What to do when you don’t feel good looking enough?

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should I get a nose job put Botox

Beach_Girl · Accepted Answer

I remember that I am perfect just the way I am. I don't need to be perfect for anyone, nobody's perfect. I know that I was made how I should be and that I'm beautiful inside and out even if others don't believe it. NEVER believe you don't look good enough, because the people you are comparing yourself to haven't had the same experiences that make you look like you do. Wait a few years and you'll think that you do look WAY nicer then them. YOU just be YOU. You were made to be who you are and you don't need to change who you are to please anyone else. I wouldn't get a nose job because your nose looks fine and that would be a waste of money. Believe in YOUR inner beauty and that will get you as far as you need to go. You are a VERY nice looking person, you DONT need a nose job to look better and you shouldn't feel that way. Just remember the inner beauty is what counts. Because if someone truly loves you, they won't care about appearance, they will care about whats within, how you care for others, your personality. :)

idkwhatsreal · Accepted Answer

You look good. You are only 23 Way to young to consider surgery. You have great lips. Makeup tutorials helped me and here’s millions of them , if you want to try to change your look . Your face is pretty proportionate in my opinion. Nothing is too big or small. You do not need work done. If you don’t already, just learn the amazing wonders make up can do and accentuate your attributes like your lips and make your eyes pop .
And have fun with it.
Try a bunch of looks till you find one you like and can do, then use it for a week and try a different one. Till you have a few that you know and make you feel good or hot or happy. After that, sky is the limit. The best thing is to think you look good. otherwise make up kinda looses its effectiveness. But if you you know you look good it radiates and makes you feel even better. Have fun
Bye now

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

I think you should "roll with it". You look fine the way you are. Your face is symmetrical, you have nice eyes. Do you have Botox in your lips? I would not have him/her inject as much Botox in your lips next time. Your nose is a nice shape overall. I have had rhinoplasty many times and am qualified to speak to that particular issue. I would suggest this: If you are unhappy with your nose, contact a Board Certified, Plastic surgeon and ASK him/her what he/she feels about your nose and go from there.
I would definitely reduce the amount of Botox in your lips, (I have ALSO had Botox in my lips but not to that extent. Women having rhinoplasty, have MUCH better success with it than men, because your skin is thinner and conforms to what you want to achieve with the surgery.
I would not say these things had I not gone through it myself.

See a plastic surgeon for a consult and get a Professional opinion.

razelove · Accepted Answer

I'd say try to find confidence and do an objective assessment over how this one aspect affects your life before making permanent decisions. Oh no, your nose isn't a cute little button. If we were dating, you were sweet and paid attention to me, I could care less.

That is kind of besides the point though. If it's something you obsess over and prevents you from being confident then look at your options, though botox seems a bit extreme for someone as young as you. Also I'm failing to see why. Do you have hidden wrinkles or not like that your lips curve up into a smile?

Try to find that confidence first though, if nothing else, it's a lot cheaper than surgery. I think you look pretty. Though your natural hair color looks better in my opinion.

KelleyNice · Answer

Your nose is fine and may be ideal for your face. Therefore, you certainly don't need a nose job. That would do more harm than good. In fact, don't do anything to change your looks. Just do what I do. I know that I am not the prettiest girl. But, it is not just looks. Some girls have that something extra that make them stand out. Therefore, sometimes, I wish I had more of what they have. However, then I look around and, other than a few exceptions, I realize, wouldn’t trade my looks for theirs. And, that should apply to you because you are well above average.

ĂþhƏNa · Answer

I always have this even every people around of me tells me I'm really good looking. I can say that to you, your face isn't ugly too just you need to do more self-care and change ur style. Actually you have very nice lips. The fact is we think we aren't good enough because probably you have the same trauma from your childhood like me. Have u ever felt not enough when you're young? Did your parents always talked about others kid and humiliated you? Or your friends? I was very shy kid and I felt insufficient desperate and empty a lot. But I can tell you that you're the only one can change this.. whatever you do people won't like something on you.. there is always some people who would love us because of its we are. Love yourself embrace ur beauty girl ♡

SlashedSunset · Answer

I think you look nice already. Maybe there are other factors at play. Maybe try switching up you wardrobe, getting some professional pictures taken or working on a workout regiment. These are just suggestions but I hope my meaning gets across. Before deciding to do something so permeant focus on areas that you can improve on your own maybe talk to close friends and family and ask them to be brutally honest with you on where they think you might need to improve yourself if you are still worried. Hope this helps!

Leshen · Answer

Imma keep it a buck, you're beautiful love. You don't need any surgeries but if that's what you want to do I think it's important to know that's okay. It's your body and money.

To answer your main question, when I don't feel beautiful enough I remind myself that I am beautiful inside and out. And if there is anyone that shouldn't doubt that it's myself. Confidence will amplify that beauty and spread it to others feeling the same way. Daily affirmations in the mirror, music, and expanding your style can help with that as well.

KennethNoisewater · Answer

I honestly would say you don't need either. Especially botox at your age. The nose job argument is always the same for me and I also ask- "Do you think your nose currently looks worse than a bouched nose job?" A perfect example would be Michael Jackson at the end. His nose looked aweful. So Do you think your nose looks worse than michael jackson's nose?
My point is sometimes surgeries go bad. They are not all perfect all the time. If you want to take that risk just know that it doesn't always work in your favor. But on top of that I really don't think your nose looks bad.

TallAnon · Answer

See, the problem is not actually your looks. You look good, you don't have a scars, burn wounds etc. That means you objectively don't look bad. The problem is that you are not content with your looks. That's a problem in the mind. You have to start looking for solutions there, not physically. That might mean looking for a therapist, practicing some meditation, that kind of thing. I guarantee that getting any surgery or "enhancement" done will not help you because that's not where your issue lies.

kinggeorge007 · Answer

I funny think you look bad. In fact you look amazing. You don't need anything. Just put upa smile and be nice to people and see the difference. Trust me that brings you to a whole another level. I know because I've been there and I've changed the rest in looking at myself. Be worth enough to yourself. That's the key.

jst4fun · Answer

I honestly think you’re really beautiful with out getting your nose done. I mean you’d look pretty if you had it done too, but I’m thinking it might make you look more basic. Your confidence is more important than any surgery you could have done though. Where are you considering getting Botox on? I can’t tell if you could use it anywhere because I don’t know how you move your face. Do you mean Botox or fillers?

lightbulb27 · Answer

good looking enough for what? If you watched American idol... the people look mediocre there and then look like stars once they make the cut. It's makeup and style generally. not cutting at a young age.

Common issue with personalities and girls especially to "nit pick" their looks and be critical. It's a no.

if you have self esteem issues and body awareness issues, that's messed up stuff in your childhood that needs addressed inside.

WonderBell99 · Answer

You look great. It’s okay, we all feel insecure some days. You have to work on yourself mentally and be more self confident. There is always going to be someone more physically attractive than you, and the cycle of constant insecurities is never ending and exhausting.

Your nose looks amazing. It’s what makes you, you. Please don’t change anything about yourself. These beauty standards set by social media are toxic and unrealistic. You are beautiful just the way you are.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Tell your self esteem, “f*ck you, I bet you’re the type of person who used the school chrome books to browse pictures of food to get turned on. Don’t try to make me feel all bad and insecure and whatnot just because the only thing you’re remotely good at is making deals with hobos telling them you’ll give them 10 bucks if they give you a shnob behind a Denny’s”.

Just4ThisNow2 · Answer

Surgical procedures and injections exist to treat the symptoms, but never fix the cause of why you might feel as you do. Start with yourself. What has you not feeling beautiful or attractive? How are your self-esteem, confidence, and stress levels? What can you do about these that do not involve sharp implements?

Ghostluck · Answer

No, you are insanely hot. Doing anything to yourself would only remove your beauty. Don't go messing with yourself, trust me, I would be all over you if I thought you were interested and we clicked. So if I would, I KNOW other guys would as well. Leave yourself be just as you are.

DaveJord · Answer

I when I get down on myself I call myself a idiot, and give myself a mental hand slap and get my mind right. Nobody else can do that for you, you have to do it for yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

1. Stop comparing yourself to fake Instagram models.2. You’ve asked this before and the consensus was don’t do plastic surgery because there is nothing wrong with you.
3. You jumped on @crossdressingrihno who was giving actually you compliments. Don’t get upset at people when you ask them for their opinions.

MCheetah · Answer

The only time I don't feel good looking is on a day that ends in a Y...

As for you, you just need clearer skin, your eyebrows plucked, and your hair done. You don't need a nose job. Just some aloe vera and daily moisturizer.

Anonymous · Answer

Since you asked for it, a nose job would probably make you an 8/9 out of 10. You have great dick sucking lips. Could use another blonde streak in your roots. Skin looks great. Eyebrows are ok. Can’t see body so no opinion. Would definitely fuck. Can’t say anything about personality except you may want attention/verification? Maybe insecurity issues?

DermalPunch · Answer

Why would I feel that? How I look is the smallest part of me and if I'm not not good looking enough for something it's probably something I don't even care about or want anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

no start mewing  your nose will get smaller

Oigit · Answer

Work on improving you self confidence rather then going under the knife. You are in no means unattractive.

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