If your boyfriend constantly talks about sex all the time does he only want sex?

[Anonymous]

We have been dating for 5 days

[Finchie40]

All guys’ want sex with a girl he likes , some guys’ just know how to control it better than others do ’ but all guys’ want sex with a girl that he likes , he wouldn’t be with her period , if he didn’t want to have sex with her. Unless he is a Simp , but that’s a whole different story lol , Most girls’ don’t understand that sex is important to most of us men , it’s our way of feeling closer to her , it’s how most of us were made. When a guy isn’t getting sex on a steady basis with the girl he chose to give his heart to , he will eventually lose interest in her and feel she doesn’t value him or want to be with him anymore and feel she doesn’t love him anymore , which might lead to ending that relationship with her , or him cheating on her with another girl , that doesn’t deny him sex. So if you really like your boyfriend and want to continue having a healthy relationship with him , you are best not to deny him sex constantly, if you aren’t in the mood for sex , please him in other ways , don’t just ignore him completely, that’s where most girls’ go wrong in a relationship, she completely ignores him and doesn’t care about his wants and needs with her. If I am not in the mood for sex , and she is , which barely ever happens with me lol , I will still please my girlfriend in other ways to let her know I value her and appreciate her and love her , I won’t completely ignore her , When you completely ignore your partner, that makes you a selfish person , that only cares about yourself , and your relationship will more than likely not last the long haul , you continue being selfish. Mark my words For any relationship to last both people have to remove selfishness for each other , wear each others shoes before making decisions , make each other your top priority over everyone else on this world , if you can’t do that for your partner , don’t expect them to do that for you , it has to go both ways or it won’t work period

[ohsheeT]

5 days and I bet you he's like a broken record yeah you have your hands full I'm sitting here laughing smiling just thinking what you must be going through

It's funny how you might be the same age but you are 10 times more mature

[Anonymous]

Ugh, looks shouldn't be everything! A super high IQ is amazing, that girl could be super interesting and stimulating to be around. Sure, some guys might chase after supermodels, but those relationships can be shallow. Honestly, a girl with brains and beauty? Jackpot! But hey, it depends on the guy. The right one will see your worth for who you are, not what you look like.

[Anonymous]

yes, absolutely. he will use you for sex. say no once and i bet he'll leave you.

[RavVid]

I'm not sure a boyfriend or girlfriend happens in 5 days but I think it is clear he expects this to be a sexual relationship.

That's not a bad thing as erections are the foundation of relationships.

[Asker]

So you don’t think he’s a user?

[RavVid]

I'm not going that far; just as far as saying he expects a sexual relationship (which all guys do). .

Now a critical question is how soon does he expect this to happen? Classically girls test guys to see if they are keen enough to stick around without sex and reason if he is just after sex then he will find an easier girl and disappear.

It is inherently a negotiation - are you going to get what you want and is he going to get what he wants. A relationship is the eternal compromise between male and female wants though maybe some girls seem to not want relationships now and go for friends with benefits.

[Asker]

He wants sex now

[RavVid]

Give the classic female answer of you are not ready and you need to know he is serious and to have time to have feelings for him.

Look I will ask for sex on a first date. if she agrees I know she does it with every guy and her body count is triple digits consequently.

I win both ways. If yes - great I get easy sex. If no then I have a girl who is worth a relationship. you won't get much respect if you put out in 5 days.

You see we then think you will put out for other guys just as easily and cheat on us. If we want a relationship, perversely we want you to say no even while we pressing you to say yes.

A friend of mine always asks to go bareback into every girl. If she says yes then he knows she is a cesspit of STDs and that he should put two condoms on to be safe.

If your guy isn't willing to wait then you know he is mostly interested in the sex side.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Possibly he's just very keen into you or he's just that kind of guy genetically, he has urges and the urges are his focus as much as getting to know his potential new girlfriend 😉

[itsclearlynicholas]

As in you getting to know he is, anyways

[itsclearlynicholas]

All the best to you two lovebirds 🐦🕊️ l

[itsclearlynicholas]

Have a good day I hope

[DryGermanGuy]

And/or he could be an immature teenager with his brain swimming in testosterone. Ah, to be young again...

[Asker]

He’s 20

[DryGermanGuy]

In today's world that means he is 15, sorry to say.

[Asker]

Woah

[itsclearlynicholas]

He could just have high hormones

[Asker]

@itsclearlynicholas yeah he told he stay horny a lot

[itsclearlynicholas]

All the best to you two love birds 💕 🕊️🕊️ have a good day

[Asker]

@itsclearlynicholas thanks

[LockedinChastity801]

Yes! If you’ve only been dating for five days, then you need to tell him that you absolutely won’t have sex until you’ve dated someone for six months and see how you react. If it’s negatively, he’s not a good guy. if he’s patient and willing to wait, then he’s worth a shot. Six months is nothing to ask, really a true gentleman would respect you if you decided to wait till marriage!

[slatyb]

He's not interested in getting to know you. What are you interested in?

He's found the very thing that will not get a woman into his bed.

[BonzoInBitburg]

He's not interested in an actual relationship. He's just horny and only wants you for sex

[Iron_Man]

It’s way too early to talk about that you should be married

[Asker]

Married at 18?

[Iron_Man]

To young

[Asker]

Okay

[Iron_Man]

Don’t let him con you into sex. You don’t want to be a teenage mother.

[Asker]

I told him I don’t want to have sex but he seem unhappy. He said he’ll use a condom.

[Iron_Man]

Moral values you don’t want high body count he’s a user nobody tries to push for sex after five dates can you see he just wants you know what and to move on

[RedInnocent69]

He constantly wants sex, no question. But not “only”.

[Asker]

What else doesn’t he want it’s not the only?

[Asker]

I meant. What else does he want if he doesn’t only want sex?

[RedInnocent69]

A sandwich once in awhile would be nice.

[Asker]

He wants me to cook traditional food not a basic sandwich

[RedInnocent69]

So he does want more than sex, then?

[Anonymous]

You've been dating for only 5 days... let that sink in.

[Goku1001]

No! It's his hormones. Testosterone probably. So you should listen to him, since his body won't listen to him!

[Tyler2]

He probably thought you were the kind to match the drapes on the first date.

[Jmmmfi4]

LOL 5 DAYS LOL... DEFINITELY NOT A GOOD SIGN

[bobby_bush_eater]

Probably a porn addict...

[noohair]

Five days, I guess so.

[jjj101010]

Depends on the context I guess

[LiamS95]

Not necessarily.

[Asker]

Explain please!

[LiamS95]

He may be so into you and so turned by the sight of you he can't overcome that feeling of wanting to pleasure you.

[Asker]

He always stay horny

[LiamS95]

How old is he?

[Asker]

He’s 20

[LiamS95]

Well he may be a bit immature mentally

[Asker]

He’s very childish

[LiamS95]

That's too bad

[LiamS95]

Personally I like to cook for a woman I'm interested in and cuddle with her for a romantic evening together

[LiamS95]

If you ever want someone to chat with periodically I wouldn't mind if you followed me.

[Asker]

I follow you

[LiamS95]

Thank you

[jahaims]

Yeah lol

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆

[Asker]

What does that means?

[shortster]

Almost certainly.

[Anonymous]

Yesss red flag