Is it good to just let go of your appearance because you don’t have a chance?

[Anonymous]

I have completely let go of my apperance because women would still avoid me or act like I didn’t exist

[DishLady]

So girls or fall apart, then?


Come on, man. Wake up and figure out who YOU are. Get out there and DO something with your life. Don't hang everything on the notion of finding a girl…

[Asker]

The thing is people have always told me focus on other things and women would come to you but that’s not the case and the reality is we as humans are wired for romantic relationships if you don’t experience it you feel inferior and less because you watch everyone around you date get married have family’s while you are miserable posting sad questions like this online

[DishLady]

No, bro. I'm saying EVEN IF WOMEN DO NOT COME you need to be YOU.

You're acting like you have no value if there's no girl in your life, which is really not a healthy mode of thought.

I'm pretty sure that my #1 reason for being on earth is not just to go be with a guy... I don't think that's anyone's prime directive at all. It's a REALLY NICE perk if you manage to get that... but you're not going to get anywhere with this defeatist attitude.

[Asker]

I’m not saying that but you can go through life accomplishing everything but never feel what it’s like to be loved

[DishLady]

I really don't buy it. There's more than just guy-girl love. If you allow it, you can feel love around you every single day. You're focusing too much on the romantic aspect of love.

But bottom line is that for others to love you... you have to love and respect yourself... which includes NOT letting yourself go.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I would not say I'm letting healthy figure go lol. I'm quoting gag tomorrow from boredom. It's a 20s person game lol and merrily I'll enjoy my offline and not get fat lol 🍔 🥤 🍟

[The_Sexpert]

Majority of people can look pretty good with proper skin care , diet and exercise

[rachel776]

always look your best