Advice on becoming more confident with dating?

[Anonymous]

Bad experiences have rattled me and I don’t feel confident around guys. The last guy, I thought we were getting along well and the way he acted I thought he liked me, or maybe he was just overly friendly, but it was clearly the wrong time (we didn’t share feelings but one can assume) as he had decided to move back home overseas. Whilst I would have liked to see if it could have turned into something, it’s gotten me thinking about what I have been attracting of late. I don’t think it’s purely bad luck every time (I’m sure it plays a small part), but I do know that every time shakes my confidence. I’m also not a fan of online dating and don’t have the apps, I like the idea of meeting someone in person. How do I become more confident so that I can attract the right guy for me?

[teamvic]

Unfortunately for you and most girls or all I'd think

Confidence can't only attract a certain type of guy

To his, if you look good, they want you so you're attracting any and all types

I think what you need to be working on is getting better at reading these guys and seeing their true intentions begot they show you

Because let's be honest for example, guess who only want sex. Majority of them do all the same thing. Now I'm not saying they all say the SAME pick up line or anything. I'm adding their tendencies and the way they act is the same. Very simple to read. Just gotta know how my fren

Whenever something bad happens for me when talking to a girl. I try to just think, well every girl isn't the same, PERSONALITY wise. So if I thunk every girl is gonna be a bad experience why even try. And obviously there are some great girls out there so to me I just have to keep trying. Think of it like this. There are a lot of dumb people in this world, but not everyone is dumb

[Anonymous]

Dating can definitely bring on the nerves! Here's a trick: focus on having fun and getting to know someone new. Before the date, do something that makes you feel good, like listening to your favorite music. On the date itself, ask questions and really listen to their answers. Show your own passion for your hobbies and interests. Confidence comes from being yourself and enjoying the experience, even if it doesn't lead to a second date. You got this!

[DreamCrescent]

ugh the chatpgt answer

[laly520]

the right one would come once u love urself enough n look in right places
there is on real plan to find the right one
make sure to be careful n to focus on their actions more than the words

[laly520]

no real plan*