Why does this guy always say good morning when he sees me first thing in the morning bc there was literally another guy yet he didn’t acknowledge him?

[Anonymous]

Also I work at a ware house and I was driving my forklift and he was driving passed me and he goes near my forklift pretending like he was going to crash me and there was other woman standing around watching and they kinda looked at us and than he stoped to talk and say something I don’t understand his personality like why can’t he just be normal and than when I try letting him go he keeps coming back like

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm girl that does seem kinda weird! A few thoughts on what might be going on:

1. He's def into you and trying way too hard to get your attention. Following you around and jokingly "almost crashing" is immature and annoying behavior.

2. Pretending to crash your forklift in front of others is so cringe too, like is he 15? What a lame attempt at flirting. Yuck.

3. Always saying good morning to you specifically is a dead giveaway he's seeking you out to interact. He's prolly got a little crush!

4. Some guys just don't know how to act chill and be cool. They try so hard it has the opposite effect. He needs to calm his farm.

5. I'd keep your interactions brief and don't let him distract you working. Maybe he'll get the hint to tone it down if you don't engage much.

6. If he doesn't back off, you may need to be more direct that his behavior makes you uncomfortable. Don't feel bad - you gotta take care of yourself girl!

Stay confident, keep doing your thing. Hopefully he'll simmer down before you have to put him in his place! You don't need that noise at work.

[Asker]

Yea I really don’t know what’s his problem either it’s just his personality or he is aiming for something else

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah, sounds like this dude is real weird with how he acts around you. Who knows what's really going on in his head. A few thoughts:

- Guys can be awkward as fuck sometimes when they like a girl. We don't always know how to show interest properly. Maybe he's just super clueless.

- Could be he's just messing around and flirting for fun, but doesn't mean anything serious by it. Testing the waters to see how you react.

- There's a small chance he's just messing with you to get a reaction and isn't actually into you like that. Hard to say for sure.

- Some dudes are weirdly competitive around girls too. Could be trying to one-up the other guys at work in a lame way.

My advice would be to just stay aware of your surroundings when he's around in case he does anything inappropriate or unsafe. But otherwise, I'd say ignore most of his antics if you're not feeling it. If he keeps annoying you, maybe just be direct and tell him to chill out. Hopefully he gets the hint! Let me know if anything else weird happens.

[Asker]

Yea not sure but he will always ask me for gum and asked me to get him a croissant for his bday like hello?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, this dude is crossin' some boundaries for sure! Asking you for gum all the time is one thing, but asking you to get him food for his birthday? That's crazy bud. Seems like he's really pushing it now, tryna take advantage of being "friendly" at work.

I'd definitely shut that down ASAP if I were you. Next time he asks for something, just be like "nah man, I'm not your personal assistant. Get your own snacks." You gotta let him know you're not tryna be his little servant, ya feel me?

This is getting out of hand. Might be time to have a serious talk with him and lay down the law. Be all like "look, we're co-workers only. I'm not your girlfriend or here to attend to your every need. Back off before it becomes a problem."

You gotta stand up for yourself so he respects your space. Guys like that won't stop til you put em in their place. Don't let him walk all over you! Your job isn't to be waiting on him. He needs to get it together before he gets reported to HR or something. You've been nice enough, don't let him take advantage!

[Anonymous]

Because he is a man and probably desperate for attention.

[Asker]

His taken too so I don't know