Why women have lower standards in looks?

[Anonymous]

It is not status thing. I don't count attractive women dating rich ugly men

I see many rich hot women dating ugly broke/middle class guy. I am talking about them. Hot rich guy only date attractive girl.

Are men incapable of falling in love? They only care about looks?

She is daughter of Nicki Hailey. governor of south carolina. And he is maths teacher at a middle school. Her status is way way higher than her. So is her wealth. Yet she is with him

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For personality.
I know women who are with broke guys. Who beat them.

Any men won't tolerate this disrespect

Men are superficial. And are not capable of falling in love

Rich hot young Women can literally fall in love with broke ugly fat old guy who beat her.

Men can't. Men are not capable of falling in love

Extremely superficial.

And men literally bully ugly girls. Hot girls don't bu

[HighValue]

The majority of women are average looking, but they think they are a 9 or 10 because of delusion based on the pathetic people that give excessive compliments to almost anyone they meet. (If someone knows math, they know that the majority of people have to be AVERAGE). The one in the picture is just average too, nothing special to look at.

Also, since the majority of women base a lot of their interest in a man due to his status, and when he loses his job they leave, it is actually WOMEN that often don't love their partner. That is also why most women expect the man to do something romantic/thoughtful for her, but think she doesn't need to do anything to make him feel special or cared about.

[Asker]

I am talking about high status women dating lower status men
That women is loaded. He is middle class
Why are you talking about status?

Women date so many deadbeat guys lol

[Babygirl_S]

She is definitely above average

[Asker]

@Babygirl_S and i don't know whose status he is talking about lol. Only she have status here

[Finchie40]

Because most women prefer personality over looks, I am not saying looks aren’t important to her but that isn’t her number 1 priority , compared to the way most guys’ think. A guy mainly
Looks at beauty first Then her personality if he is looking for a relationship

[Asker]

I know women who are with broke guys. Who beat them.

Any men won't tolerate this disrespect

Men are superficial. And are not capable of falling in love

[Finchie40]

Well she is dumb if she is with a guy that beats her and treats her like shit , sadly she more than likely has low self esteem about herself and doesn’t feel she deserves anything better. Sadly she is the only one to blame if she is choosing to stay with a guy like that. I disagree with you about men not being able to fall in love. Men fall in love with a girl that chooses him the same way he chooses her , For any relationship to survive and for love to grow , both partners have to make each other their top priority over everyone else on this world, When a guy finds a girl that isn’t selfish , that treats him like Gold and doesn’t hesitate to keep him happy in bed , he will more than likely love her with all his heart. Sadly selfishness is what kills most relationships, Most people do not know how to remove selfishness for their partners’ and then they wonder why they keep failing in relationships

[Asker]

Women who date ugly guy. Also have low self esteem then

[Asker]

They're literally destroying their genes

You know what dude.
I used to get bullied by men for being fat.

I know how men treat ugly women.
While they simp for pretty girls

Being ugly women is very hard even if your mom is rich.

She is destroying her daughter life

I could never do that with my own daughter.

[4ngelic]

women care slightly less than men about looks but pretty girls never go with ugly or super bland looking dudes if they dont have $$$$ (though for the ugly guys it's mostly not genuine love). if they do it's most likely that dude glowed down, like he got fat or let himself go and love makes you blind so..

i've seen girls with dudes a bit less attractive than them a lot but i've never seen a pretty girl with a dude who was wildly less hot than her

[4ngelic]

as for why women have slightly less standards for looks it's cos biologically women have to consider money/status a bit, while guys dont

[4ngelic]

*if they are with non $$$ not hot guys, ment that it's because they used to be hot but glowed down

[Asker]

I am not sure if women consider money or status. You see them with broke dude lol

[Anonymous]

On average women go more for personality/traits other than the man’s appearance. He still has to be attractive to her but other factors are placed over that. Men on average tend to go more on appearance, but she has to have other traits etc to make them compatible but appearance would be ranked higher. People just look for different things, not saying one is right or wrong it just is what it is

[Asker]

I know women who are with broke guys. Who beat them.

Any men won't tolerate this disrespect

Men are superficial. And are not capable of falling in love

[Opinion Owner]

I think you were just hurt by someone and are using that as a crutch. Men are just as capable of falling in love as women are just as there are men in abusive relationships with women and can’t get out.

[Asker]

You would be see rich hot guy. With ugly broke women to
If men were actually capable of falling in Love.

They're superficial

[DarkLegacy]

Lol is this a serious question? Women are far more artificial then men, it is just a feminist myth that men prefer looks over personality. Women are just deceptive and manipulative about it, a bit like with liking bad guys and everything else that women do that they shouldn't.

Besides standards should not be applied to something that people largely cannot help, it should apply to behaviour and personality.

And i find what you say baffling, for instance are women capable of falling in love instead of a guys money. You slate men for going for looks which we don't then point out about women marrying rich men. You prove with your own description how women use men for money.

This is why women marry old men, because they have money not because they love them.

[Asker]

I am giving you example of rich hot women. Going for money

What money? Her money
Because only she have it

[DarkLegacy]

It is because women prefer older men and not younger. Besides it just goes to show that men have more morals then women and don't take advantage of old rich women.

[DarkLegacy]

Pink anon you are just trolling, most younger women prefer older guys

[DarkLegacy]

Pink anon you are now contradicting yourself

[DarkLegacy]

You are probably a sad guy pretending to be female. Im not even going to bother to look at that poll, every poll i have seen says the opposite. Anyone can produce a poll and add results to it which is what you and others do. Opinion polls on a site like this mean nothing.

How pathetic are you having to present fake polls to try and prove your point. Troll elsewhere

[ThaMaskedMarvel]

Women go more for personality & traits. Looks aren't as important for women as they are for men. If the guy has the traits she finds attractive, then she wants that guy because he's doing something personality-wise & trait-wise that other guys aren't.

[Asker]

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So basically you believe that men are superficial? Women aren't and are capable of falling in love? While men are not capable of falling in love
I know women who are with poor guy. Who beat them

What kind of personality? Lol

[Asker]

And nicki Hailey herself have dated a ugly white guy lol.

When you think about it.

[DishLady]

I think it's more a matter of whether the guy makes you feel safe and happy. Then really looks and all that don't matter. Guys tend to be more visual, which impacts their protective instinct and a bunch of other things.

Yes, love can be a thing, but not at the same rate or manner as it is for women, which I believe to be partially due to social conditioning.

[Babygirl_S]

This post resonates with me. I have talked to so many women on this topic. Most of them say they either want someone with a good personality or wealth. I feel like the odd one out because I select based on other criteria including his looks and behaviour. I find it surprising that most women don't care about a man's physical appearance and sometimes even his status.

[Asker]

I don't know about wealth. Many women date broke guys

I won't have made that post if women actually cared about status. Most female celebrities I follow are dating lower status and uglier guy

Loo at Margot robbie. Her boyfriend look below average. He was assistant director before meeting her.

[Asker]

You know what. There are even attractive rich women. Who date ugly broke guys who best them

So i don't know about personality. I think that women are just capable of falling in love. So they tolerate domestic violence. And are capable of looking past. Looks and status.

Men are very superficial.

[D_Bonez_nutt]

It could be anything from a virtue signal (race fetish anyone?) to a guy that's part of a circle of friends. I've seen that last one a lot... a group of girlfriends, dates one guy from another circle of guys and before you know it the whole group is matched up with guys in the other group.

As far as men falling in love... I think they feel love deeper than us sometimes. Depends on the guy really.

[IslaTheWitch]

maybe because we have higher standards in personality?

[Asker]

I know women who are with broke guys. Who beat them.

Any men won't tolerate this disrespect

Men are superficial. And are not capable of falling in love

[IslaTheWitch]

lmao...

yes, some women create relationships with abusive men, and there are reasons for that. However, most relationships are normal, and both partners love each other, which means men are capable of falling in love and love.

And there are also relationships where men are victims of abusive acts...

[Asker]

Men only tolerate abuse if women is hot.
Women tolerate it. Even if he is ugly and broke. Because she love him

So many men hate their wife for ageing. And getting fat after pregnancy

I just don't see how they are capable of falling in love
Women are capable of tolerating anything when they're in love

[IslaTheWitch]

I think you have never seen home abuse... those are normal women and normal men; some are hot, and some are under the average... like any other people... to be an abusive person, you need specific personality traits, not appearance.

[Anonymous]

Because a lot of women aren’t shallow and only date someone for their looks and money. Just because you consider someone unattractive doesn’t mean she views him the same way. Personality, trust, the way in which someone treats you trumps looks and money anyday

[Asker]

I know women who are with broke guys. Who beat them.

Any men won't tolerate this disrespect

At least you agree that men are superficial

[Opinion Owner]

Not all Guys are superficial. My ex whom I was with for 7 years was someone a lot of women were interested in, while I’m someone who people have called ugly. He saw something in me because he chose to be with me over all those other women. Again it’s not always about looks.

[Asker]

I guess all men are not bad

[handsomelad70]

I don't know why there are so many "Beauty and the Beast" couples. Perhaps a lot of women aren't as shallow as us men about looks. (Women, however, ARE quite choosy about their potential partner's finances, dating to when women were expected to be stay-at-home mothers with a wage-earner husband.)

[Asker]

Then why women date men who are uglier and poorer than them
She is the one who is providing

I literally posted example here. Her mother is very rich and that guy is middle class. She is literally part of elite

[handsomelad70]

Younger women will date ugly guys with a cool job (musician, mechanic, etc.) in hopes dude will succeed and marry them. Especially in the case of musicians' girlfriends, the ladies tend to leave their lad if he doesn't make it big at a certain age, probably late 20's.

[Asker]

Dude she ended up marrying him lol even though he is middle class and she is extremely rich

[itsclearlynicholas]

In all my lifetime so far, the number of times I've seen decently attractive women dating decently looking guys, is probably equal. In other words, no lower standards from my eyes 👀 and I speak from 12 years being in the real world across many jobs, studies on campus, beyond, etc

[itsclearlynicholas]

Rarely would I see couples who either were mismatched in looks or who both seemed like they settled aka ugly people for uglier people lol 😆

[EmyyWolf]

HE IS ATTRACTIVE.

look at the jaw. and he has a straight nose. Just cause you’re racist don’t mean he isn’t attractive

he's probably also jacked, muscular. But with the suit we can’t see it

[Asker]

Twitter was calling him ugly. I am not only one lol
Chris Brown is black he look good
I am not being racist
Body mean nothing. Face is most important

[EmyyWolf]

He appears to have a square jaw. Which is hard to come across.
Maybe I need to see a side profile of him.

But she isn’t a 10/10 either. She kinda has horse teeth.

[Starrrboy]

Lol this is what I've been thinking.. I see a lot of attractive girls with some really average or below average looking guys.. you would automatically think it must be his personality, right?🥺.. but then you learn he actually treats her like shit and also cheats lol... let's face it , women are just weak creatures 🤷‍♂️ haha..

[molonski2]

USA is obsessed with " Status " , the word makes no sense , quite frankly live and let live as does it really matter? They can be with whoever they like..

These examples are few and far between there are many that are opposite.

[Sonorous]

Generally speaking, men are providers & women are receivers. Women are often willing to settle for a man's looks for the other things a man can provide.

[Asker]

Then why women date men who are uglier and poorer than them
She is the one who is providing

I literally posted example here. Her mother is very rich and that guy is middle class. She is literally part of elite

[Sonorous]

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[7Phoenix7]

🎵 This is the season to be anon... Troll la lalala... la la la la🎵

[wiltingrosepetal]

Do you only see people for their wealth and appearance? Sad way to live

[Asker]

Yes. When don't do same thing

Then you need to see it in that way

Men are superficial

[Asker]

When men don't do same thing

[wiltingrosepetal]

I'm not talking about men, I'm talking about you. Are you cognitively unable to picture a reason why two people like each other, outside of appearance and money?

[Asker]

You know what. People are not kind to unattractive women

She can do whatever she want. But her daughter probably would be ugly. and anyone won't be kind to her. She would struggle in dating and won't have privileges like she had as a attractive women

[Asker]

Guys legit used to bully me. When I was fat. I know how men treat ugly women

I could never do that to my own daughter

[wiltingrosepetal]

So your childhood trauma stunted you emotionally and now you see relationships as manufactured business trades. Getting sadder by the second.

[Asker]

This is reality of how guys treat ugly women
I see them simping for attractive women. Doing her homework while I get bullied

Good looking women have so many privileges. Ugly women don't.

At least my face is not ugly. I can lose weight and get decent treatment.
I am actually trying to lose weight and gonna learn how to do makeup
Later. So people don't treat me like sub human

But her daughter would have ugly face. You can't do anything about it

She would resent her mother. For destroying her life. Your life as ugly women is shit. Even if you have money.

[wiltingrosepetal]

I don't think you understand that my focus isn't on men. It is on you. There are three determinants of liking: similarity, reciprocity and proximity. What makes two people want to date isn't money and it is not beauty. It is based on their shared qualities, how kindly they treat them and how much time they share together. Appearance helps, yes, it does. But the more you enjoy a person's company, the more attractive they start to look. Hence why, of course, those 3 factors play a much bigger role in relationships than the nonsense you are sharing.

You're denying psychological evidence to suit your depressing image of men.

[DarkLegacy]

Good comment but bear in mind she has gone anon

[wiltingrosepetal]

@DarkLegacy Yeah, I should know how this site works by now lol

[DarkLegacy]

I know but some anons are very good at it

[CriticalCatDad123]

She’s with him because he is black. My theory is that women prefer black guys because they’re constantly told that blacks are just as oppressed as women.

[Asker]

First she is half white and half indian. Not white
Second doja cat is dating a ugly white guy.

It is not about race.

[CriticalCatDad123]

Didn’t say anything about her being white. I said her being a woman and him being black. Young people are constantly told that white men are these evil patriarchal oppressors especially if they’re going to school this is drilled into their head like it’s boot camp. So I’m not surprised if women gravitate towards dating black men.

[CriticalCatDad123]

Besides if she is Nikki Haley’s daughter it would make sense in her case because Nikki Haley is a democrat

[Asker]

Doja cat white boyfriend is lower status and 10 year older too and bald and look short. Black guy is tall and in her age range

Doja cat is dating down in looks, age and status

I know many example like this. I didn't posted them. Because I didn't wanted post to be very long.

[CriticalCatDad123]

Low status doesn’t matter in this case

[Asker]

I see rich hot women with broke ugly white guys too.
It happen even in real life. In some case there broke ugly boyfriend even beat her. Yet they are still with him

I was trying to understand why they do it

My theory is that men are incapable of falling in love. And only care about looks

Women would date a ugly old broke guy who beat her. Just because she love him

[CriticalCatDad123]

It’s because women only care about the money

[Asker]

Those women are richer than their ugly broke white boyfriend.

I don't count attractive women dating ugly rich men

I only rich attractive women dating lower status men

[CriticalCatDad123]

🤷🏻‍♂️ if given you my opinions. She’s either with him because he’s black and she’s a woman or she’s with him for his money. If you say she couldn’t be with him for his money than she’s with him because she’s told constantly that blacks are just as oppressed as women. I’m done with this conversation

[DreamLife7]

@asker doja cat is half black and half Ashkenazi jew

[DreamLife7]

@criticalcatdad123 they're both people of color so I'm not even understanding what his race has to do with her question. Chris brown is black and is very attractive. So what was your point in bringing up his skin color?

[Peridot25]

@DreamLife7 He’s just mad because no woman wants to touch him and no one is agreeing with him.

[DreamLife7]

@Peridot25 right, because it sounds like the man pictured is triggering his insecurities

[Asker]

@DreamLife7 i agree. Many black men are good looking. And there are many ugly white men. Same way there are ugly black men and good looking white dude

[DreamLife7]

@asker exactly so him bringing race into your question is odd

[DarkLegacy]

I've never considered it that way, i thought it was just a weird fetish.

[CriticalCatDad123]

Well it just makes sense to me, @DarkLegacy. It’s like how blacks prefer to be around other blacks. I had a roommate in college who switched dorm rooms because he wanted to be in the room with other black guys. It makes sense if women are always told they’re oppressed and blacks are always told they’re oppressed that women would ignore the so called “White oppressive men” And gravitate towards another supposedly oppressed group. When in reality none of them are oppressed and whites aren’t oppressors.

[genericname85]

there's more to a person than looks and if you're not seeing what a person likes in another person the reason for that is that you don't know at least one of them.

[Asker]

And men only see looks lol

[genericname85]

That's misandrist nonsense. But you know that.

[Arik_jade]

I think there might one or several reason out of below mentioned
1. True love
2. Sacrificed due to parents force
3. Sacrificed due to bad situation
4. Threatened to get marry
5. Money Attraction 💰 🤑

[LiamJHayden]

People are individuals and have individual standards and likes.

[Asker]

Tell me single example of rich young hot guy. Dating a older middle class ugly women.

[LiamJHayden]

You are not interested in other opinions. You just want to hear your own opinion parroted back. Typical of an anon on this site.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

because money and status are an even bigger priority to women

[Asker]

Then why women date men who are uglier and poorer than them
She is the one who is providing

I literally posted example here. Her mother is very rich and that guy is middle class. She is literally part of elite

[Filthy_Immigrant]

let me guess he's a thug that looks like Jeremy Micks

[Asker]

Lol that guy is not a thug.. Just black

[Filthy_Immigrant]

oh well I guess she must be a mudshark then

[Asker]

Her mother is indian and father is white. So she is already mixed

It is about her dating a unattractive guy. Who is also middle class while she is extremely rich.