him to "fuck her harder". Porn is just like a movie. Completely fake and very over dramatic. In 99% of the dudes in porn are not big dicked guys it is camera angle. So many other things lend to how fake it is. Onlyfans is the same. Intimacy whether you call it fucking (which is purely primal very little emotion) sex (some emotion but no love not really any deep emotional feelings) or making love (primarily emotional very connected and sensual etc blah blah blah) the openness of sex in porn, onlyfans hell even Hollywood and general society makes it less and less special less and less meaningful. Until eventually most people just see sex on the same level as a hug or a kiss. Intimacy used to mean something between a man and woman. Or a woman and woman or a man and man. I would say it is little wonder relationships have devolved as far as they have when we have things like onlyfans, porn, hollywood sex scenes etc treating sex as just any old thing.

[CoolCatMar1]

This is true

[itsclearlynicholas]

Huh lol 😂😆?

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

First and foremost, its abhorrent to men. OnlyFans girls will do anything for money; most notably, exchange sexual favors. Men cannot trust a "committed" women whose job requires them to break boundaries. Its not insecurity, its a dating standard quality men will always choose to adhere to.