Can a guy and a girl be just friends?

[Anonymous]

Without one of them failing in love or the guy wanting to fuck the girl?

[BIZARRE_TRUTH]

No its impossible

Men only talk to women for a reason:
Transaction
Sex
Family
Aid
Education

A man won't talk to a woman without a reason

Therfor you cannot just be friends

It will turn into a relationship of sexuality or the man will vacate the relationship

Guys and girls can't be friends logically

And there's even scripture about it in the bible

[dustybiker2]

Wow @sirderpsalot123 Looking at you in a whole knew light.

[sirderpsalot123]

I think it's safe to say that most men have had thoughts about sleeping with their female friends, at least the ones they find attractive. That being said, any mature man is more than capable of keeping those occasional thoughts to himself, and maintaining a respectful friendship with a woman.

Men absolutely can be just friends with women. Only adult children think otherwise.

[sirderpsalot123]

@dustybiker2 lol

[dustybiker2]

gag on an average Friday night

[BIZARRE_TRUTH]

@sirderpsalot123 thats just not true

Men do not care for frivolous relationships

And any honest and intelligent man would admit that

And they would also admit that the bible even preaches against it

Because you can scientifically prove that men and women cannot be just friends

[dustybiker2]

There you go, science, the Bible and prove all in one comment. How can you argue that? @sirderpsalot123

[sirderpsalot123]

Ignoring the blatant sexism towards men...

The bible doesn't say men and women can't be friends. It says we should avoid the dangers of temptation and because of this many people won't be alone with a member of the opposite sex. Plenty of people have friends of the opposite gender and only hang out with them in group settings. The bible doesn't prohibit this.

Humans are animals, with built in instincts, but have a brain that can control behavior based on those instincts. Yes, the basic instinct of males is to mate with women. Yes, there are men who lack self control, but not all men are the same. And just because something is natural doesn't mean it's good and that we shouldn't decide to be better.

Teaching kids to avoid the opposite gender only grows adults who don't know how to behave or interact with others.

[sirderpsalot123]

@dustybiker2 the way he views men, it's amazing that we aren't killing other men and claiming their woman.

[dustybiker2]

@sirderpsalot123 Right. The power of brainwashing.

[BIZARRE_TRUTH]

@sirderpsalot123 you're describing yourself

[Jmmmfi4]

100 PERCENT RIGHT

[dragoblack]

Absolutely. But sadly, too many guys get butthurt, because of being rejected then offered friendship. Emotional intelligence & maturity helps.
People are people, regardless of sex & gender. If more people started looking at it in that way, instead of how people usually look at others, life would go so much smoother.

[Plufem]

I have a group od friends of my cousin and we are best friends, we even do topless dances and tea parties but that's it!

[Fanfare690]

I've never was able to have a platonic friend. One or the other grew attraction and wanted to fuck

[Twalli]

Yeah, quite easily. I've only wanted to have sex with two of my friends, one is my girlfriend now. The thing is, I don't make friends based on appearance at all. If we have shared interests, we can be friends. So since physical appearance doesn't enter into it, an attractive girl with similar interests is just random.

[Anonymous]

As long as they respect the friendship.

I've had women try to exploit our friendship for her own personal gratification. When that happens I have to end the friendship. There's a clear line, a boundary that the other gender isn't allowed to cross. And as a friend you shouldn't want to.

[ProbablyClueless]

Of course it's possible. We have 8 billion people on Earth with 8 billion personalities. It's just extremely rare for 2 people two be able to truly be friends.

[Asker]

Okay

[exitseven]

I had some female friends. Sometimes I wondered if we should be more than friends but mostly I just appreciated having people that cared about me.

[Asker]

Okay

[CrabCakes11]

Yes. I have several male friends I don’t want to have sex with and who don’t want to have sex with me. It’s not that crazy of a concept

[BIZARRE_TRUTH]

you're full of shit

[Asker]

@BIZARRE_TRUTH lmao right!

[Asker]

They def thought about it at least once lmao..

[CrabCakes11]

@BIZARRE_TRUTH I’m sorry you’re mentally incapable of thinking about women platonically. It must suck to have such a limited brain. I don’t have mentally handicapped friends.

[CrabCakes11]

Probably not

[Vegasrunner]

@CrabCakes11 Lol, you just don't know they want to have sex w/ you.

[CrabCakes11]

@Vegasrunner They don’t. I’m not very attractive

[Vegasrunner]

@CrabCakes11 That makes sense

[Nikki1989]

For the millionth time, yes. Most of my friends are male and always have been.

[Nikki1989]

And anyone saying otherwise are probably just horrible people to be around.

[Asker]

U never had feelings for them or had dirty thoughts/hookups with them?

[BIZARRE_TRUTH]

like you

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't see why not! I've had loads of girl friends.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it can happen with people...

[DrPepper12]

Again? YES!!! ITS NOT HARD!!

[Asker]

Okok

[OtterMan68]

yes, my best friend is a girl

[RedInnocent69]

Yes, but you also can’t overcome biology.

[b_lova]

Absolutely.

[sirderpsalot123]

They can

[In_Trance]

nope

[Asker]

Why nope?

[In_Trance]

For the reason you asked the question