What are the signs that you waited too long to ask her out?

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jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I think a relationship is a lot like a 4th year university class, if you did not do 2nd year, you know you will get rejected for 4th year classes by the school computer. Any guy you want or girl if you’re a guy, requires positioning yourself in her vicinity and establishing a level of interaction. If you leave the forest, your spot gets stolen by others.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

Some guys play hard to get for too long then another guy gets the girl. Then you hear she's with another guy. Then it's too late. Especially if the new guy is really cool, she'll keep him and not give you another chance.

82lynx · Accepted Answer

I can count on finding that I dodged a tank shell by not doing so. Considering how they usually treat me, I’m not taking that chance. Fudge ‘em and their disrespectful ways. Besides, being asexual, I have no use for what little they have to offer/use as a weapon.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Several possibilities... 1. She's married 2. She has died  3. You ask her out and she says No

experience · Answer

If you're worried that you might have waited too long to ask someone out, there are a few signs that might indicate you missed your window of opportunity. Here are some key indicators:

She Mentions Seeing Someone Else: If she starts talking about someone else she’s dating or shows interest in, it could mean she’s moved on from being potentially interested in dating you.

The Dynamic Has Changed: If your interactions have shifted and you no longer have flirty or deep conversations, it might suggest that the initial spark or opportunity has passed.

She Sees You as a Friend: If she frequently refers to you as a friend, or you’ve become so close that you're more like a confidant in other parts of her life, she might only view you in a platonic light.

Lack of Reciprocity: If you notice that your romantic gestures or hints aren’t being reciprocated like they used to be, she might not be seeing your relationship in a romantic sense anymore.

She’s Less Available: If it's become harder to get her time for one-on-one meetups, or she’s often busy and doesn’t make an effort to reschedule, she might not be prioritizing a potential relationship with you.

Interest in Your Dating Life: If she starts asking about your dating life or setting you up with other people, it’s a clear sign that she views your relationship as purely platonic.

Time Just Passing: Sometimes, simply the passage of time can cool things off. If a lot of time has elapsed since the initial connection, the moment might have naturally passed.

While these signs can suggest you waited too long, they aren't definitive. If you're still interested, the best approach is to be open about your feelings. Expressing your interest clearly and respectfully can give you a definitive answer and either open up new possibilities or allow you to move on with clarity.

Daniela1982 · Answer

When everyone gets a wedding invitation but you.  I got a wedgie! Me too!

IslaTheWitch · Answer

she is with someone else or simply doesn't look in your direction anymore

DishLady · Answer

She’s seeing someone else… She’s married someone else…

crossdressingrihno · Answer

A really good sign is when you’re looking for signs that you waited too long.

Nikki1989 · Answer

When she has met, someone else would do it.

Markymark92 · Answer

Don’t wait to long cause if you don’t handle it another man will. Yo don’t wanna ask her out and find out she’s happy with another man… getting dicked down…

DrPepper12 · Answer

When she stops hinting, flirting, playing footsie and friend zone or avoids you.

handsomelad70 · Answer

She friendzones you. (Ol' boy's catching on to these newfangled terms !!!)

KrakenAttackin · Answer

She has just started a new relationship with someone else.

AngryCarl · Answer

She's dating someone else. Let's call him LoveDoctorBrad.

spicythunder · Answer

Are you thinking of asking out or are you waiting on someone?

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

If you think you waited too long, you have.

dustybiker2 · Answer

She's standing next to someone else? Wedding ring?

exitseven · Answer

She married some other guy.

Fireguy17 · Answer

she is getting married.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

She's married and has kids.

Twalli · Answer

She's dating someone, but it isn't me

JayBones2469 · Answer

She has another man's dick inside her

Kelley1 · Answer

She culls you out.

noohair · Answer

She moved.

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