Would you reschedule a date if you didn’t sleep well?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Only slept for 4 hours and worked whole day, with 4 hour sleep, I don’t function very well. But I have a date pretty soon, is it a good idea to go on a date sleepless?

I guess I cannot change anything now.

Plus, I want to go. Just I am a bit tired.

[FatNeville]

I don't sleep well ~95% of the time, so if I schedule a date, I date it based on the assumption that I will likely not have slept well immediately preceding it. But I have learned to adapt to going without good sleep. For someone whom that affects to an extent that it is bothersome, he or she would be perfectly justified in rescheduling a date, for that reason or any other. If you go on a date, it should be because that is what you wish to do, and it should occur at the time that you wish to go on a date. If you feel like it would be better to postpone it until a better time, that is the right thing to do, despite the disappointment it may cause the person with whom you intended to go on the date. At the same time, it is wise to consider that person's perspective and situation as well. Did he or she go through considerable hardship to clear other obligations to be able to go on the date at the given time, and would it be burdensome for him or her to go through such actions again for a postponed date? That may influence your decision. Also, it is polite to let the person know with some degree of advance notice that you wish to reschedule, though life being what it is, this is not always feasible. In short, do what your heart says.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Every day is a new day & some days we aren’t always at our best so when it comes to a date if you didn’t sleep well or you are really tired or sick or something like that rescheduling would be the best thing to do but doing it last minute is a NO NO.

[Pinay_ako]

Be honest. If he understands, then all the more you have to make it up to him when you see him again. This time, look your best and give him all the attention he deserves.

[Bethany22]

You could warn him ahead of time, and leave it up to him if he still wants to go.

[RebelinSteel]

Yes I have, I’ve explained why etc and left it upto them but I have said I’m getting a taxi or tube etc and not driving. Also changed location so can get there easier. If they are interested, they understand, if not I really don’t care.

[Iron_Man]

It depends how well you know the person you can always just hang out and watch a TV movie and have takeout food as long as he didn’t try anything sexually with you or you can watch the Los Angeles Lakers play the Denver Nuggets tonight round one in the playoffs at 8:30 PM in America

[Nikki1989]

No, whenever I have made a date, I have always delivered. I never sleep well any way.

[FatNeville]

@Nikki1989 I'm more or less in the same boat, metaphorically speaking.

[Nikki1989]

@FatNeville Yeah, insomnia.

[northerngal]

Well being exhausted would likely make the date not a lot of fun for anyone. Good communication is always important. Let him know then decided together what is the best course of action.

[Sirenboobzilla]

I would let him know l, but I'd still go. I'd probably just down a t hour energy right beforehand. But that's just me

[Bricealan]

Well, explain to him that you are exhausted, and not just putting him off, and don't want him to think you are giving him a brush off. Reschedule soon but be sincere

[molonski2]

No , that is not a reason to do so , just go though with what the plans were.

[Peridot25]

I would hate to date you. You don’t seem to care about other’s well being.

[molonski2]

I'd just need a far better excuse than " it wasn't the best night's sleep " life goes on , adaptation to circumstance is important.

You wouldn't miss a day work for this reason , therefore same is applicable for a date , just tell the truth upfront and go , it will work out.
Been out in far worse circumstances than that.

[Peridot25]

Many people call out of work when they’re exhausted. Apparently, you just don’t give a shit about someone’s well being.

[Peridot25]

This is why dating is a fucking joke. You’re not allowed to take care of yourself without your date being pissed off. I fucking hate how we’re suppose to act like robots for someone that’s temporary.

[Peridot25]

I’m so glad I’ll never date. I don’t ever want to put someone temporary above my well being.

[molonski2]

Well , each to their own opinion I guess , but yours is a little on the extreme side , how could you possibly say you would never date? How do you intend to meet a partner?

[Peridot25]

Who said I wanted one?

[molonski2]

@Peridot25
Each to their own , I made the assumption that most people do.
Anyhow , whatever you like , its of course your choice.

[Peridot25]

I say be honest. It’s better to reschedule than go on said date while not functioning properly.
Your well being comes first and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

[Chazmatazz269]

If it’s your desire to make a good impression and you admittedly don’t function well on too little sleep, you should probably reschedule.

[itsclearlynicholas]

To quote that character in that film 🎥🤣 with that guy who says Jack what's his name he says paraphrased "you're darn right I sure did" lol 😂😆

[JacobJordan]

No peoples time is important not just mine and a mistake on my part doesn't justify wasting their time

[Rangers]

I would, if the alcohol I drink caused me to miss the date. I'd feel horrible if that happened, and I'd vow to make it up to her

[DishLady]

Absolutely not. Your date should see CRANKY TIRED you… unless that’s what you’re both into.

[FatNeville]

Always avoid what you're both into. That is what makes a relationship healthy.

[Brandi555]

If you want to go and feel up to it then go ahead. But yes, you can totally reschedule if you aren’t feeling up to it.

[LiamS95]

Just share that with your date and make sure he knows you still want to go even though you may not be in a top functioning state.

[Drumlin2001]

4 hours is plenty. Wait till you have kids, you'll have to function on much less

[DonFredoCorleone]

No, because real men are satisfied with 45 minutes of sleep a day. Personally, I only sleep 45 minutes.

[Raaj4you]

Yes, reschedule it. Don't go if you are not feeling well. Even if you go you'll feel uncomfortable and uneasy.

[DonVitoCorleone]

No, real men sleep for 15 minutes. Greetings from Sicily 🇮🇹🇮🇹🇮🇹🇷🇺

[imfreeze95]

Go ahead and reschedule but do it then and there so he doesn’t think you’re taking advantage him

[KrakenAttackin]

He will just assume some Chad was blowing your back out all night.

[Anonymous]

If it was my ex, No.

but other girls 100%, yes.

[IWILLPLEASEYOU]

Best ever reason to get this sexy lingerie into bed I'm really tired

[capri_queeen]

Nothing wrong with rescheduling a date. They would understand.

[Zavarakatranemia]

I would probably cancel and hopefuly the other person understands

[NathanDavis]

I never sleep well, so no...

[laly520]

I doubt u would be able to enjoy the date

[Wise4myage]

I probably would if I was super tired.

[thegreenyogi]

I would.

[Dongie]

No..

[eagle1951]

maybe

[AnAmazingGuy]

yes why not?