I’m starting to develop feelings for a married guy what should I do ( he basically led me on) tbh?

[Anonymous]

And I know it’s wrong I never thought I would fall for a married man honestly

[Tim2nice]

You can’t help who you fall in love with and if you’re not the one doing the chasing don’t feel guilty. Let nature take its course. Allow yourself to be loved. But be prepared if things don’t work out

[Asker]

I don’t want to be loved by him his married but I just let it go

[Tim2nice]

But you love him, so why don’t you want him to love you back?

[Asker]

I don’t exactly love him more like starting to have feelings for him

[Asker]

But he the one who be leading me on

[Asker]

I’m doing my best to stay away from him

[Tim2nice]

Why do you wanna stay away from him? I tend to get closer to people I like, not run away from them

[Asker]

His married this is heading the wrong way and can end up bad he has a beautiful wife and three kids

[Asker]

My question is what shall I do to not make it worse

[Tim2nice]

His wife and children are not your responsibility. If he’s interested in you and you like him do what you have to do. If that means dating him or just hooking up, go for it. You only live once

[Asker]

You crazy

[Tim2nice]

Why am I crazy? You like a man, he likes you. What’s the problem?

[Asker]

I wasn’t looking for this kinda love and attention I’m trying to find a available guy

[Billlewis]

If you think it's worth the aggravation, then by all means, continue seeing him. If not, quit while you're ahead.

[Asker]

We see each other at work and have the same shift and schedule

[Asker]

If I could I would switch but at the moment it’s not possible

[Booklover_90]

He’s married. Therefore, the answer is nothing. Cut off all contact with him. You don’t want to get caught up with a married man.

[Asker]

I never did

[Asker]

Than what’s up with him

[Booklover_90]

Don’t wonder about it. I don’t know how you know him, but cut off any contact you may have with him before things go any further.

[Asker]

We see each other every day at work

[Booklover_90]

Okay well, try to put up boundaries with him. For example, keep your interactions brief (i. e. saying good morning or goodbye).

[Asker]

Yea when I try to keep my interactions brief he thinks something is wrong and will try to be all
Nice and have a conversation

[Booklover_90]

Tell him you don’t want to talk and that nothing is wrong.

[Asker]

Got ya

[Asker]

Been trying trust me and when I try avoiding to have a conversation he may pass by me and be like good job luci you doing a good job I’m so proud of you

[Anonymous]

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[Asker]

Okay?

[Anonymous]

,🤣🤣

[Asker]

What’s funny I wanna laugh too