Feels like I'm not 'good looking' enough for a girls?

[Jonny59]

Whenever I talk to a girl I always end up with the same answers 'aww you're cute'' ''sorry you're not my type'' things like that. I noticed that they always looking at my body, face, shoes etc. I'm not fat nor slim i'm pretty normal, average body, is it because of my height? I'm just 5'8 and 166Ibs kinda short for my country. Yes I do have a little belly and a little love handles but they're invisible when i'm wearing clothes and I don't think this is the problem hopefully. My style is pretty normal I wear casual clothes/sporty mostly. any advice is appreciated😅

[btbc92]

Buddy, you have to learn to love you and who you have become as a man. You shouldn't be taking any of those things personally, especially with 'aww you're cute' because it's just our way of saying you're cute. That's it. You people look for something sexual, and that will lead to trouble. At the same time, you have to get to know people and make friends with women. I tell this to girls and guys alike. MAKE FRIENDS. Your body and how you look practically means nothing. You are going to random strangers, and or you are speaking to people who probably don't even know what your intent is. As a 19-year-old, you have enough on your plate to be worrying about, and I can tell you by experience, please focus on your life and do what you have to do. Make sure that dating is something you should be pursuing especially concerning marriage and having a family. Because you don't want to just date anybody and you don't want to do it for the hell of it. It's important you understand that and allow yourself to grow and mature in ways where you do not have to keep constantly think about this stuff.

Whether your good looking or not is irrelevant. What is relevant is why are you seeking and pursuing women? That is the question you must ask yourself. Because as long as your not sure of yourself, you will keep having these problems with no results in communication. Don't worry about being good looking. Don't even worry at all.

[lexhart24]

don't listen to women they all lie through their teeth, women care as much or more about looks then guys, they will break all their rules if Leonardo Dicaprio walked in the club. You have to have the 666 for the women today, 6 feet tall, 6 pack abs and 6 inch d or bigger or even 6 figure income, we don't stand a chance. The internet messed everything up with dating sites/apps to much competition.

[Don-_-Don]

Posting an actual picture of yourself here would help a whole lot.