Would you forgive your partner if she/he cheats?

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Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Tough to do. I walked in on a girlfriend one time in her apartment on a Monday morning, just after my dad and I worked on her car, all day Sunday, and I had just put all new tires on her car the week before.

She, standing there naked in the living room, lighting a cigarette, and grabbing a pillow from the couch to cover her up. I did not even bother to look to see who she had brought home from the night before. To top it off she must have been so drunk from the night before, she did not even have presence of mind to lock the door, and that is how I happened to 'walk in.

You can imagine the feelings I had. Unforgivable under the circumstances from my POV. But as a caveat, I had cheated on a long term girlfriend prior to that, so I had no basis to 'throw stones'. I did quit seeing her and helped her move to a new apartment later.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Accepted Answer

NO, relationship done. no exceptions. Would never trust her again. No reason to attempt the relationship further.

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

Only if he looks like young Henry Cavill and always comes back to me. It's a very hypothetical situation that I have considered and I think I would be okay. Omg

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

No, absolutely not.

ohsheeT · Answer

No. Oh wait a minute let me rephrase I could probably forgive for cheating...

But what I can't forgive is them coming home every night and acting as if nothing has happened and the bullshit stories and the lies of pretending that they love you and they want to be with you

Because basically all they're doing is playing you as a fool and thinking they're so smart they're getting away with something that's the part that pisses me off

Then just smiling and pretending that their day is wonderful not a care in the world it's all fake it's all in the inflation and it's just because they think they're smarter than you and will never get caught it's just sad the whole thing but it is what it is and it's better to find out earlier than later

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Well, i don't know... should i? ... after 8 years,2 kids, a house and a car, and finding Condoms, and Messages, and leaving in the middle of the night, coming back as "sluts do" 3,4,5 am... should i forgive her? 🤔... Should i "suck" the other's man's Dick? Fuck No!, Should i taste the other guy's saliva?, Fuck No... So 1000% No! Cheating is a Choice.. not a Mistake!

Mr_twoface · Answer

So cheating is something I take very seriously and condemn no matter the reason! With that said, cheating always occurs due to something missing in a relationship and the lack of communication! I always tell wifey to be open and transparent with me, no matter the reason and/or consequence. I rather get sad and upset and we can talk over it, than being cheated on. As for being drunk and cheating, F those who believes this is a reason.

LiamS95 · Answer

I was engaged to a girl but I came home from the office extra early one day snd found her in my bed riding some random guy. I broke the engagement and kicked them both out of my house.

So I don't know but I guess I wouldn't forgive her, but there could be many different circumstances to take into consideration so it's hard to just give a yes or no answer.

NathanDavis · Answer

forgive, yes... I can always forgive but the relationship would still end, there would be no going back to any of that

7Phoenix7 · Answer

I'll forgive, but I'm not staying in a relationship with that person. Trust is only the base of a healthy relationship. The trust will most likely be gone after that.

Nessie6 · Answer

I don't think I will ever be able to forget. I will forgive, we all make mistakes but I don't know how I will ever trust what the person says... A lot of insecurities

Billlewis · Answer

Oh, I always do. To me, it's only cheating if she has sex with another guy and doesn't tell me about it.

At3mis24 · Answer

To forgive this is to be weak and let yourself be trampled on, the person who does this does not respect you

bowenw · Answer

It would depend on the circumstances and what her relationship is with the other person.

Squatting_Slav · Answer

I'd forgive and still love and care for her but the relationship is for sure still ending

MicahRaine · Answer

Yes I would. If it becomes a common thing though and she spends a lot of time hiding/denying it then it becomes a deal breaker

OtterMan68 · Answer

Everyone deserves a second chance. Not a third, but a second. Also, as a Christian, I don't have a choice but to forgive. Forgive yes, forget no.

lilBigPotato · Answer

Depends on many things... Why, for how long, with who.. There's no simple yes or no

Kelly6 · Answer

@msprosperity Yes would as He forgave me

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Possbly, but I don't think I'd give her a second chance

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I don't know.. only if I cheated first 😂😂

DishLady · Answer

Forgive? Sure. Move on? Yes also.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

She's never your girl, it's just your turn.

JosyJosy · Answer

Sure, just wouldn't take him back.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

No I’d be showing them the door

DrPepper12 · Answer

Cheats is a very flexible word. Be more specific.

ThrushBurst · Answer

I would use her.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

dudeinohio · Answer

No way

LavLavLuv · Answer

Nope

jahaims · Answer

Nope

Iron_Man · Answer

No way

mickeysmonkey · Answer

Not a big deal

BLP11520 · Answer

Laugh hysterically

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