Is it too competitive to find a pretty, quality girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I’ll give you an example. I’m in great shape and tall. Not as good shape as the guy below, like I need to work on abs. But this is what girls see everyday on social media, so they think it’s common and not as rare as it is. So this is the level of competition we’re up against.

Not to mention it’s the guys with perfect faces, social status that are only visible in a girls eyes. It’s just too competitive, or settle for a girl that you find unattractive?

Example of what you see on social media

Too competitive

No it’s not

[Anonymous]

Not really. There are a lot of creeps out there nowadays and woman would be more than glad to date a normal, respectful, fun and easy going average dude. Social media makes it seem that women only wants those ultra rich billionaire giga chad type of guys but in reality no… most of us are looking for a decent guy that is loyal, respectful and loving.

[jennifer_bloom]

You’re also a jobless liar with mental illness who needs to date 300 pound woman to get rent money.

[slatyb]

Life is not a beauty contest. Don't compare yourself to others, and don't compare women to each other. Go meet people and find someone compatible.

In the meantime, put "You Don't Own Me" on repeat.

[V_Injector]

Not going to happen... just bang them all. Avoid relationships. Listen to this.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/sl9OmHy6c6o

You can thank me later.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Not at all. Be a man and learn how to approach a woman in public without being a creep and you'll have almost no competition. There has never been a better time for average guys to date quality women because most guys are cowards IRL.

[Anonymous]

Yes that is a very true statement. Money and or assets will make up for lack of physical attractiveness. Women are very mercinary. If you don't have either one, you ain't even in the competetion. Learn to be by yourself or lower your standards. You have to have something to bargain with.

[Asker]

I know single rich guys

[Opinion Owner]

I do too, they are single by choice, not because they cannot get a woman they want.

[Cheapskate]

You can spend your whole life trying to figure out what women want and never figure it out. I think it is better to just go for what you want and take the rejections on the chin.

[NathanDavis]

I never had any competition

[Billlewis]

For most guys, yes.

[Iron_Man]

Find somebody you are attracted to