I met her (17) at school, she is a pretty lonely girl and I decided to strike up a conversation. Anyway, I confessed that I liked her last Monday and on Saturday I invited her to go to the movies. Yesterday we watched a horror movie. Nothing much happened, besides a little chat before the movie started, we remarked on some scenes, and then walked back to my house together (and got lost on the way), we hugged and then she went back to hers. We are both shy so we didn't open up that much, but she said she liked it and would go out with me again. So two questions: how long should I wait before asking her out again? Should I invite her to the movies or somewhere else?
After a date, always wait at least 24 hours before calling or texting them again. Then, make it a little easier on her and you. Movies are terrible for getting to know someone. When you were younger. If you were going to the sporting good store did you ever call one of your buddies and say hey, you want to ride with me to the sporting good store. Most likely you did and most likely sometimes they rode with you just to hang out and be friends.
Do the same with her. If you are going clothes shopping, or to the sports store or to the auto parts store. Just call her and see if she wants to ride with you. Any of these opens the opportunity to talk and get to know each other.
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Id wait at least a day and I wouldn't text her... Call her let her hear your voice. If you do the movies Id plan on doing a Starbucks (Get her a Vent, i dont be cheap LOL) before or afterward so you have the conversation session with her then just the movies.
Don't wait more than a day to ask her out again. If she is interested, she wants to see you sooner rather than later. If she likes you, where you go doesn't matter--a movie, dinner, a sporting event, or take her to have ice cream is fine. If your parents are their and she knows it, you can invite her to your place to watch TV.
Please, man. You're overthinking it! She obviously likes it, so waiting a certain time will get you nowhere. Soon as possible. You should probably ask her where she wants to go, tho.
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