What are the ways ugly men can give up on dating, since for them it's a ZERO SUM game?

[Anonymous]

[NamerOfStars]

Well, evidently he can refuse to take any positive action and choose instead to bitch about it on the internet until the end of time.

Grow up, dude.

[genericname85]

i am not quite sure that you understand what a zero sum game is. can you explain how dating is a zero sum game?

if you don't wanna date, just don't. there's no way needed. just stop doing it.

[Asker]

Even if ugly guys put in the effort they cannot get a date with ANY woman.
I'm not talking about attractive women, ugly men cannot date average women, below average women or even disabled women, or women with autism.

Women only see attractive men, all other men are invisible to them.

We cannot change women and their nature, all we can do is cope.

What are the ways of doing that?

[genericname85]

ok let's make it simple. so if the woman is the prize in a zero sum game. who's the other player?

[Asker]

Who's the other player?

[genericname85]

in game theory, games always happen between players. so you'd need a t least 2 players and a win or lose condition.

in a zero sum game, the winner wins EXACTLY what the loser is losing. that's why i was confused about you calling dating a zero sum game. cause i was wondering who would win when you lost.

[Asker]

Women are the only winners in the dating game, men never win.
Especially ugly men, we lose every time.

[genericname85]

ok so if dating is a zero sum game between you and a woman. and you're saying women always win. what is it that she wins and that you lose? cause remember a zero sum game is defined by the winner winning everything that the loser loses.

[Asker]

The loser (man) loses his time, wealth, and energy every time he plays the dating game, not to mention the mental toll.

The women always GAINS validation, gifts (aka wealth), more opportunities EVERYTIME she play's the dating game.

IF you are UGLY and you play the dating game, you are a moron.

[genericname85]

so the man loses his time wealth and time. ok. fair enough. but then it's not a zero sum game, cause the girl didn't get the time wealth and energy you lost maybe she got some money givent hat you paid her food but for a zero sum game she would have to win the entirety of the things that you lost. i'm just being pedantic, cause if you're throwing around big words, you should know what they mean.

But anyway who you think is beautiful or ugly is subjective not ubjective. since it's ubjective you can change it. if you go for women that look a certain way and you notice you're getting rejected a lot and not scoring a single time, you should change something instead of doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result every time. cause that's litterally insanity.

also consider that the woman also loses time. i don't believe that the goal of having a date is to reject a guy. i think the goal is to see if he's a match and if you don't feel that he is a match, you have to reject him. you'd do the same if you notice she's not what you want during a date right?

so i would say you are a moron if you play the dating game wrong and expect to win. but you can change that so it's up to you not to be a moron anymore. it's an achievable goal.

[genericname85]

and dude i get it. frustration from rejection sucks but if you keep losing a game, you should learn to get better over time.

[genericname85]

sorry for the typos.

[Asker]

Dude you can't change your face it is what it is.
Women just play with men, for them it's a thrill to reject men, as it validates them and boosts their ego.

[genericname85]

no you can not change your face but you can change who you're dating.

[Anonymous]

What do you mean by "ways ugly men can give up on dating"? I mean, just do it.

[Anonymous]

Just don't date. I'd recommend shutting up about it, too, or else you won't have any friends either.

[loladevine]

Why can’t they date “ugly” women?

[Asker]

WE WISH WE COULD.

[loladevine]

You can do it!🙏

[Billlewis]

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