Sounds like an honest and genuine man, that is not looking for any attachment. I have mean plenty of fun and great women. But we go out and realize that she is at a different place in life than I am. That she might want or be looking for different things, and I am not the right guy for her at this moment in her or my own life.
Has nothing to do with her, I mean she is looking for what she wants... it's just not what I want at this time. Maybe later, maybe never... that is just how it is.
Yea I thought it went well and there now he was like I had an enjoyable night but that’s it no I thought u were great or I too thought we had a connection just nm
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Sounds like an honest and genuine man, that is not looking for any attachment. I have mean plenty of fun and great women. But we go out and realize that she is at a different place in life than I am. That she might want or be looking for different things, and I am not the right guy for her at this moment in her or my own life.
Has nothing to do with her, I mean she is looking for what she wants... it's just not what I want at this time. Maybe later, maybe never... that is just how it is.
Sounds like he’s either not interested or has some internal stuff going on, mental health, personal stuff etc
I was thinking that too sounds like code for not interested in you but I am in others
Was the date okay, plenty interaction, chatty etc?
Yea I thought it went well and there now he was like I had an enjoyable night but that’s it no I thought u were great or I too thought we had a connection just nm
Really strange, was he expecting “more” on the date?
No guess he just wasn’t feeling it
It happens tbh. I’m fairly crap to date as I need some level of emotional connection, I do however give it a go over a couple months
Maybe he wants another date sometime in the future
Or is it code for not interested in you
@Emorgan maybe, but saying it like he did, leaving an opportunity for him
@Emorgan pm me so we can talk