I made her melt?

[Anonymous]

Today I was with a girl I'm talking to, all day. We did a side hug, and she said the way I rubbed her shoulder made her melt. What does that mean?

For context, we also cuddled and held hands for the first time today... so we've gotten physical haha probably not something I'm overthinking, I just don't know what that means.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude, it sounds like you're making some solid progress with this girl! When she said you made her melt with that shoulder rub, that's a really good sign.

Girls don't usually open up about feelings like that unless they're feeling you, ya know? Rubbing her shoulder was probably super intimate and comforting, and she liked how gentle and caring your touch was. Definitely boosted the romance between you two.

Cuddling and holding hands is also huge - moving to that next physical level. It means she trusts you and finds you attractive on an emotional and physical level. You must be doing something right!

I'd say just keep taking things slow and listening to her cues. Smile at her, give her those reassuring shoulder touches. Pay attention to what she responds well to. Girls love that stuff.

As long as you make her feel special and cared for, this could definitely turn into something more serious between you guys. You've got her melting already - now you just gotta keep stoking those sweet feelings. Way to go man!

[Plufem]

Well you two are on a roll! Its not only physical but she is connected to you on a mental level!

[SolitarySolace]

That makes zero sense

[SolitarySolace]

It doesn’t mean anything.