What does it mean if a guy says you haven’t scared me off I’m just thinking I’m better off on my own not looking for a partner after having a date?

[Emorgan]

[DaveJord]

Sounds like an honest and genuine man, that is not looking for any attachment. I have mean plenty of fun and great women. But we go out and realize that she is at a different place in life than I am. That she might want or be looking for different things, and I am not the right guy for her at this moment in her or my own life.

Has nothing to do with her, I mean she is looking for what she wants... it's just not what I want at this time. Maybe later, maybe never... that is just how it is.

[RebelinSteel]

Sounds like he’s either not interested or has some internal stuff going on, mental health, personal stuff etc

[Emorgan]

I was thinking that too sounds like code for not interested in you but I am in others

[RebelinSteel]

Was the date okay, plenty interaction, chatty etc?

[Emorgan]

Yea I thought it went well and there now he was like I had an enjoyable night but that’s it no I thought u were great or I too thought we had a connection just nm

[RebelinSteel]

Really strange, was he expecting “more” on the date?

[Emorgan]

No guess he just wasn’t feeling it

[RebelinSteel]

It happens tbh. I’m fairly crap to date as I need some level of emotional connection, I do however give it a go over a couple months

[Jennz6]

Maybe he wants another date sometime in the future

[Emorgan]

Or is it code for not interested in you

[Jennz6]

@emorgan maybe, but saying it like he did, leaving an opportunity for him

[Jennz6]

@emorgan pm me so we can talk