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Guys, would you still date the girl you like/love without sex for the moment? (Page 2)
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Ideally, yes that's the way it should go, keyword SHOULD. But here's the problem, the dating atmosphere is so screwed up to the point where that hardly ever works anymore, and both men and women are to blame for that. From ONS, to hookup culture, to some guys getting it for free, and some guys having to wait, to girls not trusting the right guys, to girls quickly trusting the wrong guys, it's all a big mess.
Simple solution. He should have sex with other people while you are waiting to get to know him.
This way you get your wish and he respects your boundaries and he gets to have the physical intimacy that he needs while you wait around to give it to him yourself.
Or is it that you want to get everything YOU want and he has to just deal with it because his needs aren't as important as yours are?
Yes there's more to life and a relationship then sex. If you're in a relationship for the sex then that's the wrong reason. It's about being there for that person and caring about them and enjoy spending time with them and doing other things spending quality time together.. in sickness and health for better for worse for richer for poorer
I dated a girl I liked very much for a long time... without sex. We traveled to Nassau, Las Vegas, went to concerts, dined out, etc. Only had sex after a long period together. We worked in the same office for a long time.
I have had several 'sexless' woman partners and had no problem with it, as the relationship was a reward in itself for me... I just did not push the sex issue, since being past the point in life of not having a perpetual erection.
Personally as a desensitized virgin I don't care about sex anymore. All I want is a woman who actually cares and doesn't wase my time by making empty excuses about why she can't go on a date with me instead of telling me she isn't interested. I'm either used for my money on 1 date or my time is wasted by a uninformative, excuse making, time wasting woman. I have had only bad experiences attempting to date women. I'm done trying.
Not a guy, but just an honest opinion. If he is the right guy, he will respect your wishes and would love you regardless of whether you have sex or not. If this is a huge issue for him then he probably isn’t your person!
If she wants to have it in marriage i don't have a problem as long as i love her we are together.. if i made sex a first priority and the determine factor of our relation then i don't respect her or see her as a human rather i prioritise pleasure over love with my partner.
True, that’s happened to me… he said he wasn’t going to invest time if we weren’t going to be intimate eventually. He said he has higher priorities to worry about
Yeah it hurt..
Women who are loved by men are so fortunate.
Yeah , she left me after treating her like my everything.. i didn't want to approach her sexually as I wanted that to be later in our relationship.. i wanted it after 2 years at least because i want to have sex with someone i truly love. She left me and cheated with another guy.. she wants to prioritize pleasure over our love.. then i got a trauma from being cheated on and took one year to feel somehow better
To be honest , i see lots of stupid girls and women who attach themselves with toxic , bad relations while leaving real men who love them... And the same with stupid men too
Aww I’m so sorry 😢 that’s why I stopped believing in love and the idea of it
Its highy ill advised to bail at a nos moment when you know for sure your just shy of a few many monents.. n bammo... you be all out of ammo she"ll keep pulling that trigger sohan want you be going om a wow to ow so fast when she warms up she'll gets to be faster you ll only really Win when you learn how to ride her.. so best to take easy its the right answer. Rushing it beleive me what a fucking Diaster... building a better bond will get you what your after.
If you're a virgin, we don't have sex for 6 months (although I will finger you and eat you out frequently), half that if you aren't. I will wait for 2 years if you're not ready after the 3–6-month mark. After that, I dump you.
I won't propose before a 3-year minimum, so we're having regular sex before I propose.
From my viewpoint, I believe in marriage before engaging in physical intimacy. However, in order for me to consider marrying someone, I must genuinely like or love them and ensure they demonstrate respect, care, and honor in the relationship.
That's a loaded question. Of course I would. The question is, how long?
There's an old saying "If you dated her for a month and haven't had sex yet, congratulations! She's having sex, just not with you".
You don't like being the fool, guess what hun. Neither does he.
To answer your question. Not likely. If this is a common problem for you you are very bad at picking quality men. This will most likely always be an uphill battle for you. Good luck!
For how long?
And did she have a past of casual sex, or is she waiting because she is actually a good quality girl that wants an emotional connection first?
I have dated a gentleman like that, therefore you can also. Men like that are still there, just hiding.. 😁
Yes, ma'am. One of the worst kept secrets about guys is that the less frequently we're having intercourse, the sweeter and more generous we become, so if a woman wants to receive the maximum benefits from her relationship with a guy, she'll be most successful by keeping him strictly celibate at all times --
Guys And Ladies, Is Not Getting Any Pussy Sometimes Even Better Than Getting It? ↗
@Billlewis Thank you for sharing your insights on my comments sir. ☺️ Really enjoyed reading your post.
Yes, ma'am, you're quite welcome. I think it's important for a beta male to know his place.
YES. In something now where that is sort of the case, but I don't want sex either. An emotional bond and cuddling are so much better than sex for me (plus no post but clarity to make me sad).
I don't believe sex needs to be involved at all, because a lack of lust leaves room for so much more genuine love.
If you want sex at some point, this is a good way to filter out the guys who just want to use you vs guys who genuinely like you.
Sex is an important part of the relationship for most guys. It makes us feel much closer and accepted. If it's a few months, then I'd probably be okay with it, but if she's still too uncomfortable at that point, I don't think I'd continue dating.
Oh, most definitely. Call me crazy, but I firmly believe that guys treat women much better when they're not having intercourse with them.
Definitely!
Yeah, of course a guy too needs to know the girl well first. To me love sometimes go beyond mating. That depends on the partner im with. Appreciating the outer beauty n sharing hearts is essential if it is love. Deeper pleasure comes later when the right time arrives.
Depends on the age of you and the guy. A teenage early 20's guy isn't getting laid much to begin w/ so they are going to be more likely to wait. Once a guy gets into early 30's plus sex is going to be expected.
I need to know she truly has feelings for me and this isn’t some convenient bs excuse to eventually permanently friend zone me.
I had two beyond agonizing incidents in my youth. Women know how idea how insulting that is for a man.
I would still date the girl yes. Simply because I'm not interested in sex, especially at dates. I think you are very mature to first want to get to know someone better before.