Will you get farther with a woman romantically by not capitalizing on her looks?

[red324]

Girls hear all the time how pretty they are. Makes me wonder what they think when they meet a guy who still interacts with them, but doesn't mention how pretty she is. Do they become curious?

[Insecure2]

I would say YES. I mean it's nice to know that a Man regards you as beautiful, but if you only focus on looks it's a bit off putting. I had this situation when I was chatting with a Man online and none of us knew how the other looked like. Unfortunately, I was the one asking questions and keeping the conversation going, he just answered 'Yes', 'No' or 'I don't know'. This made IT really difficult and boring. Just when I was about to leave the chat he asked for a photo and after seeing IT he became more talkative, but that made me feel like only my looks were worth the effort for him, I as a person was not. I became dejected. So you gain more by not focusing on a woman's looks as you make her feel appreciated, worth your time and interesting. Then you can start adding compliments about her looks to show she is attractive, too. 😊

[Pinay_ako]

The more you get to know a woman, or a man, especially if they’re kind and genuine, you can’t help but like, care and eventually love them. Romantically maybe not in the beginning but you will somehow learn to appreciate them.

[ZackBan]

Yes absolutely. Praise the effort she put in herself and not her inherent characteristics.

You can compliment her style choice for instance as that is something she worked on.

That being said you can still call her pretty just don't emphasize it like such a huge thing.

Personally if I'm talking to a girl I would compliment her in a "throw-away sentence" as part of story or a statement and won't even stop and wait for a response. It works wonders

[Flatmanlewis]

Absolutely. If she’s pretty then she’s heard it more times than she can even remember. If she’s really pretty then it’s annoying at this point. You compliment her in a sincere and authentic way - particularly if it’s one she can connect with and feel like it’s true - you, my friend, have absolutely gotten her attention.

[coachTanthony]

Say you look very pretty tonight in that dress. Not you look very pretty 🙄

[Hardshell1234]

Yes. Hands down. A simple indication you are attracted to her physically is good but it can’t be the only thing or all the time. We want to know you want all parts of us and appreciate our other qualities.

[Anonymous]

I think there are a lot of friends to lovers type couples where it just started as friends, and for me at least, I don't usually tell my guy friends how handsome they are were when I was first getting to know them because I'm not trying to nor do I want it to be perceived as flirting, so I could easily see how not focusing on looks, but really just getting to know women first without compliments about beauty could still work.

[red324]

Except for when you finally decide to tell her you like her, you'll typically lose her as a friend too because they always end up avoiding you after that.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm talking about friends to lovers who have actually worked out. Obviously further into the friendship there needs to be some kind of mutual hinting that you both want something more, but if you're a friend trying to make a move on a friend who has always and explicitly said, you're just friends and you've not done some recon like ask her friends if there is anything there, yeah, you'll probably lose out.

[handsomelad70]

Yes, because women hear so many lines about their looks. I'd want to know her as a person as well as a body.

[Anonymous]

This is a loaded question. First off, No. But yes. Let me explain.

There's a lot of women that want to be built up and with these women they will gobble up your adulation. But these women are mentally damaged typically. You do NOT want these women, trust me. Your "getting farther" will only end in disappointment overall.

[SolitarySolace]

All women care about is attention. She doesn’t want your love no matter how many times she claims she does she just wants endless attention. Don’t give it to her if you’re smart. Unfortunately there are a lot of dumbasses out there who give in

[slatyb]

Listening and paying attention works much better than talking. When you call a woman beautiful, that's all about you.

[Nikki1989]

I, for one, hate compliments. They turn me off a person more than anything else.

[RedInnocent69]

Yes. Girls either think they’re hot and playing you, or insecure and get uncomfortable drawing attention to themselves, even if they’re insanely hot and ought to know better.

[dolemite58]

I think complimenting a woman’s looks from the get go comes off as insecure, u tell a girlfriend that’s earned it that she’s pretty not some girl you haven’t even slept with yet.

[KrakenAttackin]

Absolutely. Get to know her. Learn what makes her tick.

[Harshbro]

Redpill games are stupid just do what feels natural. It’s that simple don’t pretend to be someone you’re not